I'm a fairly "prude" woman. Only been with one man; and I find sexual conversation generally distasteful when not with a committed partner. And yet, I've heard from my husband about ugly men who say they have N-counts over 50. I've heard f-boys talk about how all the women they sleep with are crazy. These same men say they are not the type to settle down. However, they STILL openly get with women who are clearly looking for more commitment. If men are willing to tell ME this, or even more men joke about it, I think all men must have also seen it for themselves. Men who want casual stuff aren't "willing to change for the right woman." At least not most casual-sex-having men. They like casual sex because it works for them. If they wanted to have more with a woman in their league... then they would just do that, even if it only lasted for a year or so. This is 100% obvious. If you deny it, you're being dense intentionally at this point.