Yes, I'm talking about in real life, but since there's already a post about deleting your dating apps on the front page I'll skip that part. I do think you should delete your dating apps. Anyway, let's look at the facts:

  1. Most men lament how rare it is to get a match on a dating app, let alone a match from a woman who looks attractive to you.
  2. At the same time, the majority of men are not good at flirting with girls in real life, so dating apps are both your curse and your crutch.
  3. Dating apps aren't all sunshine and roses for attractive women. Yes, they get to pick the most good-looking guys, but there's not even a correlation between a guy's unattractiveness and how good of a man he'll be to her, so no, she probably wouldn't be happier if she went for the less-good-looking dudes. The truth is, her chances of finding love on a dating app are low. But what can she do when no guys will approach her in real life?

I hope this doesn't sound too much like pick up artist crap. I think most of that is nonsense, especially the stuff that's traditionally labeled PUA/redpill. I just feel like at the end of the day, your best bet unless you're an extremely attractive man is to quit the dating apps, have decent hygiene + don't dress like a slob, Google how to behave attractively around women, practice it when you do talk to women, and try to find someone in real life.

The irony is even attractive people are starting to realize the downsides of dating apps. You may not think so but it's true.

Let me know what you agree or disagree with.