This isn't real, right? GF of 15 years, BF won't even buy her a phone. She invests in the house, he treats himself.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-07-07T17:17:31+00:00

There are lots of ways to abuse a woman without ever putting a hand on her. Financial exploitation IS abuse, ladies.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-07-07T17:38:43+00:00

15 years together, still a boyfriend, won't buy her a phone. Sounds about right.

loudest_gusset · 2020-07-07T18:04:22+00:00

Who the fuck is a gf for 15 years?
If you are life partners why are you nickel and diming each other?
Why is it only her responsibility to show fiscal sense?
If he makes 2/3 of the income, he should be paying everything, or at the VERY LEAST 2/3 of the fixed costs and they call it even since the same labor hours are going in.

But most importantly, who the fuck is a girlfriend for 15 years?

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-07T16:55:11+00:00

Oh? She bought a new washing machine last month?

Guess her dude is hand washing his skid mark undies in the sink from now on.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-07-07T17:26:53+00:00

15 years... jesus fix it

throwaway715123 · 2020-07-07T17:44:12+00:00

One of the things I really appreciate about my Asian cultural norm is the hudband gives almost of his salary to his wife whether the wife works or not.

Summerisle7 · 2020-07-07T18:18:27+00:00

"Me and my boyfriend are together for 15 years now".....is the saddest phrase in the world. I didn't even need to read any further, lol

ihavenoideadwhatimdo · 2020-07-07T16:52:56+00:00

heterosexuality is a curse

Firefly10886 · 2020-07-07T17:53:07+00:00

Poor woman has to use twisted logic to explain this insanity. She needs to GTFO, 15 years and he is still worthless.

InayahDaneen · 2020-07-07T20:50:34+00:00

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modernmedusaa · 2020-07-07T20:19:40+00:00

Every single time they enter saying something like “we’ve been together for 7+ years” I always 🤦‍♀️ sis is a lost cause.

Incredible_Alligator · 2020-07-07T21:34:27+00:00

This is why I never share my financial info with a man. I never let them know how much money I have and just pretend I'm poor. I was dating an alcoholic once and I had left a job and cashed out my pension. I got a lot of money. I NEVER told him. It would've been a disaster. I'm really good at saving money and I always have a stash going for either a trip or an emergency. Never disclose personal finances or share finances with someone.

Trinityblue93 · 2020-07-07T20:39:20+00:00

I commented on that post and told her she needs to stop setting herself on fire to keep him warm. AND she even said in the comments that he doesn't even care about any of her problems.

honeybeeroll · 2020-07-07T22:36:57+00:00

I got a headache reaching this how they split their money or whatever. You're together 15 fucking years and still splitting finances like you're two teenagers on their first date? She pays for ALL living and shared expenses and he just buys shit for himself? AND has no fiscal responsibility?

What a thoughtless prick. I hope she gets out of this relationship ASAP and takes all HER shit before he cheats on her (if he hasn't already). Used to work w/ a woman whose man child bf lived in HER house for a few years, and then cheated on her less than a year into their marriage (while they were still living in HER house!!)

hhgjj0 · 2020-07-07T22:01:00+00:00

I really don't get it why they won't be buying furniture and appliances from the pooled fund before sharing the rest? He probably gaslights her that furniture and appliances are "for her" and not both of them.

meanemad · 2020-07-07T23:29:12+00:00

we could bet who is doing the 95% of the household chores too 🙄

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-07-07T22:21:02+00:00

Also she works more hours than him...

sadcello · 2020-07-08T19:38:47+00:00

Men are the real gold digger.

devoushka · 2020-07-07T23:31:32+00:00

Can you imagine giving half your income to a man, or anyone really...

I hope he out earns her significantly at least, but I highly doubt it.

catsuramen · 2020-07-07T22:14:57+00:00

Why are they combining finances like that when they aren't even married? 🤡

Mindard · 2020-07-08T12:28:27+00:00

I almost cried. Bless her

InayahDaneen · 2020-07-11T16:30:01+00:00

Men are definitely the real gold diggers. She needs to dump him already. Did you try to link her FDS? This place is a savior.

Title	This isn't real, right? GF of 15 years, BF won't even buy her a phone. She invests in the house, he treats himself.
Author	PinkestMango
Upvotes	100
Comments	33
Date	July 7, 2020 4:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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