Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!

Bovvsette · 2020-07-02T07:44:49+00:00

Ah, the pickmeisha guru. I used to watch him too, but all of his advice was how to fake pseudo high value for the short term while still prioritizing the man and trying to catch his fleeting attention. And we all know that's a time wasting sham.

Regarding his 50/50 fantasies, it's not going to happen. If you treat woman like a buddy-buddy that you split the bill with, then obviously you can't expect sex. You're asking her to risk her whole life and body with potential pregnancy and you aren't even willing to risk 15 bucks. You could only justify going halfsies in same sex relationships, where no one is risking more than the other. But in a relationship where one party can get into a vulnerable position after sex, and another isn't showing any signs of being a provider for those trying times, what do think is going to happen? We're not free escorts.

somegenerichandle · 2020-07-02T06:03:54+00:00

Some guy linked this video in the ask sub. He's so gross, can't even wear business casual like his audience members.

dzgata · 2020-07-02T08:31:54+00:00

I just know this guy has sex with his pickmeisha clients and cheats on his pickme wife all the time

Maisiebr · 2020-07-02T07:29:39+00:00

That was a long way to say how if a guy pays for a date, you're obligated to have sex with him.

Sekina7 · 2020-07-02T09:00:47+00:00

No WONDER Camilla Cabello dumped his ass. Can't believe I used to watch his older vids what a CREEP!

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-07-02T06:12:33+00:00

He’s the prime example of mansplaining. I fucking hate him. Can’t believe I watched so many of his videos and genuinely thought he could offer good advice when I first started dating

minty-coral · 2020-07-02T09:58:48+00:00

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chateauduchat · 2020-07-02T10:12:01+00:00

The amount of pickmes in the comments makes me sick 🤮 I’d rather pay for my own meals alone for myself than go on a date and split 50/50.

OrchidLion · 2020-07-02T06:13:20+00:00

He also fails to teach women what abuse looks like and when we should dump/reject a male.

Convenient eh

His advice is the sole reason I got into an abusive relationship and didn't recognize the red flags.

His advice works in the sense that you can use it to make males pay for everything by setting up a standard from the beginning. And he tells you ways to change their behaviour for the short term.

But do not listen to his tactics unless you have strong boundaries and know all red flags and have no qualms about walking away

GlamorKiss · 2020-07-02T06:57:16+00:00

He’s a disgusting mysogynistic man. He could at least have stated his opinion respectfully

daisy_0720 · 2020-07-02T06:28:53+00:00

Knew it going to be Matthew Hussey before I even clicked on the link. This guy also puts the onus of keeping a man's interest on the woman, with 'the perfect text to send him when he says...' rubbish. I'm at the point where I side-eye ANY male dating coach who offers advice to women.

radical__daphne · 2020-07-02T13:50:32+00:00

Rapist.

Man pays and I still have the right to not be raped by him. Nasty scrote!

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-02T16:22:27+00:00

"Treat him as you would your best friend."

I do not suck my best friend's (non-existent) dick.

seraphinelysion · 2020-07-02T15:58:38+00:00

If a man pays for a dinner date and expects sex to follow because "he paid", he is essentially treating you like a prostitute.

2020-07-02T17:03:49+00:00

Another fence sitting "expert". He did a dating show here in Australia, one series of giving advice to a group of women who pretty much ignored it, it was a massive flop Trailer... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Lvcs7HWfav4

Crickets... https://expressdigest.com/the-single-wives-continues-to-lose-viewers-after-lowest-rated-reality-premiere-in-almost-20-years/

Myplummms · 2020-07-02T19:01:08+00:00

If we’re friends, I’m halving or paying to treat them. If he wants to be more than friends, he’s paying, period.

tiltmaxx · 2020-07-03T03:58:50+00:00

Oh I remember him, he has these ridiculous ads about stuff like "this one simple thing that will make him addicted to you" or "how to win him back forever" and other stupid crap, obviously catering to desperate pickmeishas hoping to get back with some LVM who dumped them.

JaneIsaPain · 2020-07-04T08:56:41+00:00

My dating coach back in the day tried to come onto me...he was 30yrs older

sporty_socks · 2020-07-04T02:25:10+00:00

His texting strategies are cheesy AF. He’s out here trying to salt our game.

2020-07-04T08:08:08+00:00

This might just be me, but for some reason, if I like the guy I’ll let him pay for the bill. But if I’m not into him or realize I’m not into him during the course of the date, I’ll split the bill and decline the guy’s offer to pay for the whole thing.

Title	Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!
Author	bobasweetie
Upvotes	146
Comments	61
Date	July 2, 2020 6:01 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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