She left in the summer. She got worst and worst. Today after asking her if she wants to work on our marriage and get therapy before the divorce finalizes she said I was a "emotional and verbal abuser" and "controller". Her accusations progressively got worst and worst since she left. Called mea narcissist too. She already slept with 2 people and been in contact with 4. Is she really trying to justify all of her infidelity by painting me as the bad guy like this? She said "I will never go back with you" and "there will never be another us." But in early November she was asking me for money via email and even two weeks ago being very friendly and semi flirty on the phone when she spoke with me talking about random stuff. And even yesterday when I picked up our son she was trying to wave at me. Is this all to justify her cheating? Why the hell is she calling me an abuser and is so willing to throw away an 8 year marriage and ruin or son's upbringing? Not only did I get cheatedon but now divorced and I as the victim is the only one trying and now she labeled me as an abuser? Why is she capable of this. I am having a hard time processing this.