Women That Have an N-Count of 10+, Have You Ever Slept With a Guy Out of Your League?

evanstown21 · 2021-05-31T03:28:19+00:00

Didn’t go through with it but I’ve been propositioned a few times. How did I know he was out of my league? His profession and confidence about it. They were so sure that I’d be going home with them. They were like models, musicians, C or D list celebrities, etc. I don’t take these guys very seriously though, I can tell when someone is just flirting with me for fun and games and ego.

datfishd00d · 2021-05-31T07:40:13+00:00

If you mean to ask if I've slept with men who society would deem as more attractive as me, yes, I have. Probably 3 of them. And no, I wasn't "pumped and dumped".

blue_dandelions · 2021-05-31T07:44:23+00:00

I have a lower n count than ten.

But yes all of my bfs were hotter than me bar one.

I was very fat while dating so by virtue of that any physically fit man is hotter than me.

I think I have a nice face but my body needs work, I’d rate myself a 5 in looks & my bf a 7.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-05-31T05:41:39+00:00

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rosesonthefloor · 2021-05-31T04:31:52+00:00

No? The hottest guy I’ve ever been with (top of his career, super hot, incredibly intelligent, total “alpha” stereotype) I dated for 2 years…. There’s no such thing as “leagues” lol - just different preferences for different people.

midwestufohunter · 2021-05-31T02:58:28+00:00

Yeah, he pursued me and I never assumed he liked me or assumed he'd want anything but sex from me, like I assume with all men, even men who pursue me and sleep with me.

I thought he was out of my league because he was really hot in a conventional way.

I think my exes are 10/10 sexy, but there's a difference between what you find attractive and conventionally attractive.

I actually preferred his looks a little less than my exes, who were shorter and not as conventionally attractive, but I have a big preference for brunettes and brown eyes and he was lighter haired with beautiful blue eyes that did nothing for me.

Shirley_Schmidthoe · 2021-05-31T05:04:26+00:00

If out of my league is better looking than I? then definitely, because I'm pretty ugly.

I could tell because subjective beauty evaluation skills.

6fresh6trash6 · 2021-05-31T03:51:52+00:00

I don't believe in leagues. I know that I am smart, hot and funny, I don't think I am not good enough for anyone. I believe that I sometimes can't connect with certain people because of my profession and personality, but I never felt like anyone is above or below me.

leagues are a very weird concept, like how many leagues do exist? how do i know in which I am? what are the points that determind your league? are leagues even important? I feel like I have slept with a variety of different people, some who have better careers than me and look really good and some who get paid less and have "flaws" in their look. I have also seen people starting relationships with someone who aren't a as great catch as they are in societys pov, but they are happy together.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-05-31T04:06:01+00:00

I don't do the league thing.

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thelajestic · 2021-05-31T06:29:17+00:00

No. I don't really believe in leagues anyway, but I'm fairly normal/average as are the people I've slept with.

Responsible-Bike9047 · 2021-05-31T06:35:49+00:00

Yeah but he didn’t know he was out of my league at the time lol

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2021-05-31T09:10:46+00:00

I find league a difficult concept because people's preferences are just so different. There was one guy I had an ONS with who could probably attract girls of higher conventional beauty than me. I know that he was kind of a Chad, only casual stuff. But I was still quite confident approaching him at the time, so he couldn't have been that dazzling (I was pretty drunk though... And he the only single guy at a party). He seemed to like me, whenever we saw each other there were really good vibes and cheeky flirt. Maybe he would have tried to date me if I was prettier? No idea, he didn't have a relationship in the last 10 years as far as I know (he's friends with my brother-in-law).

Ok-Caramel777 · 2021-05-31T11:53:34+00:00

Lol yeah, I married him too

Basically we're from different worlds which was obvious from the beginning so I thought he was perfect vacation fling material and then it kinda escalated. Anyways can't complain hah

Willow-girl · 2021-05-31T12:17:45+00:00

No, I'd say I was pretty much on par with all of my partners. My last husband might be an exception as he was wealthy, but he was raised working-class so our fundamental values, etc., were similar.

Title	Women That Have an N-Count of 10+, Have You Ever Slept With a Guy Out of Your League?
Author	skunkbear444
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Comments	47
Date	May 30, 2021 8:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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