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I'm a 21M introverted yet confident guy who's always preferred to be alone. I fucking hate the title virgin and it caused me lots of insecurity, but I managed to overcome the insecurity first, and then the title second using TRP advice mixed in with my own instincts.

I've been super nice and friendly to my neighbor recently because my New Years resolution was to stop being such a shut-in and start meeting and greeting at every opportunity I get. Enough time passes and I am invited to a house party, which again, old me wants to so badly stay inside and play Skyrim all night. However, I decide to exit my comfort zone and go.

I go to the party with the intention of meeting new people, there's plenty of both genders and I make a point to get to know everyone equally regardless of who they are. It's all about asking tons of questions, being genuinely interested and listening, giving a few tid bit facts about yourself when asked or when relevant. At the very start of the party, this girl introduces herself and is immediately touchy (forcefully holding my hand despite me breaking it off because I don't really like holding hands with someone I've just met, but whatever, I'm the virgin here so I'll go with it maybe this is normal). She sticks to me like glue and is unable to maintain constant eye contact with me. I think I'm about a 7 physically and like a 10 when it comes to meeting brand new people and mingling, so I rarely have problems talking to girls, I just have problems kicking myself in the head and bothering to invite them anywhere.

I am a self induced introvert and was a self imprisoned virgin, it was entirely my fault, and all those years I spent complaining about women in my head and online were complete bullshit and I cringe thinking about it.

So this girl I've just met for the first time is giving me obvious signals and I'm not a total idiot. I go home and part of me wants to just turn Trailer Park Boys on Netflix and call it a night after having a great time getting to know everyone, but I muster up the effort to send one sentence to her on snapchat (she asked for my SC), I send "You can come over if you want." She replies with "Fuck I'm home now but you can take a taxi over maybe?". I go to her house and here is where I'll talk about some red pill stuff I implemented and my overall first timer experience.

FYI: For some reason having to take a taxi bothered me, I don't know if this is entitlement, laziness, or what. I can't explain it but the one part that's bothered me of this entire experience is the fact I paid for a taxi twice lol.

ACTUAL FIELD REPORT TIME (I'm new to posting here forgive me if I've rambled)

I show up to her house, her brother is there, I play it cool and act entirely innocent, he knows what's up and is cool. I'm in her room, she has the "Wizards of Waverly Place" show on and I hop on her bed to meet the dog, there were two dogs in total and two hamsters, no this is not relevant lol. She's standing at the opposite side of the room which is throwing me off a bit. What girl invites a guy she's just met at a party for the first time to her house at 2AM and isn't automatically going to come in the bed with me.

First red pill lesson I consciously applied: assume attraction, again . . . there's no way a girl would ever do this in any universe if she didn't at least want to cuddle, she's probably insecure or nervous and I literally remember this subreddit's advice as I'm in the bed watching the dumb show.

Second red pill lesson I apply: Escalate, find any excuse to touch. Probably too straight forward but I don't fuck around in any area of life, I straight up ask her after like fifteen minutes of her telling me about irrelevant random stuff, "Want to join me in the bed now? I'm assuming we both know I didn't come here at 2AM to talk about (honestly forgot what she was talking about now), she agrees but says she just wants to cuddle and get to know me.

Third red pill lesson I apply: Don't be a fucking nice guy, you will both be happier, and you yourself will get what you want if you just don't be fucking TOO nice okay? I was still super consent aware as I've dealt with many crazy women in my life before, so it's hard to explain but I was escalating consent after consent LMAO. Probably won't be so tryhard about covering my ass next time and just take a risk. So now that I have permission to cuddle, she's in the bed with me and I'm hugging her in a casual but comfortable way. This is where it gets hard to exactly remember but I'll try my best. I get on top of her but not leaning on her of course, and I just stare into her eyes and say, are you sure I can't kiss you? She says yes and we both start making out for like another ten minutes lol, have no idea if that's normal but it felt long. She tells me to use less tongue like three times which made me sad as that was the fun part. I start kissing her neck and she loves this, at one point she bites my neck and I take that as a go to do the same to her. As we are making out I whisper into her ear, "Say stop if you want me to." And I learned that line from movies I think and was quite proud of it LMAO.

Fourth red pill lesson I use: LMR and how's it's to be expected. She is quite wet now and wants it I think, she tells me to take off my shirt, then pants, then underwear without taking anything off herself. (Insecure?), it took a bit of convincing but I eventually get her out of all of her clothes. I start going down on her and at that point she belongs to me, and I can make her do anything really. I tried my best and my knowledge was mostly from looking up a guide and porn videos lol, she was extremely communicative and quite noisy, and fidgeted / changed positions a lot. I noticed her and that we were constantly trying to dominate each other as she was scratching my back, pinching me, grabbing my dick with a firm grip, trying to get on top of me, and also trying to overlap her leg over mine, but I wasn't really having it. I'm an extremely dominant person so if anyone's doing this shit, it's gonna be me. If she specifically said that's what she wanted to do, fine, but since she was trying to control the flow a lot, I resisted a bit and made her mine and it was nice. There was a lot of LMR and it took some effort and courage to get to this point, slowly going from one step to the next, but I expected it because of this subreddit and I knew I could ignore it and push past. If I hadn't encountered this sub, I probably would have said, "Oh okay, no pressure let's just watch some TV!" or some shit. Thanks guys. I admit I didn't feel much and encountered some dick problems, but it's only up from here and I feel so amazing to have lost the virgin title.