Valentines and separation

jimsmythee · 2023-02-13T18:17:05+00:00

No. Just stop.

Mountain_Collar_7620 · 2023-02-13T18:58:01+00:00

Send one to Yourself - you’re Worth It. If you’re feeling generous, throw in a Professional Entertainment Expert and a bottle of Sparkling Antidepression Potion

phalo · 2023-02-13T18:33:37+00:00

No, do not send her anything, you're separated.

Barkaat · 2023-02-13T18:44:53+00:00

No it is not stop

DocHolliday80 · 2023-02-13T19:29:11+00:00

No way

fishingforthought · 2023-02-13T19:34:52+00:00

Why would you even think of this? Not on valentines. Birthday good wishes only if you fill you must, but I would not even do that.

dday_throwaway3 · 2023-02-13T18:01:33+00:00

Stop caring about a Hallmark holiday. You've got limited time and attention everyday. Focus on something that has a return on investment.

Malaine1 · 2023-02-13T19:22:06+00:00

Without any context I would say no.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2023-02-13T20:07:43+00:00

Objective_Problem_90 · 2023-02-13T20:16:35+00:00

You want to be a glutton for punishment? You are separated. Why reward someone that is making the decision to not be with you. I was separated from my ex until we divorced and her birthday came up during this time. I certainly was not going to acknowledge it, or send anything. You're moving on, not living in past events.

talalq890 · 2023-02-13T20:19:45+00:00

Stop it man not worth the effort

Njmet · 2023-02-13T20:12:32+00:00

No, Try to understand that going forward the idea of holidays and anniversaries together physically or apart are a thing of the past.

ranger69danger · 2023-02-14T00:29:10+00:00

Bro. Don’t do it.

You gotta start putting #1 first.

Or not, either way you will come around.

Stay strong man. Don’t keep thinking of all that old dead shit you used to share with her.

It is about you now, man. If you don’t start acting like it, I’d still buy you a beer to cry in, but I would definitely toldyaso.

KnownDistance · 2023-02-14T03:06:43+00:00

Let it go.

She will NOT appreciate it the way you want her to.

SnooDoughnuts6501 · 2023-02-14T02:31:34+00:00

of course not

AcrobaticStick2432 · 2023-02-13T21:46:20+00:00

From your wife or you ex-wife?

Come on, man, there's just one correct answer for each situation, and I'm dead sure you know both.

Ambitious-Cheetah-36 · 2023-02-14T13:59:48+00:00

Nope

Goingthrulife90 · 2023-02-14T16:39:54+00:00

Why would you do that? Is the bigger question you need to ask yourself.

Worth_Shoulder3006 · 2023-02-16T10:56:46+00:00

I just had the same internal question. I told her last Thursday that I want a divorce. Tuesday when I went to work in the wee hours I found the Valentines basket she left for me. I didn't get her anything. She is in denial so I didn't want to give off the message there was hope to save the marriage.

Title	Valentines and separation
Author	legendarystardustcby
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	February 13, 2023 5:51 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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