How did a conversation about working out turn into me cooking for him? That’s so cute, the lil’ baby wants something for nothing.🙄 (I have a food blog.)

Proud-Purpose · 2020-09-09T19:41:24+00:00

When you sending me money?

jayohday · 2020-09-09T19:59:13+00:00

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purasangria · 2020-09-09T20:08:49+00:00

Asking to be cooked a meal is now a total red flag for me. If I'm giving a dinner party, I'll consider inviting you if we're exclusive, but I'm not cooking for a man until he's my fiance and I have a ring.

Cooking is like sex, it's very intimate, and I'm tired of being used by men for either.

So no, I will not:

Have sex with you

Cook for you

Clean for you

Edit your book/paper/resume

No.

No, no, no. He can hire that shit done.

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-09-09T19:56:27+00:00

What's with the obsession with you cooking for them? How is that flirting?

jayohday · 2020-09-09T20:57:35+00:00

Wasn’t the “any results?” an attempt to get gym photos? Anyways he’s a scrote.

HexyHag · 2020-09-09T19:53:28+00:00

Don't sell yourself short saying you still look the same! You're adopting a new good habit and already feel more energetic, that's great! ^{^}

2020-09-09T20:00:15+00:00

Loser baby man only knows how to take

narcthrowawaydiscard · 2020-09-09T20:45:23+00:00

Seriously I love to cook and I’m very good at it. I’m not dating for a long time but when I do , do I even mention it or just talk it down? What about for friends/dinner parties? It just brings me a lot of joy to cook for people but I don’t want to be taken advantage of (again) for something that brings me joy.

thanku-nekst · 2020-09-09T23:20:00+00:00

A guy I was NOT interested in once said something like "when are you making me crepes" 😂😂😂That's really their idea of trying to woo a woman? Lmfao

mscristalconnors · 2020-09-10T02:12:55+00:00

Cook for you? I have men cooking for me tf? 🤣

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-09-09T21:06:11+00:00

Ugh my coworkers would do this to me whenever I bought something in I made. I told them I charge $20 per plate and they said that’s too much . I thought this was a cultural thing 😂

suspended_animation_ · 2020-09-09T22:39:30+00:00

I hate it when they do that. I used to be a hostess for evening socials at a hotel. It bugs me when men flirt with "I like a woman who cooks like you." " When are you coming over to cook for me?" "You cook good, you must be married right?" I could only cringe inside as I wouldn't be allowed to tell the guests off if they were flirty. It was an ultimate test of my patience

2020-09-09T19:56:48+00:00

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

ScallionOk958 · 2020-09-10T04:52:35+00:00

And on top of this he assumes that you don’t like the way you currently look?

newuser20202020 · 2020-09-10T09:14:15+00:00

I used to block whenever this messages was received. I wish I turned the tables and said, you first! Ha.

rideoffalone · 2020-09-10T09:38:26+00:00

Hope you blocked him immediately.

Title	How did a conversation about working out turn into me cooking for him? That’s so cute, the lil’ baby wants something for nothing.🙄 (I have a food blog.)
Author	kittykittywoofwoof
Upvotes	144
Comments	41
Date	September 9, 2020 7:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ipngje/how_did_a_conversation_about_working_out_turn/
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