2 whole years and he couldn’t gather the courage? Sounds like a LVM to me, sis! Good luck with that one.

glazedhamster · 2020-02-24T02:36:44+00:00

Tried this once. He was interested. He was also incapable of making decisions, dates, choices, and of putting in even minimal effort in his own life. Oh and had never been in a relationship (!) so there was a whole fun grab bag of other things he simply couldn't manage I don't need to elaborate on. DO NOT DO IT.

7_0f_9 · 2020-02-24T02:44:05+00:00

That was cringe... I remember when i went to a karaoke bar with my sister a guy came up to me and introduced himself. He wasn't particularly attractive but i felt flattered this guy was approaching me and shook my hand and wanted to talk to me. After introducing himself he suddenly asks "would you be interested in going out with my friend over there? He thinks you're really attractive ".... I was so shocked and disappointed that this dude had sent his friend over to ask me out FOR HIM? Like Wtf? I said no and he then offered to PAY ME to sleep with his friend. I couldn't believe it. I told him I'm a lesbian and then he flatly told me he better not see me leaving with a dude.... I couldn't believe how utterly depraved and degenerate. Men who won't ask you out do not have courage and chances are they see you as property as this dude and his friends did. I was totally disgusted. I told my dad about it and he loudly proclaimed "WHAT A COWARD? CAN'T EVEN ASK YOU OUT HIMSELF? PATHETIC " LMAO

bisanti · 2020-02-24T01:57:43+00:00

Garbage advice. She should be ashamed.

throwawayradfeminist · 2020-02-24T01:35:10+00:00

He probably doesn’t mind stringing her along whilst she goes 50/50 or pays for dates that she spends her time planning, because he knows he doesn’t have to chase her or do anything to ‘court’ her to make her interested. The standards have been set, and they are low.

gravedestruct1on · 2020-02-24T04:47:45+00:00

If he isn’t brave enough to ask you on a date he’s sure as hell not brave enough to help you when you’re in a potentially dangerous situation 🤦🏼‍♀️

Soulsalts · 2020-02-24T04:40:37+00:00

"Cast that line and catch your LVM!"

Spice_Cat_Puccino · 2020-02-24T01:35:58+00:00

I've tried this, three times. Doesn't works.

wanderluster369 · 2020-02-24T01:26:03+00:00

🤦🤦🤦🤦

Consider_the_Horses · 2020-02-24T12:16:46+00:00

I hope she has a huge fetish for nurturing immature men and dreams about growing old caring for an eternal manchild - otherwise, this relationship will soon turn into a disaster.

Dimethylchlorine · 2020-02-24T18:12:46+00:00

If he did not make the move and it’s been years, you can definitely assume he’s lvm. He already took himself out of the game because he knew he wasn’t qualified. I’ve heard through the grapevine than an attractive guy wanted to be with me but never talked to me despite having very good opportunities. Before FDS I was bummed but then I’m like wait, he literally took himself out because he knew he would never meet my standards.

PsychedelicDoc · 2020-02-24T13:33:01+00:00

The best you can get from this is spending time with a man you really like. That's it. And that alone better be worth it because it will never progress further than that.

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-02-24T15:24:49+00:00

If he can't ask you out, he's not going to stand up for himself or you when his friends or his mother attack your relationship. Weak and not attractive to me.

siberiansummer · 2020-02-24T19:32:23+00:00

Right. I bet she paid for the restaurant too or at least did 50/50. Yes, doing work for men totally works and gets a lot of respect from them 🤡🤡🤡

Davina33 · 2020-02-24T07:56:00+00:00

I used to have a friend who liked guys that never liked her back. She would ask me to approach men in nightclubs to ask them out for her. This was when we were 18-20. It never ended well and the men would usually try to hustle me instead. She had such bad taste in men as well, liked the thug types.

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-02-24T15:07:31+00:00

Yikes... why. 😐

2020-02-24T18:32:48+00:00

was too nervous to

Next.

ivy176 · 2020-02-24T07:58:09+00:00

I'll pass. I'm only interested in a guy who can take a leap of faith and show some guts.

Title	2 whole years and he couldn’t gather the courage? Sounds like a LVM to me, sis! Good luck with that one.
Author	Balkanka
Upvotes	78
Comments	40
Date	February 24, 2020 1:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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