He lied. The man I’ve been seeing got me infected. I have always been a stickler about my health and continue to get tested regularly. I find out after 3 years I get chlamydia…I have been madly in love with this man has only been my 3rd partner.

It’s strange because I suspected he had been cheating on me because he would always be sneaking around and doing god knows what it and never showed me his phone. I knew the red flags and there was ALOT but I was too blind to see them. Until today.

I brought this up and told him. I explained to him; how I’ve only been faithful to him and how he knows I take my health very seriously and we mainly used protection but sometimes BEGGED ME (i know I should’ve stand my ground) but despite me telling him all this. He has the audacity to gaslight me and say well “you never proved to me how many partners you truly had” and then tries to send me Google sites of how u can contact chlamydia from dirty toilets seats and fluids. Completely trying to dodge responsibility. I’m torn and broken. This man is not HV.