....in the type and manner of the relationship they want.

Let's be clear - female "flirting" is to show up somewhere and look pretty, while hoping some mystery guy will do something about it.

Why is that?

They have absolutely no capability or desire to dictate the type of relationship you have. They certainly couldn't make a decision, even if they have some vague idea. That's SOLELY on you, as the man. So many fundamental TRP concepts are actually based on this simple idea.

Branch swinging happens because she will never make that move until some other dude has setup the terms of the new relationship for her.

Briffault's law is based on the fact her memories of your past are irrelevant, because she would have to be deciding the terms and their meaning if they mattered.

Hookups swipe left, quoth at least 12 girls I've piped on the first date.

You really think a bitch that can't decide what to eat can proactively get the man they want? Hell no. They don't even know who that guy is, or how any of it happens.

YOU have to decide what kind of relationship you're going to have, and be convincing about it. Strictly sex on Tuesday? Cool. Total monogamous devotion with babies in the future? Sure.

BUT YOU DON'T "FIND" THAT GIRL. YOU CREATE HER.

The whole point of spinning plates isn't that getting girls is important. It's a necessary step on the way to (i) figuring out what YOU want and (ii) learning how to dictate those terms effectively and efficiently.

Any time a woman is controlling the terms of the relationship, it's out of desperation or disrespect. That is total disaster in the making. You all know some "yes dear" faggot. Neither of those people are happy.

The moment you let (or worse, force) a woman start deciding what kind of relationship you have, the faster whatever it is goes to shit. This applies just as much on an approach as in a 10yr LTR.

I'll close by saying that any time you are "working on the relationship" you have officially FUCKED UP, because she is now making or remaking the terms. She didn't want to do that.