At 42 none of the refined older guys match with me, I only get matches with young dudes. Can anybody explain me why???

inertargongas · 2020-10-14T15:18:38+00:00

The refined dudes know she’s not worth the expense, trouble or aggravation.

The younger dudes will pump and dump.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-10-14T15:27:21+00:00

The 45 year old guys are busy fucking the 25 year old chicks resulting in a pussy deficit for the 25 year old guys. You're getting the "need to bust a nut" compromise and nothing more. That's why they ghost your ass after a bit of post nut clarity.

OracleofFl · 2020-10-14T15:34:18+00:00

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Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-10-14T15:19:23+00:00

Amazingly... I think that she actually doesn't know the answer to the question.

2020-10-14T15:35:24+00:00

I see we're dealing with a REAL mind, here.

Lady, young guys want to fuck! What a revelation! Older guys have shit to lose like:

Money

Reputation

Assets

Time

And are smart enough to side step users, abusers, manipulators, false accusers, and leeches.

If you were an actual ADULT who was response, you would know this; because solipsism is not an actual way to live or to love. Reality has a way of sneaking in and fucking your shit up when you live the way you are living. As you are experiencing here.

But don't listen to us!

adriannmng · 2020-10-14T15:19:37+00:00

I am sure the gentlemen here know the answer. Too bad they are not on Tinder to match her and give her the answer.

2020-10-14T15:45:43+00:00

Ironically, her pussy isn't too old for a young guy to fuck, but is for an old guy. This is the riches to rags experience, hoe. Don't you like it?! Tell your friends.

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-10-14T15:52:24+00:00

40 here married to 25 years old.

No way I'm gonna waste my breath, patience and finances on a used up jizzed borderline harridan

ThatDamnedRedneck · 2020-10-14T15:43:21+00:00

No shortage of younger guys who have a thing for older women. Gods know I did at that age.

Overkillengine · 2020-10-14T16:00:40+00:00

BRAGSPLANING

"Oh my god.. all these young hot.. studs just want a piece of this cookie.. but this cookie ain't for that. .oh no.. this cookie for a REAL MAN"

urbana1 · 2020-10-14T16:04:15+00:00

Trouble is most guys in her age range have experienced the absolute threat and damage a woman can do to your financial and mental health and are either not playing anymore or are being extremely selective on who they let into their lives.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2020-10-14T15:57:27+00:00

It could be that the older guys might want kids as opposed to a series of miscarriages, still births and pregnancies that end because of deformed embryos. Women are so accustomed to having it easy that they fail to notice when the SMV math inverts, even when they are living proof of the inversion.

fellate-o-fish · 2020-10-14T15:55:16+00:00

The refined guys don't want a post-wall carousel queen.

The younger guys will fuck anything.

Aldabruzzo · 2020-10-14T16:24:24+00:00

It's really quite interesting to see women in their 40s acting like they're still in their 20s and finding out the hard way that they're not in their 20s anymore.

Experienced men in their 40s and 50s know women in their 40s are a pain in the ass because they think they're still 22 and can make all kinds of demands. The attractive men she wants just won't put up with that shit.

Now, if a 40-something woman is just about a casual relationship, no wining and dining, just hookup, or is down for fast sex, then most men her age will work her into the rotation.

Frankly, I think more middle aged women should be fucking men in their 20s. Women over 40 should love this- men under 30 can get rock hard in 10 seconds and can fuck all night long, and are in better shape. Men under 30 should love this too - women over 40 are easy to get into bed, sexually experienced, and don't play as many games. Plus, there's lots of them. Women over 40 aren't as flighty or stupid as women under 30. They're still women - they just get a little less privileged and snowflakey than women under 30.

Jake-Orion · 2020-10-14T16:02:36+00:00

She still loves the validation and attention. She wouldn't be "joking" about it otherwise.

Let young Chads have fun with this cougar.

guynpdx · 2020-10-14T17:42:19+00:00

Let me explain sweety:

Men will fuck anything, even a cum bucket. And you are a cum bucket. But you're not wifey material. Good luck on the rest of your journey!

RatingsOutOfTen · 2020-10-14T18:10:27+00:00

Young men like everyone.

Old men like young women.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-10-14T15:56:48+00:00

your worth : pump and dump !!!

yoitsericc · 2020-10-14T16:12:17+00:00

It's a better match in terms of sexual market value.

Men in their 20's haven't achieved status or wealth, which is something women are aroused by. Women in their 40's are declining in youth and fertility and are probably a headache. It's actually a pretty even situation, much more so than dating men her age who most likely have some wealth and status and could date a women 10 years younger than her.

Gringo0984 · 2020-10-14T17:14:06+00:00

Is she really bragging about getting guaranteed likes from 25 and under? Lmao. They will literally swipe right on anyone they see. It is a numbers game for them. Store up as many matches they can and their options to fuck increase. The guys that are older she is trying to match with have their lives together, more distinguished in their taste and know exactly what they want, either relationships or a fuck. She seems to be looking for more of a sugar daddy to latch onto and they see her as not being worth the trouble at all.

akihonj · 2020-10-14T16:18:38+00:00

Does anybody want to tell her, somebody needs to tell her what we all know. Please, anybody.

420donkeypower · 2020-10-14T16:42:47+00:00

Because she's a pump and dump.

Alturius · 2020-10-14T16:33:37+00:00

She is actually asking two questions, not one, but there is one simple answer to both her questions:

Answer: This woman is a 4 chasing after 8's, whilst being pursued by younger cads, chads, chancers, charmers and jerks just looking for a quickie/hook-up.

Analysis

'Older More Refined Guy' meaning: "Tall, Athletic, 6 pack, 6 figure income, Own Home, etc", in other words he's at least an 8.

For a woman to be at least an 8 she must possess both youth and beauty. At 42, this woman lacks both and is a 4 at best.

A man who is an 8 can attract a woman who is at least an 8, meaning that she is therefore young and attractive. He can still have sex with a woman who is a 4, but is unlikely to do so when higher value women are available, unless he wants more variety from a one-off encounter.

meerita · 2020-10-14T18:12:53+00:00

I would match her, but only for pump and dump and I am 42.

GayyFieri · 2020-10-14T18:51:13+00:00

I feel bad for old women. They really have to bust their ass to find a man. At her age the men have been through so much and so many have faced divorce, lies, abuse, etc from multiple women that it's her job to convince them that she's not like that and that's a hard job.

But she's also most likely one of the ones that did that to some man

Sid_Insidious · 2020-10-14T18:03:16+00:00

Because her vagina has 100,000 miles on it, and her lifestyle expectations are at an all-time high, and she wants to travel more and that's where YOU come in? $$$$$

Um no thanks.

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-10-14T19:00:15+00:00

Haha. Women don't have a fucking clue. They are incapable of introspection with their only source of thinking garnered from self-help books, the sisterhood, and their therapist.

JSride8 · 2020-10-14T16:40:42+00:00

Older dudes go for younger women and younger guys want that older woman. The psychology behind it is a bit more lengthy, but that’s the net net.

3amDinner · 2020-10-14T16:48:46+00:00

this is hilarious to me, being almost 40 while looking 25

Chemical_Debt_6127 · 2020-10-14T18:38:52+00:00

If I was 40 I might try and date. But I bet this girl rejected a lot of these refined men 15 years earlier

Redhood616 · 2020-10-14T21:57:14+00:00

Younger guys know you’re easy which is why they swipe right.

Older guys know you’re easy which is why they swipe left.

RedditAdminsRCunts66 · 2020-10-14T22:23:28+00:00

Young guys want to tick off the "MILF Fantasy" and deliberately see no future in it (because she is older), older guys who actually have shit to lose and something to offer, are chasing younger fertile women.

its not rocket science.

gritz-n-gravy870 · 2020-10-14T19:48:06+00:00

Because I like railing cougars....duh

Miserable-Lemon · 2020-10-14T21:14:07+00:00

It's amazing, all of them completely lack self awareness it's insane

Massacher · 2020-10-14T21:55:22+00:00

Well for starters you failed basic English. And I can't be bothered to list the red flags.

WhatMixedFeelings · 2020-10-14T22:37:19+00:00

From what we see, pretty hot for 42. No wrinkles, slim neck, and DSLs. I can see why young dudes want to pump and dump!

0mrcynic0 · 2020-10-14T23:18:56+00:00

The answer is simple: Older men won't touch a wrinkled pussy while young ones will pump and dump you.

chalulin · 2020-10-14T23:24:23+00:00

Sure, let me just match with her so she can use all of the wealth I have built up.

JZSquared · 2020-10-14T23:35:31+00:00

Used up cum dumpster is befuddled by the lack of "refined" aka rich, older guys interest in her. It's quite simple sweetheart, rich, older, more established men are looking for young, beautiful, fertile women to bear them children. No eggs.

MegaHashes · 2020-10-14T23:39:05+00:00

Quagmire: I don’t think we’ve met. I’m Glenn Quagmire.

Bar Woman: I’m sure that kind of thing works great for the younger crowd, but I’m 44.

Quagmire: 44? Oh-ho, why am I trying so hard?

XRdragon · 2020-10-15T00:24:31+00:00

Ah the classic 'older men don't see my charm'. No miss, especially if your charm is those saggy bag you call tits and those flabby ham you call coochie.

timo-el-supremo · 2020-10-15T02:21:20+00:00

Grisha1984 · 2020-10-15T03:28:26+00:00

Because young guys see you as a practice chick .

tosernameschescksout · 2020-10-15T04:56:18+00:00

Fourty fucking two.

I, myself am fourty. There's no way I'd want to date a girl my own age. Forget about it.
Any woman my own age has already hit the wall, HARD. Their looks are gone, they're probably really obese. Finally, they'll have a totally fucked up attitude after a lifetime of abusing men in relationships that the women never took seriously.

The only women worth dating are young ones who haven't made a habit of fucking too many guys over and taking advantage of them. Very very few women are pure. They corrupt each other by encouraging each other to take advantage of men and just use them without ever being serious. I like women who hate other women.

better_new_me · 2020-10-14T22:10:38+00:00

And old sying is: Young dick is trained by old pussy.

MILF - yeah, she knows how to bake this bread, and she knows that her last moments and they don't complain about the anal, good stuff.

512165381 · 2020-10-14T23:32:24+00:00

Somebody I know had his son 24yo get Ewings sarcoma of the jaw. Only 1% of Ewings cases are in that location. Despite extensive treatment by a professor in a major hospital he did not survive.

No-thing-ness · 2020-10-15T04:35:39+00:00

Older refined dudes aren't looking for a 42 yr old who aren't going to bare kids. I met my wife looking to marry and have children. I was 37. She was 26. Why would I settle down with a 42 yr old when I can get a younger woman who I can have children with?

Redmage46 · 2020-10-15T12:26:23+00:00

simple answer. older guys tend to , you know, have a thought process before doing things. Two problems exist. One they probably assume you're a hooker or fake scam profile. Two, most younger girls who are not scams or hookers are looking for a free ride. Lacking personal responsibility is a turn off. Instead of talking about how laid back you are abd how much you like walks on the beach or traveling consider talking about how your an office manager and how much you want an experienced man to take control because you are required to be so much in control at work.

Just my opinion not like i examined your profile.

NosniboR_Tommy · 2020-10-15T12:57:39+00:00

Younger dudes just want to add some notches to the bedpost...

RyansPutter · 2020-10-15T18:07:04+00:00

Can't you adjust your age preferences in OLD apps? If she hates matching with younger guys, all she needs to do is change her age range. But she won't do that because she likes the validation.

Thetrvler · 2020-10-16T07:00:23+00:00

Because you’re an easy pump and dump and might have, at least, more money to spend than the younger guys.

Cristoff13 · 2020-10-15T23:29:22+00:00

I see this question in the dating subs. How clueless can these ladies be? No, as much as she might wish it these younger men don't want relationships with her. They think she will offer them casual sex. Its that simple.

Meanwhile she doesn't match with men closer to her own age because her criteria are set too high and she's excluding them. Or she is matching with some of them, but she's ignoring them because they aren't good enough for her (in her mind).

Svartanatten · 2020-10-16T04:22:32+00:00

Men know and get the friendzone. I don't think women will ever understand the "fuck zone".

Title	At 42 none of the refined older guys match with me, I only get matches with young dudes. Can anybody explain me why???
Author	adriannmng
Upvotes	580
Comments	149
Date	October 14, 2020 3:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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