It's coming up to a year since my ex-wife told me she wanted a divorce because she doesn't love me as a husband. Within 2 weeks she was seeing a parent of one of her students and they are still together. I have been thinking a lot about the "what if". Such as if she would have tried counseling, how did the divorce affect the kids, how could I kept her happy, etc .. I try not to think of that but it's my reality and brain overthinking.