I have a degree/job [insert something expected of you]. Why won’t anyone like me??

Scourmont · 2020-01-23T13:23:09+00:00

Usually suspicious packages are handled by the bomb squad.

Lameador · 2020-01-23T13:35:10+00:00

Due to widespread obesity, some packages are way too “great “

TaxMeJersey · 2020-01-23T13:35:52+00:00

If she means "their age" = upper 20-30's

If she means "great package" = has kids

Than that is NOT wife material......! And you know she is talking about her situation, she can't cover it by making it about all the single girls by saying half of them....its her she is referring too.

SirKolbath · 2020-01-23T13:58:12+00:00

Ha. I feel like a full 4/5 of the women out there are spoiled, entitled, self-centered cuntdragons who coast by on the bare minimum because they’ve been getting the pussypass their whole lives.

And 99.99% of the people at /FDS are arrogant retards convincing themselves they’re “high value women” when they are really just spoiled manipulators. The other 0.01% is men who got there by a post like this one, are checking it out “because it can’t really be that bad” and are about to throw up all over their phones when they discover this is a tame post from them.

ovaknight · 2020-01-23T15:03:45+00:00

Why do men have to "handle" women? Do women honestly see being difficult as sexy?

smfuel87 · 2020-01-23T18:37:35+00:00

Okay, so for you females lurking..

Men aren't attracted to masculine qualities. Being a "career woman" doesn't signal "wife material" to a man. Take it from a guy who lost his career and imploded his life chasing his kids around after a divorce. I was what you figured women would want. Stable earner, have a degree, made 6 figures a year 6'0 etc. So my ex, rather than being like, "yeah, he's a good man, provider and father", it was "He's oppressing me by providing! He's keeping me down and forcing me to be a mother! Help!! Rape, RAPE!!!!". She wanted children mind you. She wanted to be a mother. So after she got the children, she got infected with feminism and wanted a "career". It went from "I want to be a mother" to "I want to have a career". "I don't need you". "I don't need no man". She doesn't need me, but of course she needs my money. She files for divorce and ejects. Kids are gone along with 45% of my after tax/deduction income for 17 years and she re-marries a simp who is unemployed for 6 years. Everyone is treating me like a deadbeat abuser, including my own family despite having done absolutely nothing to her and I get to struggle for two decades and pay another man to have the family I work for while he sits in my old place playing call of duty and "raises" my kids.

I get locked into work, family courts won't let me take a pay cut to find a job closer to my kids and be in their lives. "You don't have the right to make less money" say the family courts. You need to provide for your family, but in the same breath, according to my kids when I do get them on a blue moon occasion in the case of my ex wife's unemployed new husband, "Daddies can be mommies too". I move anyway from my job to chase my kids, rack up a massive amount of child support arrears doing so, thus placing my credit below a 600 for the past nine years and implode my life completely to the point I have a hard time getting into and affording a 650 dollar a month studio apartment so I can be a very part time figure in the lives of my kids and get forced into indentured servitude so my ex can pretend to have a "career" and play happy family on my dime and get socially ostracized by everyone around me.

My point is that this careerism and feminism and these double standards are fucking poison, and any woman who signals this rhetoric is a massive liability and poison to a man's quality of life.

You are not a "great package". You are a mail bomb of propaganda, double standards, entitlement and tyrannical government legislation. Your career aspirations come at the expense of the actual producers in our society and you are collapsing western civilization within a single generation.

Any man with two brain cells to rub together would recognize you for the massive double-standard liability and useful idiot communist tool that you are and fucking run to the hills.

E-roticWarrior · 2020-01-23T14:34:44+00:00

FDS was started and is run by black women, Look at how they write. Even femcels who are mostly black too, Are sick of their shit.

Charmingaxelotl · 2020-01-23T16:45:57+00:00

Shouldn’t a guy get to decide what is wife material lol

DangZagnut · 2020-01-23T14:20:35+00:00

I’d say no women are wife material.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-01-23T15:26:27+00:00

I feel

Did you entertain, if only for a few seconds, how men might "feel" about the current crop of Thots?

Never mind. Analysis starts and stops with those two magical words. They are practically her children because they are her world!

NotherThrowaway284 · 2020-01-23T16:18:51+00:00

"Why doesn't the market recognize how OBVIOUSLY AWESOME my product is??!! The customers are all just stupid little shits!!!"

^^ Sentiments that often presage Chapter 7 proceedings.

Nothing new here.

dwc151 · 2020-01-23T16:40:17+00:00

Women shouldn't be looking for guys their age. They should be looking older. A 30 year old girl should be looking at 45 year old men. That's where your SMV is equal.

pablosito · 2020-01-23T18:24:02+00:00

Don’t know about you guys but something I’ve noticed about the women I know is that they seem to think that men evaluate them by the same standards they evaluate us. Meaning the girls I know are all gun ho about their degrees (nothing spectacular) and that they have a job. Anytime one of them is down in the dating scene the other girls always pop in like “girl you are educated with a degree you’ll get a man!” And I try to tell them that guys don’t give a shit about that, it’s nice to have your shit together but as a general rule of thumb

Women will be judged more harshly by their youth, beauty, and sexual history.

Men will be judged more harshly for their utility.

Men also seem to fall victim to thinking women judge them by the way men judge women which is by appearance. Which of course they do. But as we know when it comes to “settling down” they want that “good husband” mAterial.

xMF_GLOOM · 2020-01-23T14:44:01+00:00

I will turn on my decoder ring.

Women desire men their own age to have the maturity of someone much older. Instead of just dating an older man, this woman complains that men her own age "don't know how to handle this amazing package."

I think I noticed this in a high school girl that wouldn't date me. She was apparently miserable not having sex, so she went out and found older guys to have sex with because guys her age "couldn't handle her." Back then I thought it was best to wait until marriage. Not good enough for her...

Domebeers · 2020-01-23T16:24:11+00:00

'no one their age' chick is pinning for an older man. When her more feminine and submissive friend gets one and not her, that older man is obviously a predator. Obviously.

ettins619 · 2020-01-23T16:15:34+00:00

FDS: Men are trash and doesn't deserve any respect

Also FDS: Women are queen and should be accepted coz she's wife material

Me: Your material is made of different 100 male DNA inside of your coombrain. And your made of bones, muscles, cartilages etc.

kfree313 · 2020-01-23T15:32:03+00:00

Single for a reason

Tailtappin · 2020-01-23T17:40:49+00:00

But why should I want to "handle" anybody? That sounds like work and if my main goal in a relationship is to marry some chick, knock her up, get old and die peacefully, why the fuck would I want to add in the "you didn't notice I dyed my hair an extra shade lighter! You monster!" factor ?

Celticpenguin85 · 2020-01-23T20:49:40+00:00

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chewis · 2020-01-23T18:49:03+00:00

Now that's comedy. That whole sub is delusion to the degree of schizophrenia

LotBuilder · 2020-01-23T19:11:07+00:00

Leave it to women to try to tell men what they should want or what wife material should look like.

ugluk1 · 2020-01-23T16:43:46+00:00

I think after several spinster waves, the women will finally come round to what is happening. They will have devastated the populations, though. Sometimes I wonder how the ancients knew all this.

4Sammich · 2020-01-23T21:02:48+00:00

One of the best FDS comments I ever read.

Single, kids, late 30s and no career. I consider myself a hvw [High Value Woman] apart from financial security

I nearly peed myself imagining how this post wall thot can even hamster all the way to high value when every bit of that description is of a low value SMV & MMV loser who still believes herself a princess of the finest value to a real Prince Charming.

Mein_Tarnaccount · 2020-01-23T17:13:16+00:00

What do they think "wife material" means?

RealMcGonzo · 2020-01-23T19:28:50+00:00

So there I was, perusing the profiles when I ran across The One. Not quite perfect though. "If only she had another 50 pounds of fat, a couple more tattoos and another mystery meat offspring - then she would be perfect!"

fatfagit54 · 2020-01-23T22:32:58+00:00

The FDS subreddit is a literal shitshow of baboons howling at the fact that if they want guy to like them, they have to do nice things for them.

They're like a bunch of angry gorillas who just discovered how basic human interaction works

Docbear64 · 2020-01-24T00:28:51+00:00

I know some really great single women , my sister is one of them actually . She's sweet , kind , loving , supportive, funny , she's a gem...... but then I hear what she's looking for in a man and I realize the problem isn't that my sisters undateable ... the problem is that my sisters expectations and desires for a certain kind of man make her target a certain kind of guy ... and for THAT kind of guy ... my sister is kind of undateable .

Why do good decent women go without relationships ? Usually because what she's asking for is unrealistic and she won't agree to date men who are on " her level " .

Women like to date men better than them .... unfortunately if a man is better than you then ... you aren't his only or best option.

oh_no_aliens · 2020-01-23T19:21:26+00:00

wife-material can be seen with the naked eyes. Half the girls who are single are so due to their own devices. The other half has ridiculously high standards.

ThePlague · 2020-01-23T21:00:20+00:00

It never ceases to amaze me that women don't/won't/can't understand that their ideal of feminine beauty or attractiveness is different than that of most men.

jihocech · 2020-01-23T19:03:51+00:00

Betas do not count.

frikabg · 2020-01-23T19:52:19+00:00

If those women are such a great package than by all means you marry them! Become one of the countless 'winners' and take that sexy queen before some fucking rapist of a man beats you to it...

houseoftolstoy · 2020-01-23T20:55:35+00:00

It is always important to use a term properly, otherwise it becomes meaningless. To say that half of the single womem are "wife material" is a questionable use of the term. What makes a woman wife material? Having the necessary qualities and traits to be a good wife, which is not widely available among half of the women these days. Especially not in the femaledatingstrategy crowd, where being wife material is only a matter of declaring that they are.

So many women fail in this test alone: not being promiscuous. Having a notch count disqualifies you as wife material.

1st10Amendments · 2020-01-23T21:03:22+00:00

Um, does this “great package” weigh more than 90 kilograms/200 pounds?

Blogginginvicecity · 2020-01-23T21:29:27+00:00

Disrespectful women that don't bring much to the table aren't wife material.

Cuntfart9000 · 2020-01-23T23:15:39+00:00

no one their age knows how to handle such a ~~great~~ fat package

FTFY

Imperator_Red · 2020-01-23T23:22:43+00:00

They’re the opposite of wife material lol

j3wbacca996 · 2020-01-24T00:25:14+00:00

Wow I never knew a single sentence could be that out of touch of reality. Wife material women are fucking unicorns nowadays.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-01-24T06:11:53+00:00

No girls right now are wife material. Females are massive RISK material. Wives don't exist anymore because wives used to value, respect, honor and uphold marriage and the vows they made. Now, women get rid of husbands like last years smartphone model. A one-sided commitment is no commitment at all. Staying around until the pot grows to the point it's safe to leave is not a commitment, it's highway robbery.

FalsePositiveRethink · 2020-01-24T12:08:36+00:00

Yeah. It's the men's fault. Again.

rvail136 · 2020-01-26T16:02:15+00:00

No, just no. Feminism is a poison pill that was developed as a method of destroying our society. It's working, which sucks. so no, half of women aren't such great packages, because their heads are filled with too much nonsense.

where_muh_good_mens · 2020-01-23T17:28:34+00:00

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Nathaniel66 · 2020-01-23T17:48:12+00:00

And a dick mileage count in tens of miles.

TomahawkSuppository · 2020-01-23T22:18:33+00:00

The thousand cock stare - the modern day indicator for “wife material”

SuperGoxxer · 2020-01-23T22:19:32+00:00

I feel that all the girls who are single right now are whore material and everyone is starting to get how to handle such a fucked up package.

Something_Chronical · 2020-01-24T00:48:45+00:00

wife material

There's the problem

binkerfluid · 2020-01-24T02:32:54+00:00

Queen shit is shit just like everybody elses

fourthwallmotionless · 2020-01-24T06:57:28+00:00

If anything it isn't the woman you need to worry about, its everything else around her - the friends, the influencers, the social media, etc. That part is difficult to control for even the most dialed in guy. No matter what, you do have to lead, no matter how comfortable you think you can get in any relationship.

2020-01-24T14:11:20+00:00

Wild animals, crazy people, dangerous waste and women are the only things on this Earth that need to be "handled".

dingusfunk · 2020-01-24T15:27:22+00:00

The mental gymnastics are strong with this one.

If she is difficult to handle she is NOT a great package.

2020-01-25T14:35:37+00:00

femaledatingstrategy

That doesn't sound very strategic...

Wood878 · 2020-01-23T22:25:50+00:00

With EXTREME caution

Scooned · 2020-01-23T23:40:27+00:00

if any of you follow any political youtube channels Lauren Chen lambasted their sub recently and they had a pinned disclaimer for a while stating that they will just delete anything that anyone posts about her, it was glorious

clybourn · 2020-01-24T04:37:31+00:00

And the other half?

NagyonNagy · 2020-01-24T08:05:18+00:00

It is normal of you to feel like that due to being incredibly entitled. However, if you used your brain instead of your feelings, if you had one, you would discover that your feeling is stupid.

reallyveryhandsome · 2020-01-25T13:40:32+00:00

This whole subreddit is just one big r/Niceguys screenshot.

2020-02-15T23:26:27+00:00

yea, not paying for a used up whore for the rest of her life. hoping we maintain republican presidents so I never have to.

Title	I have a degree/job [insert something expected of you]. Why won’t anyone like me??
Author	nasuits90
Upvotes	896
Comments	225
Date	January 23, 2020 12:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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