How a HVW handles a date request

riseaboveagain · 2019-12-17T16:50:06+00:00

You don’t have to tell them any of your rules up front. In fact, it’s better if you keep them to yourself.

“Dinner sounds nice. Let me know where and when. I’ll check my schedule” is a fine reply

rftw2013 · 2019-12-17T15:17:06+00:00

"That sounds nice. I'm available for dinner Tuesday or Thursday."

If he offers drinks or dinner, accept dinner. No need to even mention what you don't want, just accept what you do want.

miramathebeatqueen · 2019-12-17T18:21:23+00:00

Big Boss Energy. Taking notes. I am taking a break from OLD until the new year. Working on myself and gathering as much FDS Inspo/ notes as possible!

THANK YOU FOR THIS

mandoa_sky · 2019-12-17T23:53:50+00:00

In my case I don’t really drink anyway so it’s kinda a moot point 😊🤷‍♀️

atx_grl · 2019-12-17T15:16:18+00:00

This was his response when I told him that he had gone past my 5 day limit of texting back-and-forth. They do not get my number (and I make that clear) until after we have our first date

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-12-17T17:23:16+00:00

Good example of how men “test” you and try to get away with doing less, knowing full well you deserve more. You MUST always keep your standard and never settle.

Halofriend101 · 2019-12-17T18:07:20+00:00

Amen, since I stopped drinking this is much easier too. They request coffee dates and I've straight up said no, I don't accept coffee dates as they don't take any effort.

He agreed and we went to brunch. He's great thus far.

1Here4Bach · 2019-12-17T17:24:59+00:00

Ohhh he straightened right up lol.

ponchoacademy · 2019-12-18T01:26:22+00:00

I'm kind of a jerk, but I'd still pass on this guy. I read this as... Here's all the things that I think make you an incredible woman, let's do this lame ass excuse for a date... Oh you wanna negotiate? Okay we'll do that instead. I don't much like the way he compliments her for expecting the decent date he should've came up with in the first place either.

I'd rather a guy who actually knows how to treat a woman and will do so, not treat me like I deserve less unless otherwise specified. If that's his idea of making a good first impression, it sucks.

light-love850 · 2019-12-18T00:50:00+00:00

Is dinner and drinks after acceptable?

Celestine87 · 2019-12-17T18:02:59+00:00

What’s a HVW?

KweenOfKawaii · 2019-12-17T19:53:09+00:00

QUEEN SHIT

Title	How a HVW handles a date request
Author	atx_grl
Upvotes	270
Comments	36
Date	December 17, 2019 3:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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