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[–]xandreniaFDS Newbie274 points275 points276 points 3 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
Something else that really grinds my gears is the misconception that vaginas become looser and stretched out if you have a lot of sex.
Dude ... if a vagina can push out a fucking baby and go back to normal, your dick is not going to do much
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie103 points104 points105 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely. My vagina looks like I never had a kid so it's like...how is it that we can have tons of sex with one guy and it's no big deal yet having some sex with a lot of different men and we're suddenly the grand canyon down there?
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve slept with a few well hung guys...it goes right back! Snaps back into place! It’s so stupid..
[–]lovebun999FDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
The slut shaming is real. The loose feeling, even in childbirth, typically happens because of a prolapsed uterus anyway. Not vaginal stretching.
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh definitely! I had third degree tears and it was my first and only birth. They told me I could have a risk of incontinence and scarring but both didn't happen and with some Kegels and my normal exercise routine back, after 3mos my OB said it's like I never had a baby.
It's really based around a combination of things including number of pregnancies/the pregnancy itself. Your genetics, lifestyle, hormones, build. It's all relative and your recovery can't be predicted no matter how easy the pregnancy may be.
[–]TheMissInformedFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had this epiphany that the type of guys who complain that a woman is going to be loose after being with several guys might be concerned that other guys have bigger dicks than them and it's stretching her out lol. It screams insecurity and toxic masculinity to me.
[–]AdawritesrulesRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is looser and saggier than a mans balls. From birth they already arrive having hit the wall.
[–]hahaItWorkedFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dicks are like car batteries... after a certain mileage it dies and you have to replace it
I flat out say: “I heard pornhub makes it harder for men to perform in bed, is that true?”
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That’s a misnomer and has everything to do with the integrity of one’s pelvic floor muscles and nothing to do with actual vagina.
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[+]AliceKingslyAt-Risk Pick Me Youth-17 points-16 points-15 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I honestly don't care what you think being a woman is, sis. Where are your sources? Because I have quite a few.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why are you even on this sub? I’m certainly not getting into a battle of sources with someone who places so much values on the perceived tightness of vaginas...you clearly wish to be right about this so have at it. Be as wrongfully right as you wish. 😂
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[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Are you a gynecologist?
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Are you?
[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, but I'm trying to understand where your perspective came from.
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[–]AliceKingslyAt-Risk Pick Me Youth-4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not sexist. It's a fact. And the fact that you actually believe that I care about karma just proves that you have the mindset of a 12 yr old. 😂
[–]Saban7164FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jfc no they don't
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[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Which is a paradox in itself. Isn't it weird how porn stars, who have sex (according to my radfem views, it's more like getting raped, but yeah) with a lot of different, well hung men are the ones who have the most "virginal" looking vaginas? Clearly there's something wrong with the logic.
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s almost as if they cannot wrap their heads around the idea that more and more women are completely content with opting out if need be.
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"But... but... we told you what you need to do to please us. WHY AREN'T YOU DOING WHAT WE WANT?! What do you mean you don't want it. When exactly did we ask what you wanted to do with your body?"
[–]is_that_a_w33dFDS Newbie114 points115 points116 points 3 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
I grew up being insecure about not only this but also my body. Women are supposed to have nice vaginas, large ass and boobs... every woman lives a life full of the feeling of needing to measure up... and it's so sad :(
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth102 points103 points104 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
My very first boyfriend at 15 told me that pubic hair is "manly" and I need to shave it all for him. I had a landing strip. I wish I'd had the self esteem then to have laughed in his face and left him that second.
[–]is_that_a_w33dFDS Newbie97 points98 points99 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Nothing I hate more than when men speak poorly against a womans body hair when they've never had to touch a razor in their life smh.
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Worst part is he later shaved himself out of curiosity and said it was awful and itchy and time consuming and he's never doing it again. But I absolutely had to, despite him now having a full awareness of what a pain in the ass it is.
[–]is_that_a_w33dFDS Newbie41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
IM DEAD! LOLLLLLL man I wouldve deadass laughed in his face and left on the spot
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a piss ant.
I wish all women, whenever asked to get rid of all their pube hair by a scote, would laugh uncontrollably and start calling the guy a pedo. Shame them.
[–]Buckley92FDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is in NO WAY defending your boyfriend, he sounds like an asshole, but in my experience, shaving with an electric shaver reduces SIGNIFICANTLY the time AND the itchiness down there... not that I do it often, but when I do it, it’s a huge help over just using the regular razor and soap/shower gel.
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I am not putting an electrified blade near my coochie, end of! 😱
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's so ridiculous. My landing strip was always a point of "whoa I normally like bald but this is really hot and unique".
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did eventually land guys with that attitude!
[–]Buckley92FDS Apprentice15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ummmm... your boyfriend was a creep. At fifteen he shouldn’t even have seen what you looked like down there at all.
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tbf he was 6 months younger than me and also 15.
[–]Buckley92FDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Still a creep and still disgusting.
[–]_octaneTwisted_FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's awful, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Personally I decided to shave mine because I think it's cleaner that way, and because I'm a very squeamish when it comes to hygiene. Not because my disgusting ex made me do it even though he had a disgusting looking dick, and he didn't shower regularly. He had a fucking bush and his asshole was hairy lol. God I hate men sometimes
[–]BellatrixLenormalFDS Newbie113 points114 points115 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am so glad I grew up in a generation that did not expect bald, or even partially waxed.
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[–]Rpattz73FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine a society where the biologically normal is “kinky”. Oh, wait 🤡
[–]sexxxybaeFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
Ugh. My bf makes comments about me being hairy. I trim but if I shave it even in the same direction as hair growth, when it grows back it hurts or I get ingrown. so I try to keep it as short as possible without shaving it. but he has to say stuff about it. I have thick hair down there, that's the way it is. He keeps his stuff maintained but for some of us there are things we can't control. I will not wax right now, maybe one day but not yet.
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
If a man made comments about me being hairy, I’d ask him when is he getting his balls waxed? If not he can shut the fuck up
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't like this argument.
Men don't get to tell you want to do with your body even if that wax their balls. Would you let Jessica Yaniv tell you what to do with your body?
If a man told you to get a particular haircut, on your head, because it turned him on you'd be out the door like a shot. Why is pubic hair better? If anything it's worse because it's even more personal.
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right of course. I just use that response as a way to put the conversation back on him, because it’s absolutely true he has no right to tell me what to do with my body either
They don’t think they have any reason to expect the same treatment and they’re offended when it happens
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice74 points75 points76 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
They hate signs that women have gone through puberty. That's a current phenomenon.
Funny that up until the 80s early 90s, men liked "bush." Watch popular films from that time. The proof is all there.
I think if the porn industry suddenly pushed the idea that women could only be attractive if they had a third eye, it would become a fad and men would be whining for their girlfriends/wives to get "corrective " surgery.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😆
[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They hate signs that women have gone through puberty.
So they want full grown boobs and ass on an otherwise pre-pubescent body? Flawless logic.
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[–]sexxxybaeFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very interesting. I was a child in the 80s and 90s so another interesting thing is that the men from back then acted like real men. Even the rock stars with long hair and makeup, they carried themselves and talked like men, I never thought of them as feminine even though they had supposed hallmarks of femininity like eyeliner and nailpolish. and handled responsibilities like men. Not saying it was perfect, there was some domestic violence too that they didn't talk about. My point is that I said the last real men were grown in the 90s, and you're saying that they liked bush, once these guys started feminizing they liked something else. very interesting observation
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
because of porn porn porn. All these NVM.
[–]JSW_pilotFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I ask this to them all the time and they play it off real quick. Why is it just women that are expected to wax to nothing?! Get the men in on it too. Come on now.
[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And why is he still your boyfriend?
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Any more comments? that zone is off limits to him. Any further complaints? he’s gone. Be grateful for what you have or lose it.
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone grateful for their partner and sex knows it's so worth going through the rough to get the green, if you pardon my golf metaphor :P
Time to get a new boyfriend girl :)
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If my bf dared make a comment about my body he would be out the door in an instant. Never tolerate disrespect.
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed. I hear you!
[–]HhjjuuyFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You mean your ex?
[–]Lavender_flowFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Would be enough of a reason for me to consider dumping said boyfriend. " when it grows back it hurts or I get ingrown. " you get pains and he has stuff to say about it? Tell him to get his pornsick ass out of here. Men who prefer bald vaginas, watch a lot of porn- surprise surprise.... You are in the right place, because none should be putting up with bs like that.
[–]randomgirlimokFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The mental image made me gag. I’m not sure I like men anymore.
[–]greenteaapplepie69Ruthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoo 💀💀💀
[–]sadcelloFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All those words just to say, "Imma pedo."
[–]LivePie31 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's go back in time. The United States, 1850. The average woman had nine kids. This tells me her husband (not a lot of "boyfriends" back then) was attracted to her sexually. All she had to do was SHOW UP. Did she have to shave her legs, pits, get a Brazilian every 4 weeks? No. He was a man, unexposed to porn, so A WOMAN'S BODY WAS ENOUGH. Sorry for all caps. And I am speaking in the broadest of terms. And I would like a glass of wine. Thanks for listening to my Ted Talk.
[–]YacoTrain0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"lavender"
Lol ok dude
[–]dizzaster770 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AND!!!!
[–]mr-cory-trevor0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reject them, seriously. Set the standard. Each and every guy will shave and groom their nether regions if women straight up refuse to entertain them.
[–]any_other_businessFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I prefer to be hairless. That is 100% something I do for me and no one else ... but this thread makes me feel like I’m buying into some porn industry ideal and I should be ashamed of that. Can’t win....
[–]LivePie30 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry! I can't speak for the others, but I am against a man telling me my body isn't feminine enough for him to be attracted to. When what he really means is "it doesn't match the porn I look at." (I support whatever you choose to do.)
[–]redditpulledmebackin0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well find a man who doesn’t expect you to change your personal appearance to please them.
Every time I see this picture I laugh.
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