How well does the porn you choose to watch fit with your pill position?

cxj · 2017-08-24T10:47:07+00:00

100%, I watch Cuckold porn because I'm a Blooper and I circlejerk off using my leftist hand, also I only watch homemade porn as well, because the people filming it own the means of production.

GoldPilot · 2017-08-24T11:34:34+00:00

Stop worrying about cognitive dissonance in your boner-motives. It's just porn. It's private and nobody important is going to judge you or care unless you slip up and get caught in the act.

Princeso_Bubblegum · 2017-08-24T11:56:39+00:00

I get off to transgender themed erotica and femboys. :V

[deleted] · 2017-08-24T13:14:18+00:00

Yeah. Um.

I'm not sure your pill affiliation has much to do with the porn you watch(ed).

I am physically attracted to large breasted brunettes. I have been ever since I can remember. That didn't change when I changed from deep blue to crimson.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2017-08-24T13:39:08+00:00

I like realistic porn where the emotions and body language and screaming or lack of is genuine and this is usually the classic stuff or amateur, so i guess my views align with the porn

BiggerDthanYou · 2017-08-24T11:34:05+00:00

I only watch big cock porn because I don't like the sight of a cock that's smaller that mine. That makes me feel sad for both porn stars and that's a turn off.

I like their fake "oh wow it's so huge", the way their pussy grips to the cock, when he goes as deep as possible but still has an inch left, etc

It's not really BP because I objectify them based on their cock size and like to see women struggle with a cock that's just too much for them.

I've always found it bizarre that so many modern equalist women have rape fantasies or favor rough sex with choking and spanking.

I never understood why this is seen as such a contradiction.

Oh no they want to be able to go to university and to be taken just as seriously in their job as men, but they want to have kinky sex. How are those two things related?

Equality isn't achieved by putting on a strap on dildo; it's achieved by getting rid of gender stereotypes so that it's not the norm that people assume that any woman must be an illogical child who's sole purpose in life is pleasing her husband.

Omnibrad · 2017-08-24T11:35:06+00:00

Stop watching porn.

Women experience their sexual fantasies of rough sex. Their natural state is to be dominated.

Your fantasies are contrary to natural law. You want to be the object of sexual desire and not the subject doing things to the object as is masculine nsture.

You are basically a woman. Stop watching porn and mmaybe your balls will come back.

shoup88 · 2017-08-24T14:28:40+00:00

For the most part, the porn I watch does not match my pill. I usually watch really degrading, rape fantasy stuff. It's not that I put myself in her shoes though - I like watching it happen to other people. I'm more of a voyeur than strictly submissive, I guess.

Some of the stuff I enjoy bothers me, but not because I'm a feminist. Just because it's really terrible acts to happen to a human being, and it makes me worry I have a cruel streak.

I'm not too bothered though. None of my preferences really line up with IRL behaviours and morals. For most people, fantasies are just that.

alreadyredschool · 2017-08-24T13:07:23+00:00

Go to a Dominatrix if youve got the cash. They cater to your fantasies so it's like real life porn. It scratched an itch for me, and I came out of the session feeling high as a kite.

Real life women often wont share your fantasy specifically so it isnt worth the effort to hunt them out and try and get them to delve into your depraved little mind.

Ive been to a few, and slid right back into my normal sex life reasonably easily.

To answer your question, Ive cut back on porn and try not to masturbate now. It's kinda not that hard cos Ive got a gf. When we started going out, I was still habitually watching porn and it took me an age to come which I think made her feel a bit down.

I find my sex life is a lot more satisfying when I dont masturbate. Sometimes I go the best part of a week without seeing her, and after that Im so ready for a release that I ravage her. Last week I went about 8 days without a release, my orgasm lasted about a minute and I couldnt move for about 10 minutes after that.

With this as well, I look forward to just fucking much more than doing anything particularly kinky. At one point, I didnt feel really turned on during sex unless my gf was tied up, or gagged, or leashed, or cuffed, and I thought it was getting a bit weird. It's been refreshing to just enjoy straight up sex.

So I guess in this sense Im trying to be more red, as Red Pill people usually advise not using porn.

Love8Death · 2017-08-24T13:43:11+00:00

It's in line with my views, it'd either be typical young and beautiful porn, or various extreme or violent forms of porn.

Different days, different strokes.

I will add that as my views have changed, my porn taste and fantasies drastically changed too.

[deleted] · 2017-08-24T18:56:15+00:00

Like xxxtentacion sais.. I'm a pornography addict.

I'm into Latinas with big asses having anal, tranny porn, gangbang porn, cumshot compilations and amateur.

I used to be into a site called Abused Latinas (idk if its around anymore) that was about Latinas getting choked with penises, tied up, slapped, spit on, done up the butt hardcore style, written on with a marker and and everything else degrading you could think of.

Now I mostly watch Brazilian stuff (cuz the girls are the finest and seem to love anal) and tranny porn.

Through my many years of watching porn I learned that .... Idk what I learned but porn rocks and idc about politics.

JustStatedTheObvious · 2017-08-24T10:56:28+00:00

I have no illusions that women actually want this in real life

It's true there's only a minority of women into it, and too many who only like to pretend, but those who really do enjoy power exist. And they feel the same way about submissive men who are worth the hunt - they question whether the fantasy exists in the real world.

It's probably best to have references when you find them, or the patience to build up a connection; they've likely been burned.

Often.

Still, it can work out. My girlfriend was a pure sub until she collared me, and my exes were varying degrees of dominant, with some being far more alpha than the men posting around these parts. But yeah, sadomasochists are overall more common than pure sadists. If you really want her to be in control, it won't always be the way you imagine it in your fantasies.

But is that so bad?

Sometimes a relationship requires a bit of give and take, even when that give and take is measured in torture. Just remember, there's another person experiencing all of this with you. A femdom relationship, like any other relationship won't always just be about the sex, even if sometimes you have a hard time keeping your hands off of each other.

With all that said real life femdom is...there's a world of difference between what's fun to imagine, and fun to actually experience. Being forced into unwanted sex - even when it's a woman forcing you - can feel like being caged, and watching your options for the future vanish one by one. It can completely destroy a trust. Please, if you ever do find your dominant, agree on a safe word, no matter how ridiculous it might seem to you now.

Especially if you intend to play around with restraints, breathplay, or violent kink.

Consensual non-consent can only extend so far, before it becomes dangerous for you both.

Love8Death · 2017-08-24T12:05:38+00:00

I only watch porn featuring women directly humiliating and insulting the viewer. That way I even swallow the black pill when I masturbate.

Love8Death · 2017-08-24T13:07:12+00:00

It's porn. I find females tend to prefer writing/reading more over the visual though--granted, I prefer visual. The people that enjoy my type of porn like tentacle rape, rather extreme hentai, belly bumps, sex with toys etc. are typically men. There's something about watching a woman or man being dominated that is a turn on. I guess that's why I'm into pegging, though. Really, porn isn't the lens into someone's soul.

couldbemage · 2017-08-24T13:27:45+00:00

Porn isn't politics. It's goddamn fiction.

My girl has a tumbler full of rape, degradation, and incest. She identifies as feminist.

Don't worry about it.

Lyanina · 2017-08-24T12:42:06+00:00

I don't think the erotica I read (which is much more relevant to the discussion than how much porn I don't watch) fits one pill perfectly. For one thing, over half of it only has one gender involved, and those stories tend to be my favorites. Often there is a dominant partner, but it's not always a guy, not always a woman, and usually not to an opposite-gender partner.

It makes me uncomfortable to have this 'misalignment', I am trying to stop.

I find that very weird.

The stories are nothing like my sex life, and I've never stopped to analyze how well they fit my "worldview." Even if I had more extreme and less varied fantasies, I don't see a contradiction between fantasies of being sexually dominated, and wanting to be treated equally in the workplace or whatever feminist ideal the woman has.

RockinSocksII · 2017-08-24T14:43:00+00:00

I like shemale porn.

But porn isn't meant to fit your worldview. It's a fantasy and speaks as much to your character as the genre of movies you enjoy.

[deleted] · 2017-08-24T16:10:02+00:00

Porn sucks balls

[deleted] · 2017-08-24T16:52:53+00:00

I think it fits perfectly

I don't watch porn and I'm the trill pill

Willow-girl · 2017-08-24T18:35:12+00:00

I don't watch porn or read erotica (aka "Mommy porn").

Rian_Stone · 2017-08-24T20:07:45+00:00

Homemade, so yes it does.

Shazoa · 2017-08-24T21:56:21+00:00

Total BP, I get off mostly on maledom BDSM that involves nothing but punishment. Doesn't have to be any sex acts, just a woman in (obviously consensual) pain.

Most self-identifying feminists I know are similar. One girl was poly, couldn't get off without pain, but loved her control the most. Made her feel empowered because she had ultimate control over when it stopped, even if the point was to pretend she didn't.

ClarityofDisaster · 2017-08-25T00:26:49+00:00

I'm a Purple Piller, and I watch everything from sweet lovemaking to rough bdsm sex. Male and female doms, gay, straight, or lesbian lovers, vanilla or kinky as fuck...it's all arousing at the end of the day.

It shouldn't matter what is "acceptable" to your pill color. Whatever gets you hot is absolutely fine so long as it's legal.

SirNemesis · 2017-08-25T06:49:32+00:00

I don't watch porn. Which doesn't really fit well with my RP beliefs that porn is a social force for good for the male SMP experience.

NewAcctEveryDamnDay · 2017-08-25T15:31:28+00:00

I like (amateur) interracial creampie porn. I just do. More honest and realistic. Mostly because I have smashed ladies on birth control and cumming inside a hot, wet pussy is one of the best experiences ever.

Women say Im "well proportioned" and have been since high school/puberty (though I lost my vieginity in Japan a year after HS graduation) but thats not good enough at all. At fucking all. Women like big dicks period. Fuck arguments to the contrary.

Makes me upset sometimes though since I'm only 5'9" 175lbs with a slightly-bigger-than-average dick according to some women but I don't believe them bitches.

You're either big or you're small. There is no in between, no matter how much women lie about it. It really is that Black and white. Emotional connection don't mean shit.

I want a baby arm. Period. There needs to be honest studies and techniques to increase penile size other than fake pumps and pills and jelqing bullshit. Stem cells perhaps. But then again I've fapped a bit in my 29 3/4 years so for all I know if I dont watch porn and let my body "normalize" Ill be bigger. I dunno. I almost wish I never watched it. That way the sting of not having the reactions of every woman Ive smashed be the exact same or similar to women gettimg bbc'd in porn wouldn't be as much of a blow to my ego. That's why I've stopped running trains on bitches with my cuzzos. It makes the BBC myth hurt my feelings. Too much info? No. Not enough. All i want is a larger dick. I hate my body. I mean women have said shit like "I can feel your heartbeat" and "don't dig so deep" but Im not satisfied.

As far as my pill position, Im red. Women talk and talk highly of men with big dix. I want that. Not to be relying in cunnilingus game all the time. I'm really self conscious about my body. I wish I was taller with a larger cock. I hate porn for making me feel this way. But It's hard to stop watching. I want a larger dick. I'm tired of being "average". As far as I'm concerned, if a woman says size doesn't matter, or that I'm "well proportioned" or any of that shit, she's lying through her goddamned teeth. It's all that matters. Size matters and women lie to spare feelings.

This shit gives me stage fright; sometimes I can't even get up, but that's usually when others are around. I need privacy because I'm self conscious. God I hate my genetics.

NewAcctEveryDamnDay · 2017-08-26T11:37:33+00:00

I want to know why my reply was deleted.

[deleted] · 2017-08-27T02:12:02+00:00

I watch solo masturbation porn of women. My favorite kink right now is edging.

I'd say it fits in pretty well.

RedditFromTheBathtub · 2017-08-30T16:09:38+00:00

Bloop. I don't like porn, primarily because I hate the weird sounds everyone makes. I much prefer my own memories of my past, and sometimes I'll reread journal entries about particularly good times.

Title	How well does the porn you choose to watch fit with your pill position?
Author	Keep-Rolling
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Date	August 24, 2017 10:38 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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