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Summary: A regretful post by a girl who's been on okcupid for the past several months. From day one, she was inundated with guys asking her out, probably dozens a day. The validation felt nice. So many cocks to choose from.
She chose a "nice guy" and went out with him once, just once, to see how it was. He was nice, as expected. In fact, so nice that he keeps texts messaging her lovely things and expresses common interests, tells her sweet things... yeah, basically a full-on beta orbiter. And after that first date, she got so confused because he was perfect but she didn't feel aroused (hmm).
So she kept him around as an orbiter while meeting and fucking other guys on the side. She kept postponing his requests for more dates but dangling that carrot in front of him "Maybe next week, I'll let you know!!" while simultaneously sucking on who knows how many dicks in the meantime. Here's a direct quote about one of the guys she was seeing on the side:
These qualities [of the aforementioned beta] are exactly what I'm looking for in a partner, yet I blew him off for a guy who takes 4 days to return my texts because he lives in a nicer area, drives a better car and has a cooler job.
Hmm... does this sound like any kind of personality we're familiar with? Hint: it rhymes with "Tark Driad".
This post is a good illustration of how when females are given unlimited options, their brains go full retard in an attempt to ingratiate themselves with as many alpha males as possible while still keeping betas on the hook. Of course, this is a natural tendency of behavior for women, but online dating makes it so much worse. In the past, women didn't have this meat market buffet and therefore had to be reasonable when selecting mates. But now... there are 100 six-foot-tall men with great abs just a click away.
What are your thoughts on online dating and how it's changed the male/female social dynamic?
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