I know plenty of married people who seem very happy and gladly traded their hobby for a child... You can still have passions and friends when you start a family.
When you’re 50 and all your friends are with their families and you come home to an empty bed the difference starts to blur.
I honestly think a lot of “marriage nihilism” comes from people being propagandized to be atomized individuals. IMO there’s nothing more fulfilling than building your own strong family unit.
Keep being a slave for other people. I prefer to live for myself doing things on my own terms, always.
Once you remove the brainwashing that men needs a nuclear family, and the societal pressure for men to salve themselves for a nuclear family of their own, you end-up with A LOT of men choosing their own path, away from these pointless responsibilities. And as our society progress, there will be more and more of these men each and every days.
Nuclear family IS NOT a natural state of our species. The concept only appeared with early religions, as a mean to control the population.
So let me get this straight, when OP says your passions and hobbies and friends go by the wayside when you start a family (implying that you didn’t replace those things with things that are more fulfilling), that’s fine for him to crap on peoples parties but when I point out that it sounds awfully lonely and boring and unsatisfactory I’m a shit head?
That’s awful, how are they justified in taking his visitation rights? Crazy bitch lied?
Yeah I’m not advocating for kids with anyone, I think people should only marry if they’re 100% serious about it and serious about having kids and are compatible. It’s clear that they either weren’t compatible or rushed into marriage without figuring out the other person.
84 hour work weeks are a bitch. Tomorrow, I’m getting home for a day and a half to see my son and girlfriend for the first time since the beginning of November.
Hello Fellow Oppressed Men…Holds Up Mens Rights Poster My Name Is John. But Feel Free To Call Me Oppressed Man of Doom! As you can see, i am very oppressed by Child Custody Laws and Divorce Courts…. That Is Why I Came Here To /r/MensRights, To Meet Other Mens Rights Advocates. Im 14 Years Old(But I Pretend To Be 29 And Recently Divorced/Oppressed). I Like To Read AVoiceForMen W/ My Fedora On. We Enjoy Debating Women On FaceBook. That Is Why I Came Here, To Meet People Like Me (Oppressed Mens) Like They Say Men Are Oppressed. Ok Guys Anyways Upvote This. Viva Le Revolution! <---------Just Me Proving Wmyn Wrong Again!
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Why would you not have kids? Sounds pretty lonely to be unmarried and childless at 50 tbh
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I know plenty of married people who seem very happy and gladly traded their hobby for a child... You can still have passions and friends when you start a family.
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No shit, but it’s also a very lonely life.
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Being alone and being lonely is two very different things...
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When you’re 50 and all your friends are with their families and you come home to an empty bed the difference starts to blur.
I honestly think a lot of “marriage nihilism” comes from people being propagandized to be atomized individuals. IMO there’s nothing more fulfilling than building your own strong family unit.
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Keep being a slave for other people. I prefer to live for myself doing things on my own terms, always.
Once you remove the brainwashing that men needs a nuclear family, and the societal pressure for men to salve themselves for a nuclear family of their own, you end-up with A LOT of men choosing their own path, away from these pointless responsibilities. And as our society progress, there will be more and more of these men each and every days.
Nuclear family IS NOT a natural state of our species. The concept only appeared with early religions, as a mean to control the population.
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So let me get this straight, when OP says your passions and hobbies and friends go by the wayside when you start a family (implying that you didn’t replace those things with things that are more fulfilling), that’s fine for him to crap on peoples parties but when I point out that it sounds awfully lonely and boring and unsatisfactory I’m a shit head?
Fuck right off.
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Spoken like someone who’s never known someone who’s had kids
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That’s awful, how are they justified in taking his visitation rights? Crazy bitch lied?
Yeah I’m not advocating for kids with anyone, I think people should only marry if they’re 100% serious about it and serious about having kids and are compatible. It’s clear that they either weren’t compatible or rushed into marriage without figuring out the other person.
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MeToo
84 hour work weeks are a bitch. Tomorrow, I’m getting home for a day and a half to see my son and girlfriend for the first time since the beginning of November.
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Nope. Oil and gas.
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Much appreciated. The hardest part of the job is being away from the people you love.
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Ummm isn't it obvious that one's only option is to go to work when one doesn't want to be an "oppressed housewife"?
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Hello Fellow Oppressed Men…Holds Up Mens Rights Poster My Name Is John. But Feel Free To Call Me Oppressed Man of Doom! As you can see, i am very oppressed by Child Custody Laws and Divorce Courts…. That Is Why I Came Here To /r/MensRights, To Meet Other Mens Rights Advocates. Im 14 Years Old(But I Pretend To Be 29 And Recently Divorced/Oppressed). I Like To Read AVoiceForMen W/ My Fedora On. We Enjoy Debating Women On FaceBook. That Is Why I Came Here, To Meet People Like Me (Oppressed Mens) Like They Say Men Are Oppressed. Ok Guys Anyways Upvote This. Viva Le Revolution! <---------Just Me Proving Wmyn Wrong Again!
Penises And Patriarchy,
John.
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