KiNkS dOnT HurT aNyone!!1 🤡

ivarteefies · 2020-12-20T20:32:45+00:00

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MadamLeFay · 2020-12-20T20:31:25+00:00

"I don't kink shame"... that's okay, I do. But I digress...

If a woman doesn't do what a man wants, he finds someone who will and it becomes the woman's fault. Yet if a man isn't satisfying a woman it becomes the woman's fault.

2020-12-20T20:49:28+00:00

You can't "ensure" anything, much less after he's already cheated. If he gets away with it, he'll just do it again. Imagine thinking you even have a chance at fixing a relationship! This guy needs therapy or he needs to get back with his ex-girlfriend - either way, leave the current gf out of this madness for God's sake.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-12-20T20:29:19+00:00

I wonder how many people in the comments are accusing her of breaching his privacy by following her gut feeling and looking at his phone..and completely ignoring the fact that he’s a cheating pig🤦🏼‍♀️🤨

GingeroftheDead · 2020-12-20T20:33:22+00:00

Oh and one of the top rated comments is saying break up due to "sexual incompatibility" and they should "both find someone they vibe with" as if it's perfectly healthy that this dude's entire sexuality revolves around being spanked and that he's willing to cheat to get it?! Like...imagine destroying relationships because you can't live without sore asscheeks 🤦‍♀️

GingeroftheDead · 2020-12-20T20:23:59+00:00

If she does not break-up with him... 😳

Espionagess · 2020-12-21T01:50:22+00:00

Cheaters will always cheat, regardless.

This time it's because she doesn't spank him.

Next time it will be because they had an argument.

Then it's because she recently had a baby and wasn't recovered.

The time after that, it will be because she was tired.

Then it's because a better option came along etc.

Cheaters will absolutely never stop cheating. Cut your losses the first time, save yourself from a life of misery. Cheaters are actively out there looking for your replacement.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-12-20T21:15:39+00:00

I know a dude who always talked about what his ex liked sexually and always compared her to me and I’m like yo, go back to her then since you seem so compelled. Damn, I’m not changing my likes to please you 😡

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2020-12-20T21:47:07+00:00

I dIdNt ChEaT eMoTiOnAlLy OnLy SeXuAlLy

As if it makes a difference. Tired of the lie that there’s a difference.

viell · 2020-12-20T22:26:55+00:00

How to ensure he won't cheat on me again

You can't. The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. So run.

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2020-12-20T23:52:06+00:00

I don’t know why so many people are under the illusion that a relationship can be saved after cheating.

Why is the partner who was cheated on always the one clamouring to save the relationship? Is it a trauma response to the disbelief of what has happened?

I’m in a position right now where I think need to out a cheater. He was a lawyer I retained.

I flirted with him too, though but he concealed his relationship from me. Then I saw him looking for hook-ups on OLD and then I found out he was in a relationship.

The only reason I haven’t told his partner is because I don’t know who she is. I have, however, found a woman who was his wife, at least until 2012, they have two kids and they follow each other on Twitter.

He and I have a few mutual contacts but they all work in law or journalism and won’t tell me who his current romantic partner is.

I don’t want to have to snoop around to find her so I think I’m just going to tell the woman I know he was married to, show her the evidence.

He threatened to try to get me arrested for harassment if I tell on him and he wrote that in an email.

I wrote back and said the current law in harassment does not protect cheating men from being told on and that I bet the police would laugh at him.

Coincidentally, his ex-wife/wife is a more successful lawyer than he is and I have to wonder how much that has to do with his womanizing.

What do I do? Do I tell on him?

frogchickenhorse · 2020-12-21T03:29:34+00:00

Cheating is cheating. It has always been one of my boundaries. There is no staying to work it out, to forgive them. Fuck that. I’m out the door, your things are on fire and you no longer exist for me.

AJLake80 · 2020-12-21T13:47:28+00:00

So they’re no compatible. Why on earth would you worry about saving something that doesn’t work anyway?

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-20T20:58:00+00:00

Omg... you first baby.. whack

Title	KiNkS dOnT HurT aNyone!!1 🤡
Author	GingeroftheDead
Upvotes	136
Comments	33
Date	December 20, 2020 8:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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