Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemic

420snailmode · 2020-05-01T13:00:51+00:00

“he knew that i wouldn’t be okay with it and that’s why he hasn’t YET” sis i’m sorry but...kinda sounds like he probably will, no matter what you say

purplecatmom · 2020-05-01T13:25:58+00:00

Sounds to me like he already HAS, or has made arrangements to do so, and is just feeling her out to see if she’d be upset if he came clean. She might as well just dump him.

missamourcali · 2020-05-01T12:38:41+00:00

Too late, he's either already having sex or lined someone up already. He's not going to pop that question out of the blue.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-05-01T14:18:16+00:00

“I want to fuck my ex who lives across the hall.”

“Oh haha I didn’t take him too seriously it’s like fine or whatever nbd haha.” 🤡

One thing I always notice is the marked under reaction to audacity. The lack of proper anger or anything.

_anon_throwaway_ · 2020-05-01T13:54:13+00:00

What a worthless human being that he is. I wish she didn't feel heartbreak and instead realized that he could go fuck as many girls as he wants to. She's better off without him. A useless man like that is not worthy of tears.

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-05-01T15:05:40+00:00

“A couple girls he could fuck that stayed nearby”

Sounds like his tinder matches

And his tinder profile probably says “ethically open relationship”

lonelybones1 · 2020-05-01T13:13:45+00:00

She probably won't dump him though and make more excuses for him.

N2Gen · 2020-05-01T15:12:26+00:00

Amusing of this clown to assume his ex is just waiting for him to stop by so she can spread her legs for him again

I’m surprised he hasn’t pulled the poly/enm horseshit on gf too but it’s probably a matter of time before he tries to gaslight her for her boundaries 🙄

bootybootybootymeow · 2020-05-01T14:05:34+00:00

I hate people like him you got some nerve to be that selfish where "I do want to fuck around but I am going to date someone and waste their time and break their heart at the end". Also these assholes also justify how they not a bad person. I don't get it like it's pretty easy to not be a bad person. Also, this pickme should use this time to dump him it's pretty situation for breakups you don't have to show your face just text dump and go missing in action.

myaccountiscool · 2020-05-01T16:31:09+00:00

He’s already doing it.

myousername · 2020-05-01T17:06:56+00:00

The correct response is "I don't care who you sleep with because I'm breaking up with you. Don't ever contact me again" and then blocking and deleting him.

helljess86 · 2020-05-01T13:05:37+00:00

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cremeblushers · 2020-05-01T17:07:01+00:00

I don't know what's worse, the fact that he probably (definitely) already cheated on her, or that he thinks he can ask for permission to be a total degenerate.

siberiansummer · 2020-05-01T17:37:01+00:00

Once inception is born, action will follow

slaynmantis · 2020-05-01T18:43:32+00:00

its so aggravating when women are succumb to blatant denial even when the evidence is embarrassingly obvious

2020-05-01T21:13:46+00:00

Can you imagine how pissed he'd be if she said she asked him if its ok for her to fuck her neighbor! His ex lives across the hall from him odds are they have fucked already and he's feeling guilty.

StupidHappyPancakes · 2020-05-01T21:49:45+00:00

How sad is it that this man is already this desperate after ONE month of not getting laid? There's a near infinite supply of free porn (because you know this guy's already a porn addict anyways) and he's got two good hands. It's so pathetic how some men treat lack of sex as a dire emergency. People around the world are losing their livelihoods and lives, but all you hear is desperate whining about sex.

wegonfuckornah · 2020-05-01T14:51:40+00:00

Legit question from someone who has never been a relationship:

Is it normal for people to have sexual desires for others even in happy relationship?

Do we just suppress it for the sake of our SO?

Or is that trait exclusive to promiscuous or non - monogamous folks?

StupidHappyPancakes · 2020-05-01T20:23:44+00:00

Holy shit I would ghost dump block immediately after hearing that from him, and I wouldn't be heartbroken about it either

Him being a sleazebag and overt about it isn't an assessment on your worth ladies. This is like singers smashing their guitars. They don't value that beautiful guitar they are just destroying it to show how "cool"and powerful they are. You are just a prop trophy to a guy to show his friends "look what I bagged". So dump at the smallest sign of entitlement or audacity. It only gets worse

YEET these men to the curb

IgetitIdont · 2020-05-01T12:39:16+00:00

This is some bullshit. She deserves better. A pandemic is going on and he still needs to get his dick wet

cherrybombfield · 2020-05-01T20:31:37+00:00

Girl he has already slept with those girls and he is feeling her out to see how she will react if she finds out. Setting up his justification before she does.

2020-05-01T23:03:44+00:00

“As a joke”

Novemberinthechair · 2020-05-01T18:00:08+00:00

"I'm scared..."

WHY?

yaaasss123 · 2020-05-01T20:32:34+00:00

This is the kind of excuses women give to themselves because the truth hurts. I did the same with a guy too. But, getting over him is the only option. I actually feel so retarded to fall for such bs but I think I was mad in love. Girl, the sooner you get out of this, the lesser the hurt and time wasted

buddingQueenie · 2020-05-02T03:29:58+00:00

Eww. How the fuck did we get to the top of the food chain when men have the mental capacity and restraint of an air-humping dog?

When they can't even pull back FOR THEIR OWN SURVIVAL, they're fucking defective.

suissegrl435 · 2020-05-02T14:33:56+00:00

He can't wait a MONTH? My dad went MANY MONTHS without sex while stuck overseas on a military base. And one time for 8 months he was stuck in a country where the penalty for extramarital sex was prison and there was no beer anywhere and if you were found with beer you died.

I don't get these clowns who can't go a month without sex. They're indicating they're not marriage material. Because there's going to be times in life where you won't be able to have sex. Babies, post pregnancy problems, job loss, rent hikes, home repairs, dead and dying family members and friends and even pets, broken down cars, cancer, loss of drive with age, etc will affect how much sex you get.

Grow up and get over yourself, men.

moosecakies · 2020-05-02T07:52:46+00:00

What I want to know is... why the hell is she even dating a guy that lives across from his ex ?!!! 🧐

Title	Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemic
Author	carachu
Upvotes	176
Comments	45
Date	May 1, 2020 12:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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