An epidemic of damaged women out there.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-04-29T09:03:50+00:00

Well bitch, that's what happens when you choose a man based on excitement (tingles) instead of his character.

You said yourself that you were with him for six years.

You chose him, and you chose to remain with him for that long in spite of all those flaws you listed.

There's no way in hell that he was the only man interested in you. I'd bet a week's wages that she had orbiters telling her that she "dEsErVeD" better the entire time (which no, she deserves what she fucking chose).

The way this story should have gone: "I caught one of my exes snorting pills, so I broke up with him on the spot".

antiSJW_Mongoose · 2021-04-29T04:48:57+00:00

In my blue pill days I'd feel horrible for her and blame the dude....what a horrible dude to treat a lady in that way.

I'm engorged with Red Pills..... which means: SHE WANTED THE BAD BOY, SHE GOT THE BAD BOY.

stop trying to guilt-trip people over your bad decisions.

brojuststfu · 2021-04-29T04:53:58+00:00

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Jimmysparkzz · 2021-04-29T05:06:38+00:00

Horseshit.

She's an attractive woman, which means she attracts all types of men...She just chooses the shitty ones because they excite her.

No man just out of nowhere becomes physically abusive, or a drug addict. These things have clear fucking indicators. What is likely is that she's picking men from shitty sources because Tingles™ instead of using her brain to vet partners.

The equivalent would be if a man got mad that his stripper girlfriend was accidentally turning tricks in the back and SomEhOW developed a cocaine habit.

vtec__ · 2021-04-29T05:20:47+00:00

6 years. you know what ive been doing the past 6 years? busting my ass in corproate america and doing it all on my own. getting laid off, getting new jobs, getting promoted/raises. this girl wouldnt give me the time of the day because she'd rather have a 6'2 pill head who beats her and cheats on her than a boring dude like me. lollzz

f3wl · 2021-04-29T05:13:53+00:00

I do feel bad for her. Mostly because you can fit a 737 between her teeth. Her fault for choosing and staying with a bad boy

CisgenderPig · 2021-04-29T06:11:49+00:00

He does all that and it took six years to leave him? Enjoyed his dick THAT much, eh?

(or you're a fuckin' liar and made up a bunch of shit to make him look like an asshole)

And, no, I do not want to deal with your "damaged as fuck" ass (your words, not mine). Sorry, I guess I'll have to find another way to spend my 500k a year income. I know, the struggle is real.

AetherSprite224 · 2021-04-29T07:18:27+00:00

my fiancé of six years

Maaaajor red flag. I don't care who you are, and I don't care if this hurts your feelings--adult couples who take that long to decide to marry (or have yet to even get engaged) are not going to make it, even if they end up tying the knot. 49/50 times, it'll end in tears if you stretch it out that long.

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-04-29T11:37:42+00:00

Truly abusive men are a small minority of available men. Women search them out. She did. Then she chose to stay with him.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-04-29T06:07:38+00:00

She has no chance and she admits why - she is damaged from the last guy

And the next guys will pay for that one way or another

I have dated women damaged after similar length relationships with far far less toxic guys than this. And even they were lost causes

Manfords · 2021-04-29T09:04:49+00:00

There is no way this chick stayed with a drug addict for 6 years without being into the drugs too.

Maybe she will learn.....

Nathaniel66 · 2021-04-29T06:30:12+00:00

6 years...seriously?

GreekBastardo · 2021-04-29T10:27:23+00:00

you know what pains me the most? If someone tells her, "Its all your fault, you stayed with him for 6 years while you couldve left at the first toxic signs" the victim blaming card shall be played quicker than a vanishing in the air fart.

JagerJack7 · 2021-04-29T05:13:59+00:00

And of course she was the prefect gf the whole time. Come on, pretty, tell us what were you doing as well not this crappy one sided story.

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2021-04-29T05:37:09+00:00

Sure I will give you a chance after you gave your best years to Chad 🤡

AngryCockOfJustice · 2021-04-29T05:40:08+00:00

wäh wäh wääääähh 😭😢😰😪😫😩😖

Another one whining at social media for sympathy, likes and followers while deleting and blocking anyone critical of her? Color me surprised.

Perhaps her diastema was an annoyance in blowjob

Svartanatten · 2021-04-29T07:52:50+00:00

She choose this man so victim card denied?

She can't even hide how the memory of the bad boy still gives her tingles in a 1min clip when she is all "made up" and prepared with notes.

Ye once he's out of prison she be down on her knees...

Svartanatten · 2021-04-29T08:14:38+00:00

Am I the only one thinking she definitly isn't over her friend. Also so trashy to snort pills since basically most "pill" drugs work just aswell oral.

Snorting oxy most likely, that's a bad boy trying to be bad. Even failing at drugs, yet 6 years and engaged to, well that mess.

styckx · 2021-04-29T12:30:49+00:00

I could almost literally masturbate to this video for how fucking glorious this is. Holy fucking shit. Did she take a masters degree of studying this sub and the expectations of stupid we have before posting this video? This is it folks.. We've reached the pinnacle of this sub.. Someone turn out the lights on the way out. We've reached peak WAATGM. What a stupid bitch

Nisseru_ · 2021-04-29T10:23:30+00:00

She CHOSE him because of his good looking face and tall height and CHOSE to stay with him for SIX YEARS despite all his flaws because of his face and height. What we have witnessed is the "Halo Effect" the end.

Joaquino7997 · 2021-04-29T09:23:07+00:00

Now...I'm SURE she had to have seen some (maybe not all) of the red flags early on in their relationship.

Hell, she called him a toxic FIANCE - meaning he proposed and she accepted!!

Throughout this video one can infer all of what HE did to her during the course of their relationship. Other than stay with a complete asshole for six years, it takes two to tango.

I wonder what SHE did and/or said to him.

Blightning421 · 2021-04-29T11:27:52+00:00

She is almost certainly blaming all of her own toxic behavior and drug use on him as well

There's no way they were together for 6 years and she didn't do drugs too

mr_kuk · 2021-04-29T12:24:02+00:00

Translation: Chad, I love you because you treated me the way I deserve to be treated, please take me back! Unblock me on social media, Chad! I know you're fucking Thotiana right now, I'll do a threesome, please, Chad! What does she have that I don't?

p3ngwin · 2021-04-29T12:36:24+00:00

"Take AVO's on me when i blow-up because you cheated on me..."

Hang on, did she just try and justify Domestic Violence she committed against him ... because he cheated on her ?

FTA:

An AVO is an Apprehended Violence Order. It is an order to protect victims of domestic violence when they are fearful of future violence or threats to their safety. They are sometimes called restraining orders or protection orders.

https://www.legalaid.nsw.gov.au/what-we-do/community-partnerships/womens-domestic-violence-court-advocacy-program/what-is-an-avo

itsandrewbuck · 2021-04-29T16:04:25+00:00

I won't doubt you're a decent human being. I'd also agree you're "damaged as fuck from the last guy", and that's why I would stay clear if I were in the market.

She chose this guy. She chose him knowing all of these "bad boy traits" deep down, there is no way that eluded you.
There is something definitely amiss if she stayed with him for 6 years. If this was really 'the guy' for her, why such a long engagement? Why wasn't she married already? It's likely because she knew the signs and chose to ignore them.
She's not ugly as sin. Not a supermodel, but there are certainly less attractive people out there. Given that, I'm keen to wager that she's had a lot of men that she friend-zoned over that 6 years.
"He served an AVO against her (US equivalent is a TRO). It's a domestic violence order. Why? Is she bat-shit crazy? Or did he just set up the situation so that he could get there first?

Do we really need to go on? It takes two to tango. This dude didn't just play Jekyll & Hyde out of the blue, so add another:

She's dumb as a box of hammers if she didn't see this coming and get out sooner. No, she stuck with it because she likely convinced herself that it was really her own fault or he wasn't the bad guy everyone else warned her to avoid.

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2021-04-29T11:29:09+00:00

Listen to that list! She loooooved that shit. Couldn’t help but keep riding the pole for 6 years.

GrannyLesbian · 2021-04-29T12:25:57+00:00

No.

You are fucked up and you best go find that dude and get pregnant as well.

Everything will workout once you get knocked up.

Gaiinahat · 2021-04-29T16:25:19+00:00

To her credit, she admits she's damaged a fuck. Most likely, she did the same shit she's accusing her ex of doing (drugs, partying, cheating, fighting), as if she wants us to believe she was a perfect little angel the whole 6 years they were together. Does she have a chance? Enjoy your cats.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-04-29T16:05:30+00:00

Rewind my life some 20 years and this is the kind of woman I would pity and be willing to date because "It's not her fault and I would never do that to someone."

I really believed that being a decent person, paying for dates, lowering my expectations to zero and showing restraint, patience, compassion, and accepting rejection good naturedly would eventually have a net positive outcome.

It doesn't and never will. This woman has been run through the ringer and there is NO MAN, NOT ONE on Earth will ever be able to repair the damage that's been done. And, any relationship she gets into, the poor bastard who winds up with her will pay for he ex's transgressions for the duration of the relationship.

thedukeinc · 2021-04-29T05:17:55+00:00

Well honey the hard truth is the men you pick are either going to be of the pump and dump category or bad boys or both. Sorry

EndTimesRadio · 2021-04-29T08:56:32+00:00

"If you can do all those things because they excite me, while also not doing all those things since they have consequences, please hit me up."

FormerBTfan · 2021-04-29T11:52:51+00:00

When times are tough and chads are few only fans is the place for you. I got a 5er that says the next one that gets her dripping will be worse than this one she is bitching about hmmm 6 years eh lol.

Darth_Horseman · 2021-04-29T12:10:44+00:00

Look at those dead eyes

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2021-04-29T12:36:19+00:00

And you stayed with him for 6 years , what an idiot. Maybe if you took responsibility for your own choices you would make better ones.

kevin32 · 2021-04-29T12:41:30+00:00

Awarding you Jr. Hamster Analyst flair u/Mg70w for consistently posting sticky-worthy vids of women who fit our theme. Be on the lookout for single moms and women in their Epiphany Phase.

silly_birb_Banned · 2021-04-29T07:00:51+00:00

In women past traumas become reasons of sexual attraction.

If her father was meab to her, cheated on her mother and stole money then she will crave the same type of man.

CondensedBemusement · 2021-04-30T00:32:35+00:00

So I just broke up with my toxic fiance of six years

Ok ... that's enough. Seriously, that's all I need to know that anything she says is going to be unreliable. So I've paused the video and am making the following observations:

She broke out 'toxic'. This is the go-to claim for all wannabe victims these days. They don't even need to justify their claim that something/someone is toxic ... they just label whatever it is toxic and demand victim points.
She was with him for six years. Unless the guy underwent some life changing event in the last few months that turned him into another personality altogether ... then he was pretty much the same person for the last six years and she kept him around that entire time.

Ok - let's proceed with the video and see how I did

WOW ... it was worse than I thought. This guy was actually able to get an AVO on this woman. For those who don't know ... that's an Apprehended Violence Order. It means that the guy went to court and was actually able to show evidence that SHE was violent towards HIM and he got a restraining order against her. In Australia (as in most of the planet) its' hard for a man to get an order against a woman because the automatic assumption is that the male is always at fault.

Frankly, I would want to see a mountain of evidence before I believed a word out of this chick's mouth.

Bluecherrysoft · 2021-04-29T06:54:06+00:00

Part of being a (ex) girlfriend or wife is to keep secret what happened between the two of you but you raised the ante and made a online video about it 🤦

khillik · 2021-04-29T12:47:44+00:00

At first glance she seems somewhat salvageable and her demands are all reasonable, however her asking for a relationship with a good man is not. As she said she's damaged and damaged women always damage the guys naive enough to fall into their trap. And based on how she stayed with that guy for 6 years and excepted a marriage proposal from him, well we know who she'll cheat on a good man with or at least the type. She has been shaped by consequences of her bad decisions and is beyond help. She will be an emotional drain on any decent man due to the "excitement" she's become accustomed to. This would be a horrible deal for any man. She is kind of cute, so therefore I know some simp(s) will unfortunately fall for this trap & my only hope is that they will at least be red pilled as a result.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-04-29T15:33:57+00:00

Personally, I think she's very attractive. The kind I'd go for. Unfortunately, in the past when I've approached women like this I never had any luck. I was surrounded by women like this in Bali and they'd always go for the surfer dudes and ignore all the other men. Oh well,now my wife gets a man who doesn't do drugs, beat her, etc. Bye blondie.

imdaad_khan · 2021-04-29T16:53:12+00:00

It’s great when they put their HOEFAX out there. Makes it easier to filter them out

SylvestorTalone · 2021-04-29T19:15:52+00:00

That dude had to be laying some kind of pipe man, damn.

Balefirez · 2021-04-29T23:04:01+00:00

Funny. I know zero men who would do that. So either: a.)I exist in an area where all the good men are hiding, or b.)She chooses all the bad men and then assumes all men act like that based on the men she has chosen. I’m going to go out on a limb and say it’s not the first option...

PaulMurrayCbr · 2021-04-29T12:22:34+00:00

Yes, boys still like girls like you. The difficulty is that you don't like them.

Dependent_Nebula4189 · 2021-04-29T16:42:40+00:00

Feminists own Australia. They are in charge of the government, the media, the courts, and everything else in society. If she doesnt like the way men behave in her society then maybe she should't have changed all the gender roles, made marriage a dead end for men and a payday for women, fucked over men in the workplace with affirmative action and s3xual h@rassment, the welfare state and all other feminist bullshit.

DoTheSnoopyDance · 2021-04-29T17:30:18+00:00

The line of guys who would meet these qualifications would be miles long for her. But she’d walk from the front to the back of the line and not even see a single guy standing there.

The_Batnam · 2021-04-29T18:26:00+00:00

bitch you picked him

diaryoffrankanne · 2021-04-29T20:39:24+00:00

And she "chose" to stay with him for 6 years

diaryoffrankanne · 2021-04-29T20:40:49+00:00

They are emotional creatures So what would be better than an emotional roller-coaster relationship

gastrocks · 2021-04-29T22:39:03+00:00

Those are all reasonable requests....except they didn't happen all at once. Each once would have been a reason to leave, but she didn't. So who's more broken? She's got a bad 'picker'.

Clinton-jail · 2021-04-29T05:50:10+00:00

The desperation is real

galoluscus · 2021-04-29T15:21:32+00:00

She needs therapy, not a relationship.

SnuSnuClownWorld · 2021-04-29T16:24:09+00:00

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PS2Errol · 2021-04-29T21:55:59+00:00

Actions have consequences.

A price must be paid for everything.

philosophic_insight · 2021-04-29T22:02:43+00:00

Yeah... thank you red pill, I would be the man who thought he could save her. Now I am meah not my problem.

kyledontcare · 2021-04-30T07:37:56+00:00

Was he a bad enough bad boy for her? She'll be looking for the next one within a month at the most.

2021-04-29T05:33:15+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 No chance whatsoever

12inchbamboo · 2021-04-29T12:05:13+00:00

No chance!

soonershooter · 2021-04-29T23:30:56+00:00

Ole girl needs to date that dentist.

liaisonguy · 2021-04-30T00:52:46+00:00

I offer not one bit of empathy, sweety pie. You made a bad choice and it took you 6 years to figure it out. The decent guys can see you're now toxic. Hard pass.

brianmcg321 · 2021-04-30T10:20:43+00:00

Six years. It took her six years. Yeah right.

Afghan_Whig · 2021-04-30T10:50:00+00:00

She's still in love with her ex

me-dgaf · 2021-04-30T15:11:53+00:00

Yikes. The next guy is gonna to pay for all of that. Plus likely std.

black_snake_m0an · 2021-05-01T05:12:23+00:00

No way the guy described(drug addicted) proposed to her. She probably nagged him about marriage after finding out he cheated. If he did propose, there was no ring. Just something he said to make her happy after one of the many horrible things he did. Guys like this don't propose. If they get married, it's because the women dragged them into it.

redditradishman · 2021-04-30T14:22:30+00:00

Literally most of the male population doesn't do that shit, but they're under 6ft and might not provide tingles.

Guess it's worth it.

No-Cry-4771 · 2021-04-30T17:44:32+00:00

I know a girl who looks pretty similar, who also has decent guys BETTER LOOKING THAN HER who want to give her their time, love, and support. What does she do? She uses them for money and attention and keeps chasing after unavailable men who just use her for sex. I literally cannot wrap my head around it. 🤦🏼‍♂️

TitanThePony · 2021-04-30T20:44:44+00:00

There's just small bit of Blue Pill left in me where I wonder if she's not salvageable; she's cute (I like gap tooth girls), slender, no visible tats, no kids we know of, and does not appear to be stupid.

On the other hand, the next guy at bat will have to deal with her emotional baggage, and more importantly, there are a big group of women that are attracted to bad boys, and some can never let that go. There is a primal element to it, I think. So as her next SO, I'd always wonder if she "settled" for me and I'd think about that as I went off to work or left on a business trip. So for me, it wouldn't be worth the risk. Unless she turned out to be the fuck of the century, and I started thinking with my little head, and then wound up paying alimony and child support.

I'm glad I wound up marrying a low body count, STEM tomboy engineer.

Andrzej11 · 2021-05-01T03:22:47+00:00

Wait, I thought that women have superior senses and intuition and choose the BEST partners that will provide them with love and care ? What happen ?

Did you not see his drug addiction ? Did you net see his violence ? Did you not see his abuse ?

And you still stayed with him ? FOR SIX YEARS ??!?!

SMH...

You can't fix stupid

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-05-01T03:32:17+00:00

Not my circus, not my monkeys

Raracath · 2021-05-01T05:24:06+00:00

She gonna be alone for a loooong time.

2021-05-01T08:20:29+00:00

Meanwhile, the 12 dudes she friendzoned are laughing their asses off

Fun-Transition-5080 · 2021-05-01T15:53:51+00:00

Fiancé of six years ..... what else is there to say?

Homely_Bonfire · 2021-05-02T08:18:53+00:00

Not into broken second hand stuff, that gets sassy because of its own former bad choices. Move along, one coffin each, your single spot in the graveyard has already been reserved.

high_sauce · 2021-05-02T11:10:02+00:00

Come on guys, surely there is a white knight that can save this princess :)

Rayzor_debiker · 2021-05-02T14:24:09+00:00

Is there another link? I cant watch streamable videos and I'm on mobile.

Terrorinthecity1 · 2021-05-02T22:50:32+00:00

The parallel to this is a guy that’s with a bpd girl and refuses to leave her because the sex is to good. In this case it is the tingles

kew05gp · 2021-05-03T03:58:06+00:00

6 years with an asshole I bet she won't give a good guy 6 months

necrosnomicon · 2021-05-03T04:59:50+00:00

holy shit...nope.

vanillapopsicle · 2021-05-03T06:59:44+00:00

She tries to gaslight people into feeling sorry for her. By listing all of his clearly psychotic qualities, she thinks that she’s creating sympathy for herself.

But instead, she’s making normal people think, “why would you stay 6 years with that person?”

Many women do not understand that making a video like this is a negative. Men do not want to play therapist. Your baggage is an additional problem. Your psychological trauma is an extra problem. You semi-bragging about it to create sympathy actually has the opposite effect.

The most likely reason she stayed with him is because he’s hot and excited her, therefore she thought she’s in love. The same things that made him exciting, aka narcissistic sociopathy, are the same things that cause those negative qualities she listed.

And yet she probably gave him the best sex possible, did anything.

The guy who is not exciting and not like that won’t. He’ll get the dutiful missionary because, ya know, he just “doesn’t turn her on the same”.

In other words, the offer is a woman with psychological trauma who will give you less than what she gave her previous man who treated her worse.

Most men understand all of this. Some poor fools might not and may get suckered. But the rest can see it clearly. It’s a bad deal, plain and simple, for the simple reason that she allows her excitement to rule her and not deeper emotions like duty, principle, appreciation. She would actually look down on the next guy for not being as exciting.

blackdan717 · 2021-05-03T12:15:59+00:00

Is give it a test drive

tbone47302 · 2021-05-03T14:34:17+00:00

Wow! What you are asking for is so available!!! You being as strong and pretty of a woman that you are shouldn’t have any problem finding that guy!!

mimiczx · 2021-05-03T18:47:58+00:00

The odds of her finding a man that does all of that is EXTREMELY SIMPLE... But do they give her the tingles of one that does none of those?!? 🤔

Shogun7272 · 2021-05-03T19:27:09+00:00

No_Valuable827 · 2021-05-03T20:39:27+00:00

Where were her parents through all of this? Did nobody tell her she was making a bad choice being with a bad boy?

squawker11 · 2021-05-03T21:52:24+00:00

You mean all the guys who looked at you 5 years ago and you accused of being a predator? They're doing great making 6 figures and avoiding women who have the accountability of toddlers.

No-Cry-4771 · 2021-05-04T00:32:37+00:00

My mom is 54 years old and she STILL DOES THIS SHIT! She had the most loving and decent man that chased her for years and all she could say was, “the feeling isn’t there...”

Michael_Uchiha6 · 2021-05-04T01:52:49+00:00

She was with him for SIX years. They were freakin' engaged 😂

Devilsgun · 2021-05-05T04:12:43+00:00

She got Letterman level doofy gappy toofies. It would be kinda cute if she wasn't incredibly pissy about Toxie Chad by default

Wolverinedog · 2021-05-06T00:45:27+00:00

Funny I've seen all the things she has mentioned done to guys by whammenz, not the other way around. But assuming she is being honest, she picked the Chad, boned him on the regular, rode it long and hard.....and now will most likely deny the beta orbiter the poon she freely offered Chad

Wolverinedog · 2021-05-06T00:55:02+00:00

10 to 1 odds she is already back with Chad. Or maybe Tyrone.

Krilldog · 2021-05-07T17:52:35+00:00

"Do guys still like girls like me? Do I still have a chance?"

I actually feel sorry for her.

deepfatthinker92 · 2021-05-08T12:28:40+00:00

Shit. Australia be wild

FBI_Van_2274 · 2021-05-11T21:21:38+00:00

"Take away my freedom, dictate who my friends can be" == "Tell me you have the very normal and healthy boundary that I can't go on dates with my exes and fuck buddies because we're monogamous and that's just wrong."

brofanities · 2021-05-11T21:54:18+00:00

I just think it's funny how she keeps trying to hide her gapped front teeth with her hand. Clearly insecure as hell.

Arnold_Incelinator · 2021-05-20T17:43:00+00:00

even I dont want her.

aad7990 · 2021-04-29T09:27:21+00:00

I don't know about all that other stuff. I couldn't make it past the gap in your teeth.

Conscious_Advice4951 · 2021-04-30T14:13:27+00:00

Just out of curiosity, how do y’all feel about male abuse victims who stayed with their abusers for a long time?

loneliness-inc · 2021-04-29T09:28:14+00:00

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Entire_Imagination58 · 2021-04-29T09:49:38+00:00

Fix the gap and get boobs

An epidemic of damaged women out there.

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Title	An epidemic of damaged women out there.
Author	Mg70w
Upvotes	300
Comments	223
Date	April 29, 2021 4:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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