Question for RPers: (Serious) Do you respect women?

cxj · 2015-07-12T00:54:19+00:00

My respect is earned on an individual basis of merit, not handed out freely and universally to an entire gender.

I try my best to treat everyone with courtesy and be polite, especially to anyone at their job, and especially if that job is in customer service or healthcare. This does not mean I "respect" them, though.

Women can earn my respect the exact same way men can, which is by working hard to be competent at something, exhibiting self control and discipline, being loyal to their family and friends, etc. I know and respect plenty of hard working female professionals. Respect =/= attraction, though.

lolobviously · 2015-07-12T00:12:56+00:00

Don't care what gender you are, respect is earned on an individual basis. I do not respect any group of people by default.

jkonrad · 2015-07-12T08:32:23+00:00

From my observations, most men who "swallow" the "red pill" studiously avoid women who they might have to admire or even respect. SMV and all that.

[deleted] · 2015-07-13T12:13:47+00:00

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alcockell · 2015-07-12T08:12:08+00:00

Having been sexually abused and bullied by women, I've seen them at their worst. I process men and women as absolutely equal, and capable of evil in equal quantities.

No pedestalisation here. She has to earn my respect. FUCK deference just because vagina. If she is behaving and demanding that I jump through hoops, she is betraying her own sense of entitlement. No, I won't play those games.

Equal sinners in the sight of God.

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alreadyredschool · 2015-07-12T00:37:35+00:00

Definitely

leftajar · 2015-07-13T08:53:55+00:00

It's not clear what you're asking.

Are there multiple females that exist whom I respect? Absolutely. My few female friends are all high-caliber asskickers.

Do I respect "women" as an institution? Theoretically, yes. Unfortunately, women in the West aren't really women anymore, in the sense of being the Yin to the male Yang. They suck at being masculine because they don't have T, and they suck at being feminine because of the women's movement. They're like the multi-tool of gender: okay at a bunch of things, but good at nothing. I'm not sure how to refer to them anymore, so I just say "females."

In the same way that males earn the label, "men," through their actions, I think females need to earn "women." And most don't.

ECoast_Man · 2015-07-12T05:08:27+00:00

I respect women equally in the way I respect a man.

That meaning, respect is earned, not given freely.

exit_sandman · 2015-07-13T09:11:02+00:00

Before you ask us this question, ask yourself of how comfortable you are with the way western society "respects" men.

GaiusScaevolus · 2015-07-13T15:33:49+00:00

I have a basic respect for all people as human beings with their own thoughts, feelings and desires. There are women who have earned my respect.

boscoist · 2015-07-12T00:53:16+00:00

respect is earned not given.

PissShiverss · 2015-07-12T02:01:20+00:00

Respect is earned not given, I respect anyone that deserves it. Just because someone is a female doesn't mean you automatically get some form of respect, same with men.

despisedlove2 · 2015-07-12T04:31:50+00:00

Not quite red pill but I will bite since I am headed that way.

Yes.

They are individuals who have the same rights to do whatever they want with their life as I do.

I just choose to no longer be manipulated by them. I also think that they cannot be fully respected until they start taking full responsibility for their actions.

GayLubeOil · 2015-07-12T05:20:23+00:00

My girlfriend proofreads my posts and occasionally recommends phrasing that is more incidiary. I think the best lols I ever had was when blue pill had an aneurism over content that was partially written by a woman.

ReddishBlack · 2015-07-12T00:24:15+00:00

Are women doing something as a group that would entice us to not feel respect for them?

lbspredh · 2015-07-12T09:35:34+00:00

No, but I don't respect men any more than that

[deleted] · 2015-07-12T19:21:59+00:00

Kind of.

I respect them as in "I believe they could do better", but they don't, so I hate on them which doesn't seem respectful.

winndixie · 2015-07-12T19:55:48+00:00

Do you respect the postman the same way you respect the president? Do you respect the shark for its deadliness the same way you respect bees for existing and keeping up our ecosystem? I respect women for who they are. And they are not men.

Sepean · 2015-07-13T09:36:32+00:00

Outside of sexual relations: Women are people. Not much more to it than that. I couldn't care less if my lawyer was a man or a woman.

Sexual relations: Yes, I respect women. However the dynamics of attraction, the way girls act and respond to dominant men who do what they want without caring about them, and how they say stuff they don't really mean, some would maybe label my actions as disrespectful because I mostly just do what I want and I focus on entertaining me. I did it differently for many years and acted blue pill, and girls didn't respond to it that well, and my wife eventually developed contempt for me and dead bedroomed us and she was very happy. Now she's happy and in love again after the red pill. When that is the outcome, I think blue pill is disrespectful and red pill more respectful, but as I said the dynamics of attraction and dominance mean you have to raise it to a meta level to recognize it.

kick6 · 2015-07-13T18:40:53+00:00

Respect is earned regardless of the innie or outie between your legs. So the answer is: no. I don't respect women. I am fully capable of respecting individuals once they give me a reason to, though.

Whisper · 2015-07-13T23:16:56+00:00

Meaningless question.

To a man, "respect" means "defer to the wisdom, experience, or expertise of".

To a woman, "respect" means "care about the feelings and well-being of".

[deleted] · 2015-07-12T00:07:47+00:00

No. Not all women deserve to be respected, so I don't respect women as a whole. But there are women out there that I do respect.

[deleted] · 2015-07-12T02:20:05+00:00

Sure, the ones that deserve respect. However, I no longer give women the initial benefit of doubt that I used to.

Earn my respect and we are cool.

[deleted] · 2015-07-12T03:04:55+00:00

yes, but i dont trust the demon inside. respect is earned.

[deleted] · 2015-07-12T00:56:06+00:00

jayden695 · 2015-07-12T00:24:55+00:00

It depends on the women, I don't go around respecting every Jane Smith or Sally Pigtails I see simply because the have a vagina, but if they have done something great or awesome that merits respect then I'll respect them

cvcv1991 · 2015-07-11T23:23:57+00:00

Not if I want to fuck them.

I understand that 'respect' can have different definitions but go for it.

Provide some examples of what you consider respect.

fuckthemodlice · 2015-07-12T03:41:33+00:00

In some contexts I respect women. In some contexts I don't respect men. I give men a greater benefit of the doubt because they are men and men have proven more to me than women, but respect is earned not given. If a man shows he's not deserving of respect, then I don't give it to him. Same with a woman.

PrimePussyOverRancid · 2015-07-12T00:07:23+00:00

Hell no. They're just bags of meat. Except for my saint of a mother.

Sure, I'll be polite to them like I am to strangers, but anything more than that, bitch better earn it.

norstar1 · 2015-07-13T08:34:52+00:00

Not modern women, no, though it's generally a case to case judgment.

Title	Question for RPers: (Serious) Do you respect women?
Author	Ocean_Squeeze
Upvotes	6
Comments	84
Date	July 11, 2015 11:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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