How do you deal with situations when someone objectively "better" than you dominates you? Specifically, I mean situations when you are arguing with someone and that person is more attractive/richer/taller etc. than you. This applies to all genders.
I admit that I have a big problem with arguing with people on the Internet and not taking their opinions personally, because most of them simply seem better than me in every way. They have a better job, friends, are more physically attractive, etc. Whenever I talk to someone like that and give a different opinion, I feel that my opinion doesn't matter because the other person is doing better in life, is well adapted to society, so something it must make her simply better than me, which means there is a high probability that I am wrong... Unfortunately, this also applies to toxic opinions such as redpill. Then I start to doubt my opinion, because if Andrew Tate is so rich, isn't he somehow "smarter" than me?
I hate this feeling of being put down when talking to people who are simply better than me. No one will defend me either, because people assume that when you argue with someone rich or attractive, you simply envy him.
I feel that such people have some kind of power over me because they will always be better or more useful to society than me. Because they have money, good careers, beautiful women, attractive looks. Society prefers a rich asshole to me, especially in times where redpill and social darwinism are becoming more and more popular. Look how many people defend toxic, narcissistic influencers. If you criticize their behavior, a whole bunch of people will immediately come together to defend their "idols". Almost no one will support your opinion.
I would love to maintain my opinions on various topics because I believe they are valuable. I am neither a materialist nor a narcissist, and the redpill ideology is very far from me, but I increasingly have the impression that I may be wrong in my views, because shallow values are becoming more and more popular in society, and people who follow them seem better adapted and more "valuable" to society than me.
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