One of the "best" questions in modern heterosexuality is "where do you meet girls except bars/parties and OLD." I've had way less sleazy male friends than me ask this question a ton, especially when i lived in New Orleans (a city that makes it very easy to meet girls in bars). They might not have used the same language manospherians do, but the spirit was the same: "Where the fuck are all the girls who aren't barely functioning alcoholic sluts?"

The answer is they should are often volunteering and doing nice things for other people, because that's what women with a nurturing personality do. Now I don't date these kinds of Genuinely Nice girls, because all I really value in women is Beauty, Nymphomania, Wisdom. [I am basically always sitting at the slot machine of heterosexuality looking for that triple cherry trifecta.] Kindness is GREAT; my current girlfriend is hardly unkind, but I wouldn't say kindness is one of her top 5 innate character traits. Maybe not even Top 10.

However, I've known plenty of women whose central appeal might be Beauty, Kindness, Liveliness. I WILL admit the truly beautiful women who have a vibrant sexuality and an EVEN temperament usually fly off the shelf and firmly into committed relationships/marriages quite early, so if you're under 24 you should honestly just log off and start volunteering, seriously. But there are plenty of other women who might offer Kindness, Intelligence, and [Something you Value].

The first time i discovered this WAS actually in New Orleans. A friend of mine had heard about some craft volunteer group he was profiling, and i went with him just out of curiosity. We were both part of the same friend circle, and NOLA is a small / lively enough town that a famous girls' bathroom graffiti reads "NOLA: The World's Biggest High School ; The World's Slowest Orgy." But we barely recognized ANY of these girls, and many were VERY attractive. We literally looked at each other unprompted when we walked in the room, like "Oh shit, this is where they all are lol."

Your town probably has plenty of such stuff. The most basic bitch (but least truly demanding test of altruism) is probably animal shelters. Sure, you're probably thinking mostly lesbian pitbull ladies and emotionally damaged people who can only connect with mammalian dependents. And... that's not INACCURATE, but there are also a fuck ton of extremely fun, lively, KIND women who volunteer at animal shelters--including the hottest girl I've ever dated seriously.

That said, connecting with animals IS kind of basic. If you are scared of even the animal girls, you will want to go deeper into HUMAN kinds of need and misery and see who decides to spend their time there. I'd suggest clubs like the one I mentioned earlier where there is some "doing" component that is still sedate enough to involve conversation.

So in summary, men often talk about avoiding SLUTS and heartbreak here. Now I'm not saying these women have entirely different "NATURE" (I make no warranties of awalt), I am just saying that if you are ACTUALLY genuine in desiring what passes for a nurturing, kind, and unselfish woman these days, you should probably go where they're likely to be found.