Backstory in comments. I’ve encountered my first low-effort man-child.

sweatydeath · 2019-11-12T19:19:23+00:00

Let me get this straight: he wants YOU to drive to HIM 30+ minutes away for his pitiful version of a “date”? Chilling at his place is not a date 🤣 I wonder if women out there actually agree to that garbage

throwaway7655679 · 2019-11-12T20:19:16+00:00

"at least you like me and I‘m still undecided about you" what the actual fuck?? How can you be this delusional and entitled? Testosterone is one hell of a drug

Lalandjdjdjfj · 2019-11-12T20:22:13+00:00

You could probably be arrested for even talking to him, he looks about ten lol

Winter_Inevitable · 2019-11-12T21:07:34+00:00

These guys just want to order vagina like they are browsing Postmates. God, it's disgusting.

wearekinetic · 2019-11-12T19:18:22+00:00

He looks like he’s 12 hahahaha wtf. I swear it’s always the guys that you mistakenly match with too that are the most demanding and entitled. Has he just never looked at himself in a mirror?

134340-92494 · 2019-11-12T19:12:55+00:00

Matched with this guy on tinder because I swiped right on accident, but his opening message was interesting. He tries to get me to drive 35+ minutes away for coffee date; I don’t have to explain to you all why we don’t do that here, and I tell him that I don’t consider coffee/drinks a date, and only do real dates. He tries to push back. I tell him to move along and he sends this. It’s honestly hilarious to me that this all went down. Like he really thinks I don’t have 80+ other matches vying for my attention? Pathetic.

azngirl7689 · 2019-11-12T21:41:24+00:00

Chill and have a good time = sex

BellaStayFly · 2019-11-12T20:03:04+00:00

“It takes not much to get here” uhhhh well then you can probably make it to see the woman then jackass. He doesn’t want a date. He just wants a $3 cup of coffee to lead to you fucking him at his house, on his time, and at your driving expense.

Spicy-kitty · 2019-11-12T21:25:04+00:00

I hear tinder is mostly used for hookups, so you use any other dating apps?

Also his game is weak af

CSQUITO · 2019-11-12T21:42:37+00:00

Woah he’s going the “you have no excuse not to” route instead of actually trying

modernmedusaa · 2019-11-12T23:57:37+00:00

uuuuuugh not only does he expect YOU to travel to him but he wants you to *chill* aka go to his so he can try fuck and not spend any money/take you out on a date. WHO THE HELL does this manchild think he is

Depraved loser

'omg my bro cody told me I just join this app and swipe for instant free sex why is this bitch not playing ball'

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-13T00:17:22+00:00

I had one open with "I know I'm out of your league, but I thought I'd give you a chance anyway" or some shit like that. I BLOCKED

This guy is just as bad with his bs negging.

Purple5091 · 2019-11-13T09:18:02+00:00

More like wants a live fleshlight to bring itself to him for a 'date'.. Argh these creeps are so predictably irritating

extraacct1234 · 2019-11-12T19:38:09+00:00

Pathetic

understatedalways · 2019-11-13T04:28:41+00:00

If a guy said some bullshit to me like that my only response would be...

Hahahahaha hahahaha

What a fucking dork.

90sCosmoEnergy · 2019-11-15T01:52:42+00:00

Okay, I can't be nice anymore.

LADIES. Stop with the paragraph-length replies to Tinder fuckboys. Just unmatch and leave them wondering forever how their childish little tantrum was received.

"Feel free to unmatch" is essentially reverse psychology-ing him to not unmatch. Don't give him the power to decide the outcome of this dynamic when he's already insulted you with his pushy manipulation designed to pressure you into sex he knows damn well you don't even want.

OP, I appreciate the heart of what you were trying to do here, but it was too many words, full stop. Your words are clever and interesting and valuable, don't waste them on dumb fuckboys.

Title	Backstory in comments. I’ve encountered my first low-effort man-child.
Author	134340-92494
Upvotes	76
Comments	39
Date	November 12, 2019 7:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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