This was on a beauty sub of all places 🙄 the op was asking how to get over a breakup

SpectralCadence · 2020-02-16T02:26:04+00:00

Cool girls don't visit FDS ;)

Lazy_Sherbert · 2020-02-16T04:16:38+00:00

Let them suck dicks for McDonald’s cheeseburgers who cares

persephones_torch · 2020-02-16T01:49:46+00:00

I like how they're advertising the sub anyway LOL

gursky0 · 2020-02-16T01:48:17+00:00

Pickmes can't handle accepting the true nature of men.

I found FDS after a breakup and it's literally the reason I'm now happy, focusing on myself and my interests, not pining after my ex or trying to fill the void with mediocre men.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-02-16T01:50:15+00:00

I'm sure some of us are jaded, but I see it as we're realistic and hold ourselves and the men (especially) accountable.

level_up_always · 2020-02-16T03:08:43+00:00

"The ideology such a weird mix between extremely conservative and progressive."

It's almost as if it was a false dichotomy created by those in power to keep people divided (divide and conquer) including women and everyone else along whatever intersectional lines work at the current moment and we actually have way more in common than we have differences! And women realizing their power within a patriarchal system and not putting up with bs isn't what I would consider 'conservative' but ok..

MelatoninNightmares · 2020-02-16T01:52:23+00:00

slamming men for enjoying a sexual act I actually like doing

Enjoy your anal fissures, sis.

7_0f_9 · 2020-02-16T02:47:07+00:00

"Ideology is such a weird mix " that's because it's not a rigid dogma. It takes what works and discards the rest. Only cultic people need to strictly follow one particular dogma to feel like they are doing life the right way. On the contrary, we like to think for ourselves.

And that girl feeling "guilty", and you kinda need to self analyze. Sometimes that's hard to do. Sometimes it makes you feel like shit. Sometimes you need to ADULT UP and figure your shit out if your wanna level up in life. Being conscious is painful but worth it. I don't understand how that can be interpreted as "cynical" or "jaded". Talk about projection. Chick probably realized her partner was shit and didn't wanna do the hard work of getting the fuck out and changing her life for the better. To me THAT'S cynical af. Her loss.

2020-02-16T03:05:02+00:00

Ok cool girl 👍

thestemgorl_ · 2020-02-16T05:20:49+00:00

I love this sub. I’ve meet so many great women with impressive life stories who have gone through so much.

We know what’s up and don’t take shit from any man. I rather be considered bitter and a bitch, then be with a LVM who treats me like garage and be bitter with a garage guy.

I hate women who say others for “liking vanilla sex” or having high standards. Girl it’s not my fault your into getting choked with a rope and into guys who don’t put any effort into your relationship.

Annallve · 2020-02-16T01:50:48+00:00

Oh no, we’re shaming men lol poor them!

ashleecakes · 2020-02-16T03:40:51+00:00

Yeah I got similar responses here and didn’t know what to say. People saying we’re toxic, smh...

KatVanJet · 2020-02-16T11:25:17+00:00

OMG IT HAPPENED TO ME TOO LMAOOO. Beauty sub as well.

theghettogirl · 2020-02-16T03:36:20+00:00

Keep talking sis!

We are here for you either way!

nosynobody · 2020-02-16T08:38:58+00:00

I am okay with being jaded. Better being jaded than put up with bullshit

modernmedusaa · 2020-02-16T14:59:48+00:00

Lol everything has to be black and white to simpleton low value people , their brains aren’t capable of handling complexity. If they can’t put it in one simple box they’re frightened of it 🤣

siberiansummer · 2020-02-16T06:27:25+00:00

Lol that’s cool. Who the fuck cares 🤷‍♀️

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-02-16T19:27:55+00:00

Lol that "weird mix" she describes is that we do not want to be used for sex. But also hold men accountable for being crappy. I see no strange mix that makes perfect sense to me. Fds is the only place where I feel like its ok to speak the truth about how it is dating and how unfair things often are. I would love to go out there and have lots of sex, I just do not want to be doing it with some one who doesnt care about me or sees me an object. The emotional damage of that is not worth the sex. Due to the nature of men this unfortunately means that I will be respectfully declining all sex offers and insisting on waiting until I know for sure that the man is interested in me and not just what sexual things I could offer him. This isnt being conservative it's understanding how things work and applying that logic. We dont live in a garden of eden. We never will. So there are rules. And you know, wanting to be physically safe and not get stds are kind of a big deal too.

poopinfukinbuckets · 2020-02-16T06:27:15+00:00

2 cool 4 us 😎🤡

Title	This was on a beauty sub of all places 🙄 the op was asking how to get over a breakup
Author	luvhley25
Upvotes	92
Comments	50
Date	February 16, 2020 1:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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