A Baby Cannot Trap a Man. A Baby Cannot Trap a Man.

https://www.yourtango.com/2019320701/i-talked-absent-fathers-who-bailed-their-kids-and-heres-what-they-had-say-about-their-decision

A group of absent fathers were surveyed. They were asked basically why they abandoned their kids. Many answers but highlighted and noteworthy answers were:

1.) They didn't want children. (This was allegedly communicated to their partners.) Or;

2.)They didn't want children with that specific woman. They just wanted sex.

Essentially, they abandoned the children because: They don't feel they should have to take care of a child they didn't ask for. According to men, sex isn't consent for a baby because they used a condom, and/or the woman could always have had an abortion.

I shared this to bring attention to the phenomenon of women who get pregnant, unintentionally or sometimes intentionally, and shockingly to the women, the men bail like thieves in the night. I'm also calling out the the countless miseducation and misinformation that a woman being pregnant means the man is committed.

It's easy to think the man will step up and take responsibility of a baby, after all that is the right thing to do, right? Even if he doesn't want her/him now, as soon as he sees the kid, he will fall in love and will want her/him then?

Nope.

The underlying assumption here is that once a woman is pregnant, the man will feel that he has to take responsibility.

In reality: Many men do not feel they have to take responsibility because "they did not ask for the child" and feel they have the right to walk away.

Others feel that the woman's future husband/boyfriend will adopt the child and be the father the child needs anyways, so he doesn't need to step up.

That's why a baby cannot "trap a man." A baby will not make a man stay.

In their mind, not their choice, not their problem. They can easily block the woman and walk away from the problem. In other situations, they will straight up kill the woman to get rid of the burden.

This isn't absolving men and how straight up sociopathic this logic is. This also isn't forgetting that men also use kids to trap and control women; but awaking us to the realities amongst the female community, because this part is something we as women DO have some control over.

Ladies, please spread the word to pickmeishas and manipulative women who are that naive to think a baby will make a man stay, and whose fatherless children later suffer the consequences. To adult women who have unprotected sex without official commitment or confirmation the man wants a child with her or even one at all. To the libfem women who don't understand the consequences of sex will always primarily befall on the woman.

A. baby. will. not. make. a. man. stay.