It must be boys fault for not knowing how to please a women without ever being told how, right?

SC2sam · 2019-07-19T06:40:52+00:00

I love how your's was the only comment to be downvoted in that thread. Fucking amazing.

LightWolfD · 2019-07-19T05:46:13+00:00

I’m probably gonna get a couple hundred downvotes for speaking the truth. 🙃

ImHereAtLast · 2019-07-19T12:26:06+00:00

So... is everyone just going to gloss over the fact that her dad was totally cool with letting his 14 year old daughter get stabbed on the regular?

Lethn · 2019-07-19T09:42:30+00:00

I love how these women think they know everything about men and sex and then you realise the vast majority of them genuinely seem to get their biology lessons from feminists who keep dating men they don't like and keep having shitty experiences so they spread this shit to the younger generations of women out there to make them think men are all the same.

I've actually been amazed on this sub at the level of ignorance young women especially display about how a penis works. Sometimes it's not their fault at all and they've just been indoctrinated with bullshit but other times they seriously need to be just sat down and have things 'mansplained' to them big time.

Manspreading is another classic example of this, nevermind women not understanding how men get erections.

cardboardbob99 · 2019-07-19T11:34:51+00:00

Why are men responsible for the orgasm of both parties? I don’t really mind but sometimes I’m tired and don’t feel like putting in that much effort. Selfish? I don’t think so, it would appear normal in any other exchange. so rather than not having an orgasm, own it yourself and make sure you get what you want out of the interaction.

2019-07-19T07:10:09+00:00

Sex in my later teens, which was when I started, was usually over when the girl told me to stop. Sex is horrible and just brings up shitty feelings and anxiety for me. I could almost never finish.

ImJustaBagofHammers · 2019-07-19T12:19:25+00:00

I like how it’s heavily implied that she lost her virginity when she was 14.

2019-07-19T12:26:04+00:00

I dont think women take into account that they will 99% of the time be more experienced then there partner since getting sexual experience as a women is as easy as downloading tinder for an hour. If you wanna "practice" as a dude..well you are prob not gonna get the chance

Aranthos-Faroth · 2019-07-19T12:21:29+00:00

I'm just over here wondering wtf kind of a relationship she has with her father...

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-07-19T14:59:56+00:00

funny how this girl excuses her own 14 year old sexual ignorance until her father explained it to her, but she's sweepingly critical of all 14 year old boys for not being sexual experts.

just another example of men being held to a standard that women excuse themselves from

2019-07-19T06:11:54+00:00

Women have orgasms?

pinkeythehoboken22 · 2019-07-19T13:14:48+00:00

I love this community so much. I can't stand blatant attacks about gender, I prefer systematic dismantling like this in an argument. Shows our point effectively and makes them look like assholes.

Quintrell · 2019-07-19T11:44:43+00:00

I mean after a man ejaculates the penis tends to get soft and sensitive so yeah it kinda is over shortly after the man finishes. And for whatever reason men tend to come more quickly/easily.

Premature ejaculation is also a medical condition. Perhaps she’s dealing with selfish lovers but I doubt any of those guys WANT to finish before she climaxes. Heck they might not even be able to recognize her orgasm if they’re so inexperienced.

All that being said she’s just answering the question so no need to be so snarky

Sir_Scrublord · 2019-07-19T12:48:26+00:00

As a circumsised guy i feel like alot of girls dont know what to do with that, which often leads to rather painful trys of pleasuring me.

So should the consequence be that i now hate all women because of them not knowing something? Fuck that. Communication is key. Stop blaming others for you not being able what you want or what feels good to you.

NoremacKnom · 2019-07-19T14:28:17+00:00

I wad always paranoid about being crap in bed. Compared to my friends i lost my virginity kinda late and based off their experiences and things i saw in the media i just assumed girls wouldn't be interested in you if you didn't have porn star stamina and a 10 inch dick.

I started researching how to be good at sex and learn as much about the female body as i could. I learned what they like, what turns them on, what feels the best. I was probably the only boy at my high school who could accurately locate the clit, and i hadn't even seen one in real life before.

When i finally did have sex i thought i had enough information to be amazing, but it turns out there's no substitute for real experience. I wasn't bad per say. But finding the clit is one thing, and using only your tongue to get a nervous teenage girl off is quite another.

For the first couple of weeks i couldn't cum during full sex. I was so focused on not cumming until she did first that i just couldn't. That's not even me bragging about how long i could last. My girlfriend would leave my house thinking i wasn't attracted to her because after 2, 3, 4 sessions i just didn't cum. It really made her insecure, and it made me feel less like we were sharing each other's bodies and more like i was just a grunty sex toy.

After several weeks and some deep thinking on my part i was able to relax a bit and i finally managed to have an orgasm. I realised that my girlfriend loved me for me and that sex was just a bonus. It didn't matter that i wasn't the best because neither of us had anyone to compare it to. She wasn't the best either. We both learned together and it became very fulfilling.

If you have trouble staying in the game or you're not able to get off at all, don't stress. Stress makes it worse. If it's the right person it shouldn't matter. And you can always work on it together.

MasonTaylor22 · 2019-07-19T13:23:13+00:00

LightWolfD = woke, in the truest sense of the word.

lonewolfhistory · 2019-07-19T14:09:18+00:00

Part of the problem is our gynocentric society teaches women to avoid responsibility at all cost. While not every woman is that way, 90% of women I've met are. Responsibility is like kryptonite to them

PH03N1X101 · 2019-07-19T14:21:38+00:00

Could you link me to the post by any chance

Peedy83 · 2019-07-19T15:43:40+00:00

I lost my viriginity when I was 14. I was high as fuck on first gen spice(when it first came out) for whatever reason, and I lasted like 20 minutes (only because the spice, I know I would've been a one pump chump without it back then) but I think she was even worse than me, all she did was lay there. I was like fuck, this is fucked, she's the one who asked to fuck in the first place an talked me into it saying it's fine because I was sort of nervous... and then she just laid there. I've had multiple girls like this, and some girls who rocked my fucking world, anyways....

I had no clue what to do, so for the first few girls I was just winging it, eventually an experienced female actually taught me how to eat pussy, stimulate the clit, the importance of foreplay, etc, taught me what I should know. Girls definitely need to take initiative an teach us about their body, we're men, we don't got pussies, all we got is porn and all we see on porn is a huge dicked dude long dicking the girl an then busting on the girl face.

neveragoodtime · 2019-07-19T19:33:07+00:00

Orgasm is easy for men, so women don’t have to work hard or have any experience to please a man. Orgasm is more difficult for women, so men need to work hard and have a lot of experience to please a woman. Because of this difference, men get blamed for being bad at sex.

Also, this leads women to value sexually experienced men, while sexually experienced women bring little or no additional value to their relationship, which is usually overshadowed by the costs of their experiences with more experienced men.

rabel111 · 2019-07-20T07:19:57+00:00

Actually teenage girls (and most women) suck at sex as much as teenage boys, thinking that ejaculation is all men and boys want or need for satisfying sex. How ignorant. Time women got off their ego trip and started caring about their partners satisfaction as much as their own.

arcanethrall · 2019-07-19T08:23:16+00:00

Funny how the reason we evolved to have sex is to procreate. Funny how the female orgasm is not necessary for procreation but the male orgasm is. Funny how evolution has made it so the male orgasm is usually easy to achieve to ensure conception. Funny how the female orgasm is completely irrelevant biologically, yet they feel entitled to it.

YawgmothIsKvlt · 2019-07-19T13:26:45+00:00

That's trashy to be having sex at 14 anyway

Jplate1997 · 2019-07-19T12:31:04+00:00

Spread the Truth!

OfficialTobyuoso · 2019-07-19T12:37:45+00:00

C O M M U N I C A T I O N

biogenicmonkey · 2019-07-19T13:04:36+00:00

I do my best to make sure the OH gets hers. On the times I don't, she doesn't care. On the times I reaaaally don't, she's flattered because it makes her feel sexy and desired.

This person still has a lot to learn about healthy sexual relationships.

hill1205 · 2019-07-19T14:54:43+00:00

Why is it the responsibility of the male to please the female?

That’s a problem right there. As if it’s the expectation that a man must please a woman.

bikesbabesbeer · 2019-07-19T14:58:54+00:00

She started having sex at 14, and discussed it with her father? WTH.

RoryTate · 2019-07-19T15:03:55+00:00

This really reminds me of a post I made on this sub just a short while ago called "A list of men's many responsibilities during the act of sex". It's really puzzling that during sex the man alone is held responsible for maintaining his erection, keeping his partner aroused, applying the condom, monitoring the enthusiasm (or lack thereof) of their partner, judging his own level of pleasure, and controlling his excitement to last however long his partner needs (basically forever, since fewer than 10% of women can achieve orgasm through penile vaginal stimulaton alone).

It is no wonder that most men -- even the ones who are married and don't have to jump through the hoops of trying to attract a woman -- just open up pornhub and rub one out in a relaxed and much more satisfying manner.

PapaMGTOW · 2019-07-19T15:22:47+00:00

It is not a Mans Job to Please a woman. It is the womans job to please a Man. Bc Men are the Prize!

DarkstarAnt · 2019-07-19T20:43:09+00:00

14.....the fuck?

willyj19 · 2019-07-19T20:52:24+00:00

She a hoe ig

C0II1n · 2019-07-19T21:46:19+00:00

Hey you ended up getting upvotes because enough of us canceled out the downvotes

2019-07-19T16:17:23+00:00

Women need to understand they are not good in sex.
Men usually don't complain, but shit my hand is literally 10x times better than their mouth.

2019-07-19T16:53:13+00:00

It's a troll

Hyperionc137 · 2019-07-20T04:13:14+00:00

False. Sorry, Women do not need to finish, it’s inefficient and unnecessary for breeding. Too bad gals.

Jackretto · 2019-07-20T16:52:48+00:00

Now, I know that each country has a different culture but isn't 14 a lil too young to have sex?

shepherdsss · 2019-07-19T16:14:09+00:00

Welcome to the consequences of oppressing society. Don’t you know that sex is sin? unless it’s behind a tightly locked door and its between a man and his wife.

lil-bit-toasty · 2019-07-19T15:50:38+00:00

Anyone: shares a true anecdote about anything related to sex Men’s rights: ITS YOUR FAULT!!!!

kkwoopsie · 2019-07-19T10:20:19+00:00

Why should it be the woman’s responsibility to educate the man? He can educate himself, there’s something called the internet. Teenage boys don’t have to learn everything from porn, that is a choice. There are a million resources out there. Young women can and do suffer from this effect and it shouldn’t have to be up to them to fix it. After some time having sex with different young men who have absolutely no idea how to (for example) locate a clitoris, you start to think they just don’t care.

Title	It must be boys fault for not knowing how to please a women without ever being told how, right?
Author	LightWolfD
Upvotes	1435
Comments	154
Date	July 19, 2019 5:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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