Would you be satisfied to commit and sleep with only one person in your entire life?

PurplepillBro · 2016-03-23T15:30:55+00:00

Nope. That's why one of my criteria for a partner is that she likes to chase with me as a couples activity. Satisfies our needs for variety, but keeps it within the relationship.

MissMaude · 2016-03-23T17:30:19+00:00

Yes. I feel really lucky that I married the only man I've had sex with. I never did handle heartbreak well.

sardonis70 · 2016-03-23T15:21:57+00:00

Yep. In each LTR, that was the plan at the time. And its the plan with marriage #2.

It isn't about variety for me at all, simply quality and volume. As long as I'm getting sex on the regular, and the sex is good, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.

despisedlove2 · 2016-03-23T15:50:10+00:00

Not a TRP'er, but I would.

Actually, I did, but got scammed by my no fault divorce wife when she was busy painting a future for us.

So, while my n count is now 1 greater than I would have liked it to be, I am theoretically open to such an eventuality. It is a different matter that my faith in women has been shot.

I spent 38 years of my life as a solid blue pill with a strong traditionalist streak. Until my wife woke me up to the reality.

I see men here claiming large n counts as a matter of pride and shake my head with disbelief. The n count may affect us less than it does women, but you can't overlook its pernicious effects.

Yes, I remember how it used to be like in my mid 20s to about a year ago. But, it takes will power. TRP talks a lot about male sex drive, but it neglects another male characteristic - masterful iron will. Before one sets out to conquer the world, one must conquer oneself.

TyrianPlum · 2016-03-23T15:01:44+00:00

I'm more concerned about the commitment, honestly. I would be making some pretty poor decisions without the relationship experience I have. I can't imagine marrying someone without having been in relationships prior to that, unless I got extremely lucky and happened to find a great fit on my first try.

Sex with one man would probably be okay as long as he's also somewhat adventurous. I've never had much inclination to hook up, and always leaned toward partners who are more on the beta side.

Wo-person · 2016-03-23T18:01:24+00:00

Both hubby and I are living like this. We're both pretty satisfied although we'very been talking about threesomes for a bit, we were pretty young when we got hitched. Different strokes for different folks.

Lucy__Sky · 2016-03-23T19:29:32+00:00

Yes, 100%, that's the plan

kick6 · 2016-03-23T19:43:22+00:00

EmpressofMars · 2016-03-23T21:18:27+00:00

Yep!

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-03-23T14:25:17+00:00

I would, if it was the right person. There's definitely temptation to stray over time, be it biological or whatever. But if you have a partner who can keep pace with you in the bedroom, is willing to try new kinky shit, and keeps fit. It's possible.

Though I, like every man have a case of the wandering eye, I do find something appealing in fucking the same women year by year. Getting to experience her development as a person, with my cock. Fully appreciating all the ways in which she's matured... with my cock. Etc.

gavinok · 2016-03-23T16:03:48+00:00

No way.

I prefer quantity of girls to quality any day. I actually want to travel the world and have sex with a different woman in each country I visit.

Lonny_zone · 2016-03-23T14:34:55+00:00

Hookers couldn't bait and switch like backpage bitches back then. Brothels IRL.

GoldPilot · 2016-03-23T16:05:55+00:00

Yeah, under the right circumstances. If things get boring, we could always take a break, or spice things up. If she's a good partner, then sex isn't everything.

cats_or_get_out · 2016-03-23T23:16:10+00:00

YaBoiTibzz · 2016-03-23T22:52:54+00:00

Assuming that in exchange for the commitment you actually get to have sex at least semi-regularly--no dead bedroom, cuckolding, etc.--then yes of course I would. I think many men would. 1 partner is infinitely more than zero.

Jetpine9 · 2016-03-24T00:25:40+00:00

I could never imagine being someone's "one and only" ... forever. So therefor it was never desirable to me. I always wanted to have several love affairs. Not just sex; real relationships. But relationships that transition into friendships after a while.

rockinhard130 · 2016-03-24T03:18:35+00:00

As long as I got it on a regular basis, and the emotional bond was strong and we kept things interesting, then absolutely. And I was married for 15 years and didn't cheat, so I figure I could hack it.

username_6916 · 2016-03-24T06:53:41+00:00

There is nothing I would want more than that. Like or not, I think I'm ethically obligated to get as close to that ideal as I can. Such is part of the sacrifice of being good spouse.

DebatePony · 2016-03-24T14:02:19+00:00

Absolutely.

I met my husband at 13, started "dating" (as much dating as one can do at that age) at 14, and we got married at 22. No break-ups because we both were of the mind that once it was over, it was over, none of this break-up-to-only-get-back-together-a-week-later type of shit.

We stay sexually active and regularly check in with each other to make sure everything is satisfying and try out new things together when the mood strikes. We are very aware of the situation we are in and the dangers which face us, so we are actively head them off before they can even start to become an issue.

The-Battletoad · 2016-03-27T02:30:45+00:00

Definitely no. I can't be happy without sexual variety. I'm a serial monogamist.

DrunkGirl69 · 2016-03-23T16:40:08+00:00

I don't think monogamy is natural for me, but I think it's possible with the right person.

moodyprism · 2016-03-23T14:34:08+00:00

Yes.

lady_baker · 2016-03-23T15:51:36+00:00

Yes. Not even a hint of a problem.

I get sooooo much more fulfillment out of belonging to and meeting the needs of my mate than anything else. Year after year.

Also really looking forward to being 85 years old and knowing my husband and I have not been with anyone else for literally 60 years. Two people completely committed to each other. Getting some strange is not even on the same planet in terms of meaning and rewards.

alizarin_warrior · 2016-03-23T16:46:44+00:00

If I was really into them sure why not.

sen--sen · 2016-03-23T14:28:08+00:00

probably not, for myself and people in general. i don't see that as a horrible thing, though. what would be worse is committing to someone early, and then realizing that i actually did want to experience more before settling down. i would either feel trapped in a relationship (potentially with someone i no longer had interest in being with) or i'd be a cheater (worst case scenario). i'm pretty vehemently against cheating so that would be unlikely, but either way... a lotta potential misery in that.

shoup88 · 2016-03-23T14:35:56+00:00

It's not ideal, but if I found the right person who insisted on strict monogamy, I could handle it and be happy.

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dopesk1 · 2016-03-23T14:38:16+00:00

Hell no

I'll fck as many women as i want to. No specified number. All based on how i feel

Title	Would you be satisfied to commit and sleep with only one person in your entire life?
Author	panickedperson
Upvotes	4
Comments	50
Date	March 23, 2016 2:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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