Agree or disagree: Men, you need to treat women badly or else they become your mother.

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2017-07-02T04:40:02+00:00

Agree!

If I don't beat my woman daily she starts to breastfeed me, it sucks.

OfSpock · 2017-07-02T06:08:00+00:00

Treating women like your mother is treating them badly. Pick up your own socks.

[deleted] · 2017-07-02T04:48:44+00:00

So conflicted.

I treated my mother badly. What to do now?

Eastuss · 2017-07-02T04:24:32+00:00

What? That's stupid. If men don't want women to be like their mothers, then all men have to do is be independent.

bala-key · 2017-07-02T11:09:34+00:00

Men, you need to treat women badly or else they become your mother.

Nah. Having firm boundaries and not being a doormat isn't treating someone 'badly'.

sweet_samsara · 2017-07-02T07:02:17+00:00

I'd be the nicest person on earth to them, I loved my mom.

DashneDK2 · 2017-07-02T07:00:38+00:00

Asians have some weird mother shit going on in relationships. You don't need to treat her badly, but you do need to tell her firmly a few times that there won't be any of that where you give her all your money and she gives you a small weekly allowance and she won't be selecting food for your plate, etc.

Also Russians, I saw a middleaged guy getting spoon-fed by his wife on the plane the other week. And come to think of it, what is it with the USA and commercials/sit-coms and grownass men being treated like bumbling schoolkids and reprimanded by their overbearing wives? Are you men or mice? You guys got to stump that shit out, kill it with fire!

ClarityofDisaster · 2017-07-02T09:31:00+00:00

What are you even saying here? This post needs more meat to it!

Entropy-7 · 2017-07-02T10:23:36+00:00

Maybe I have been at this too long but I find a bit of mothering to be comforting.

So my present GF comes over and what does she do? She does my dishes, mops my floor and folds my laundry. I know better than to interrupt because she is a woman on a mission.

However, once she has my living space in order then I can grab her by the throat, toss her on my bed, and fuck the shit out of her.

She is exceptional, and a keeper. My exes were better looking but not nearly as "domestic".

GridReXX · 2017-07-02T10:50:14+00:00

Disagree.

Men need to be competent and self assured or else.

Battle-Scars · 2017-07-02T04:30:50+00:00

What? That makes no sense.

andrewisgood · 2017-07-02T15:27:29+00:00

Agree or disagree. Men, you need to treat women badly. And by badly, I mean having communication with them and discussing your feelings.

God damn pal.

[deleted] · 2017-07-02T04:31:43+00:00

Mama can't cheat on you

[deleted] · 2017-07-02T04:45:47+00:00

Disagree.

Mine's locked in the basement with my mother.

Pope_Lucious · 2017-07-02T04:51:56+00:00

What? Disagree on the statement itself. Put it into context and let's see if something useful can come out of it.

GoldPilot · 2017-07-02T05:43:14+00:00

Disagree. That's bizarre and makes no sense.

despisedlove2 · 2017-07-02T07:27:37+00:00

You need to have firm boundaries.

wub1234 · 2017-07-02T12:15:13+00:00

I mean setting boundaries, not letting her "snowball" in nagging, ignoring her sometimes, telling her when she pisses you off, seeking your own independence sometimes (eg. refusing to bring her everywhere with you).

None of these are treating her badly. I agree with all of these. I wouldn't perhaps use the term 'ignoring her', I would say that it's healthy to have a bit of space and not be at her beck and call 24/7.

In fact, the last time I was with my SO she specifically mentioned that someone she had dated in the past had texted and called her far too much and it was annoying. Luckily, I already know the right way to behave.

sublimemongrel · 2017-07-02T13:57:09+00:00

How is any of that "treating badly"?

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bluepy67 · 2017-07-02T04:32:27+00:00

Huh? That's idiotic

pinkgoldrose · 2017-07-02T15:37:01+00:00

I mean setting boundaries, not letting her "snowball" in nagging, ignoring her sometimes, telling her when she pisses you off, seeking your own independence sometimes (eg. refusing to bring her everywhere with you).

Are you telling us your mother went everywhere with you? OP, sounds like you took a page from Norman Bates' guide on how to treat women!

Love8Death · 2017-07-02T15:46:12+00:00

I wouldn't call this treating women badly, that's treating women right. Most just don't need to be put in place, by yourself. It's usually another man's responsibility.

RockinSocksII · 2017-07-02T16:16:10+00:00

Disagree. If she's doing all your chores, she should be able to act like your mother.

[deleted] · 2017-07-02T18:35:11+00:00

why do you think setting boundries is bad?

Hellothere_1 · 2017-07-03T02:34:29+00:00

Are you sure you aren't just projecting your own bad childhood onto everyone else?

Believe it or not but there are many people who like their parents the way they are

Title	Agree or disagree: Men, you need to treat women badly or else they become your mother.
Author	umeme
Upvotes	5
Comments	71
Date	July 2, 2017 4:23 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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