Just... NO 🤢🤮

BasieSkanks · 2020-12-03T04:45:06+00:00

Why should women have to *ask* to be pleasured? Why can't men take the initiative and try to find out what makes us feel good sexually? These men who are shit in bed can learn complex information. Men who are bad in bed and "ignorant" of female sexual biology can be doctors, lawyers, quantum physicists, engineers, ect. Their inability to pleasure us is not down to lack of intellect, after all, many of them also watch porn and visit prostitutes. They just don't care.

Sage_Planter · 2020-12-03T03:24:14+00:00

INB4 the man's on deadbedrooms complaining about how his girlfriend isn't enthusiastic about sex...

pureRitual · 2020-12-03T03:32:32+00:00

Stop sucking his dick. I have I rule; ill only consider fucking you if you make me come first" if they don't get it, move on. When I was younger, I had a guy stop going down on me, so I stopped going down on him. Easy. I should have stopped having sex with him completely, but I was young and dumb

luna_prismatic · 2020-12-03T04:12:27+00:00

I hate how a woman orgasming/feeling pleasure is defined as “her needs” and therefore something she needs to educate/communicate/be firm about, but a man orgasming is basically the definition of what sex is. It’s a given. Pisses me off.

ivarteefies · 2020-12-03T02:55:50+00:00

Besides non-consensual sex, I have no clue how humans ever reproduced. What woman wants THAT?

Bitemebitch00 · 2020-12-03T03:41:48+00:00

I just sighed when I read this. I have no more words to say.

Edit: I might have to delete reddit for my mental health because I see this glimpses of mens innerworld and I just feel like I'm going to explode in anger.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-03T03:38:08+00:00

No I don't have to explain to an adult man that I need foreplay and he can't just ram his dick into me. I consider that rape because I didn't fucking consent to it. And it's sexual abuse. Fuck off.

ShortandRatchet · 2020-12-03T02:58:14+00:00

Honestly I would just leave because a dumb dude like that doesn’t deserve access to any woman’s body

cicerii · 2020-12-03T09:53:59+00:00

Some guys literally don't know, because they learned about sex from porn. That's why it's so frustrating. The guy I lost my virginity to (we lost it to each other) was inexperienced and acted like he knew exactly what girls liked in bed (porn addict). Of course, I was wrong when I tried to explain, and he was the expert.

DayAfterManana · 2020-12-03T05:41:22+00:00

you need to cOmMuNiCaTe

Inevitable_Soft_101 · 2020-12-03T05:44:48+00:00

My ex.. sigh. Then had the nerve to flat out ask me why I pretended to cum... imagine that.

GoldandGlowing · 2020-12-03T04:35:14+00:00

Yeah I refuse to suck dick.

Efficient-End-6273 · 2020-12-03T05:12:11+00:00

No girl. UNACCEPTABLE. Reciprocity is key. I was in a relationship like this for three years and he got bjs almost every day and every time we had sex— but I got oral 3 times. No wonder I was so dissatisfied 🤣 selfish in bed = selfish everywhere else too. Life’s too short to settle for someone who doesn’t want or care to get you off how you want. NEXT

romantickitty · 2020-12-03T04:23:15+00:00

I can't stop laughing

newprofilewhodis1352 · 2020-12-03T10:40:45+00:00

So many men have told me “I love getting my girl off! It’s the most important thing.” And yet... only a very small percentage actually do care and will put their dick in you two minutes after starting foreplay. I’ve been around the block (had lots of partners in my late teens and early 20s) and very few of them actually wanted to get me off... they just say they do to get you into bed.

discoveringliberty · 2020-12-03T20:47:27+00:00

Porn teaching that a woman's sexuality = fulfilling a guy's sexual desires.

gregorygregg_greg · 2020-12-03T19:20:47+00:00

This is proof he is porn-sick. Without porn, there's no way someone could logically come to these conclusions by themselves.

discoveringliberty · 2020-12-03T19:30:04+00:00

Ah this was me. Never again loool, no piv until I've already orgasmed, and then I expect another few too.

azngirl7689 · 2020-12-03T12:29:47+00:00

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yolosunshine · 2020-12-03T19:38:38+00:00

I love this sub

rayvin4000 · 2020-12-03T10:29:27+00:00

I read this reaaaaallllly wrong

LadyKaitlyn · 2020-12-03T03:04:59+00:00

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Title	Just... NO 🤢🤮
Author	greenteaapplepie69
Upvotes	677
Comments	63
Date	December 3, 2020 2:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k5ohnr/just_no/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/just-no.328898 https://theredarchive.com/post/328898

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