Over the years I’ve learned that girls with high n-counts come with a host of issues generally and tend to have a lot of ‘sass’ and or ugly personalities. Almost as if they start disliking men as a whole with each added sexual partner. Girls who are virgins/very small amount of sex partners seem to be very sweet, loyal, caring and have qualities desirable in a long term partner. This is a generality and is my personal experience.

There seems to be a connection between slutty behavior and negative outcomes for women. Studies even show that increased divorce rates correlate with woman who have a higher n count.

My question is- is it the same for men? Do men lose parts of their ‘soul’ so to speak when they rack up endless sexual partners? Do they become bitter towards women and life in general? Does it limit their chance to pair bond with a woman long term? In my experience, my personality has not changed positively or negatively when I have a one night stands but I do have concerns.