Ladies, expecting a father to support his child financially is LITERALLY MURDER

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-12-04T04:25:30+00:00

You’d think they’d stop having kids, but nope. It is their god given right to have sex, create human beings and not take care of them.

amievenreal99 · 2020-12-03T17:12:31+00:00

Of course, her having sacrificed her social life, career, income, body in order to raise his child and clean his appartment and therefore enabling him to have his career, which he otherwise couldn't have in the first place, just to be then dumped and be a single mum with no career or social life and provide alone for the child is her job. That's completely fine.

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2020-12-04T05:34:40+00:00

I’m sick of scrotes complaining about family court. If you don’t get your kids, you did something worth losing them.

I’m a child of the family courts, and my dad WON custody of us. Scrotes need to just stfu about child support and losing their children. They wouldn’t lose if they weren’t complete trash.

razseh · 2020-12-04T05:14:04+00:00

Yeah because 90% of the time or more it’s the mother that’s better fit for raising children. Don’t wanna be screwed by family courts? Don’t be a shitty parent.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-04T04:25:55+00:00

Oh my God these guys are insane. Imagine being so fragile that having to pay one or two hundred bucks a month for your own damn child's life causes you to kill yourself? I'll never believe that was not an act of "pay attention to meeeee! I'm the victim! Me me me."

GoldandGlowing · 2020-12-04T06:31:18+00:00

Men are the dramatic gender holy shit ☠️

Davina33 · 2020-12-04T07:52:55+00:00

Yet despite all of this they still refuse to wear condoms or get a vasectomy. They don't give a damn about their poor children. My mother asked The Child Support Agency to find my father and get him to pay up, he never did despite being a wealthy man. He had eight other children too!

thighsmatch · 2020-12-04T05:20:01+00:00

Okay, solution: Better paying the upfront cost of a sperm bank than deal with this later. They can’t cry about family court if we cut them out of the picture.

softensonic · 2020-12-04T08:43:47+00:00

Don't men on average pay like $5000 a year in child support? LMFAO.

Cognitivedecadence · 2020-12-04T06:28:12+00:00

I bet he killed himself out of spite to avoid paying

Diamond_fairy · 2020-12-04T09:51:03+00:00

I've seen the real deal in my family: the sperm donor always barks about being eXpLoiTeD for his money...

(What money? Where? Do they really believe that their wifes are there just because of an average wage that they can't even properly manage?)

...but nevermind asking full custody and showing real interest and accountability in every aspect of the kid life.

Just be the free time parent, put all the raising up and dirty work on the mother, and whine about having to put money on your own offspring. Spot on "how to be a sub-human" handbook.

tellmesomething11 · 2020-12-04T15:25:17+00:00

This infuriates me because men who don’t pay child support are literally scum. My dad was abusive and when my mom divorced him, she had five kids and he was supposed to pay 1k a month. This was in the 80s, I’m sure it would be more now. He didn’t pay anything, and instead had more children by other women he could not afford. Finally the state told him if he didn’t pay he would have to go to jail. However this wasn’t until we were all over 18. So he paid my mom for many years. But the money was needed while we were growing up. Because of the lack of funds, my mom ended up working long hours and wasn’t available to us, physically (attending events at schools) to emotionally (too tired when she came home, no help with schoolwork, barely feeding us)

My stepdad helped but it still wasn’t enough. So men who don’t pay child support or trash talk it are literally scum. They do not exist to me.

They also never want to wear condoms and think abortion is just a pill to take. They are mad when women have their babies and say they don’t want them but do nothing to prevent pregnancy. Scum.

yfunk3 · 2020-12-04T04:42:28+00:00

"Murdered by suicide".

😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆

0tterpop · 2020-12-05T00:06:58+00:00

LPT if you have your kids an equal amount of time and there isn't a financial gap between you and your ex spouse you don't pay any child support.

project-mangle · 2020-12-05T00:52:07+00:00

Most judges are men but sure yeah the system is rigged 🙄

FabledAngryVillager · 2020-12-04T06:07:47+00:00

I don't understand why she tried to copyright his suicide note?

And allegedly her father murdered someone? Also paid for her lawyers, which kept him broke and jobless? (I don't think I can link to the thread, but it shows up on Google.)

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/volokh-conspiracy/wp/2014/05/15/man-commits-suicide-blames-ex-wife-in-suicide-note-ex-wife-takes-control-of-copyright-tries-to-get-note-and-mans-other-writings-removed-from-internet/

I'm not a fan of men in general, but this one seems to be complicated.

IwantyoualltoBEDAVE · 2020-12-05T00:43:46+00:00

Interesting he pinpoints the 90’s. The same decade where rape in marriage was made illegal.

_narrowstraits_ · 2020-12-05T01:58:10+00:00

Why fucking have kids if you don't want to pay for them.

Title	Ladies, expecting a father to support his child financially is LITERALLY MURDER
Author	amievenreal99
Upvotes	97
Comments	29
Date	December 3, 2020 5:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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