THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!

Seraphinx · 2020-05-30T18:04:16+00:00

I hope you reported him.

Lenaisstillcool · 2020-05-30T18:06:19+00:00

Wtf did I just read? Report this motherfucker

CaramelxMarshmallows · 2020-05-30T20:53:19+00:00

This person should rot in hell! Wtf couldn't even read it.

On the other hand, sis delete your pic. People will go to any lengths to attack a user of FDS.

barbaramanatea · 2020-05-30T18:23:17+00:00

I couldn’t even finish it. I was formerly ok with some mild BDSM (nothing this extreme, but still) and now that I stopped having casual sex with men and watching porn, I finally have the appropriate response to reading about abuse like this, which is to be totally nauseated.

One New Year’s resolution to myself was to regain a healthy sexuality by buying a vibrator, quitting casual sex with men, leaving online dating behind, and going cold turkey on porn. I still use written and spoken erotica, but even a lot of that is so degrading to women that I cannot stomach it and my imagination is more vivid and useful than ever. I would recommend the same to anyone who is struggling with the urge to participate in degrading sex.

lemon_hearts · 2020-05-30T18:56:09+00:00

Imagine having to write some stupid shit like this because women won't give you the time of day lmaoooooooooo Living in fantasy only and too impotent to have the balls to do this irl even if a woman did consent. Pathetic.

TradcatAlice · 2020-05-30T18:06:45+00:00

This is so degenerate. The absolute audacity of scrotes to talk to women like this.

They like gagging women with balls? Why don't we give them a taste of their own medicine and gag them after letting them hang from their balls.

Averyhvw · 2020-05-30T21:54:39+00:00

“It would be soooo hottttt” to rape you. It’s just ridiculous how everything boils down to what would be “so hot” for their pee pees.

You could literally train them like monkeys to be aroused by the stupidest crap. It always comes back to porn!

blk_grl_lvl_up · 2020-05-30T17:57:58+00:00

Ya BDSM is rape and abuse. There is no other way a no rapist would not only feel this way but feel comfortable tying this if this community didn’t condone rape. He is a rapist.

deudeo · 2020-05-30T21:52:33+00:00

What I don’t understand about BDSM is how you can treat someone you love like this. This guy is talking with hatred for this woman and women as a whole. People who talk about BDSM in relationships just doesn’t make sense to me.

outside-perception · 2020-05-30T17:53:09+00:00

This made me nauseated... I don't get why they think it's okay to message random people like that. How can that be sexy? If it isn't a "hot damn hell yeah tell me more" then don't go there, and I mean that from both sides.

2020-05-30T18:28:37+00:00

So this what pickmes think is sexy huh. Yeah no, kink shaming exista for a reason and IDGAF if it hurts kinkmeishas feelings that some women are not flattered by receiving messages from abusive men.

Cobmobster21 · 2020-05-30T20:27:58+00:00

What in the holy hell

Red-Thursday · 2020-05-30T23:41:32+00:00

Why do people cross out the name (& picture when available) from these posts? Their names should be shown to everyone.

blackopium777 · 2020-05-30T18:32:44+00:00

I would probably get him doxxed.

Throoooowawayyyyy55 · 2020-05-30T21:37:09+00:00

Solution: chop his dick off and ram it down his throat.

Maisiebr · 2020-05-30T19:29:10+00:00

Ugh, when I was sexting with my FWB (my first and probably last) with mild BDSM undertones because I was sort of into it back then, it was all kinda nice (not really though, because I preferred it to be thrilling not outright vulgar), until he really got into it. He was just fucking weird and it incorporated all of his fantasies but none of mine. With sex, it was nice, because we found the things we both enjoyed, but with sexting it seemed like what it really was - weird as fuck. Disgusting. Deranged.

AyemHerself · 2020-05-30T18:14:52+00:00

These messages are common if you join any fetish-friendly website like Fetlife or Collarspace.

weirdhobby · 2020-05-30T19:54:04+00:00

when i was 18 i had a bdsm freak send me a bunch of messages like this but they were ALL about him watching my dad rape me and him having a go after he was done...

nopuedeser818 · 2020-05-30T19:15:10+00:00

I read a few sentences and that was it. This guy spent all this energy writing that out instead of doing something productive with his life. LOL. How pathetic.

2020-05-30T18:10:09+00:00

Men are disgusting

Novemberinthechair · 2020-05-30T23:17:43+00:00

No. Tying men up is hot, patriarchy and all. Making US submissive is not.

Myplummms · 2020-05-31T04:17:20+00:00

This guy needs to be on a watchlist.

Myplummms · 2020-05-31T04:17:37+00:00

Hello, I'm Chris Hansen. Please take a seat right over there.

_boring_daven_ · 2020-05-31T05:43:17+00:00

Absolutely deranged and abusive. Disgusting.

I can’t get past “on a bare bed frame”. It’s just a glaring flaw. Is there no mattress or something?

juliet-elia · 2020-05-31T09:12:41+00:00

This is why bdsm became more and more a Ventile for rapists. He is actively talking about rape and denying consent. Where is the bdsm on agreed terms? This is why you can't do that shit anymore nowadays

Lazy_Jacket500 · 2020-05-31T03:07:45+00:00

These pieces of worthless shits think they are God...

fuckCharDMacDennis2 · 2020-05-31T07:22:46+00:00

I stopped reading about 1/3rd of the way in. That was getting gross. I'm sorry for everyone who received a message like that.

lillycrack · 2020-05-31T09:59:41+00:00

This is textbook porn. How can people still defend porn when it creates scripts for rape like this?

electrax0 · 2020-05-30T23:13:13+00:00

Imagine this man thinking that he’s living his best life and then someone does this to his own daughter. Then watch how the tables will turn and he will be the submissive one next time

PicklesNBacon · 2020-05-31T01:03:00+00:00

Da Fuq?!

Title	THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!
Author	theawkwardalli
Upvotes	157
Comments	35
Date	May 30, 2020 5:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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