I was recently at an event for my job where I met & mingled with a lot of younger people. There was this one guy who looked about my age (early 30’s). He was handsome & we were chatting about the event. 5 minutes into the conversation we’re talking about high schools and he told me the year he graduated. Ladies, it was 2020. I felt grossed out that I was even attracted to a 19 year old guy for like 5 minutes. The second I learned his age, the attraction disappeared and that was that. The thought of being sexual with a near child just doesn’t sit right with me, now matter how “manly” he looked.

The whole situation really got me thinking about grown men preying on and dating young “legal” teenage girls. And these men are 30+. If the sexes were reversed, and a 19 year old girl was all over a 30 year old man he’d probably lap it up.

As someone who dated much older men when I was younger, I now see if for how predatory & weird it really is. I’m actually in therapy as well because of how traumatizing my young womanhood was because of it.

This isn’t to scare you younger ladies who are reading this, it’s really just me wanting to let you know there’s no reason a grown ass man should want anything to do with a teenager. It’s not cute or quirky IMO & a relationship can’t ever be equal when starting off on such unequal grounds.