LVMs on dating apps aren't looking for commitment but want to have kids :P

Nearby-Armadillo · 2020-02-21T18:48:23+00:00

They want to keep having casual sex until their mid-40s and then find a woman in her 20s to settle down with, marry, and have kids.

Because the internet has told them this is what they are entitled to

Master-Purple · 2020-02-21T18:43:35+00:00

It’s a trap to get women to think he might commit to them one day.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-02-21T18:50:35+00:00

They are just idiots.

I doubt they think that deeply about it. Durrdurr SEX, yes! Uh, kids? Uh....maybe.

They fail to put 2 and 2 together to even consider their audience's reaction because PENIS and general stupidity

SaddleUpBucephalus · 2020-02-21T19:05:34+00:00

When you're not a Pickme these men will desperately try to get you to commit to them.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-21T18:50:13+00:00

Look all around you. For every baby daddy there is a baby mama.

The primary fuckboy of my 20’s now has 6 children with 6 different women, none of whom he was married to (and many he wasn’t even in a relationship with). My best friend has 2 children with the same guy whom she was with for 10 years, and she’s never been married. My husband’s roommate when we met now has 3 children with 3 women, none of whom he was married to. I could go on forever.

I will never understand how we as women accept this shit. I’m good enough to fuck raw and put a baby in but not to marry (if that’s what I want, of course, because not all women do want that)? Well then you’re not good enough for me.

ros-bos · 2020-02-21T19:27:43+00:00

I was just thinking about this today as I keep it seeing it too! I pay for bumble (ugh I know) so I can easily scroll through who’s liked me first and the number of men looking for something casual but want to have kids or they already have kids and don’t want any more who swipe right on me is frustrating. I have it in my profile that I’m looking for a relationship and want to have kids. These men either do not know how to read or somehow think they still have a chance to get their dick wet...being 5’9 (I’m 5’11 lol) with 3 kids and that hairline? No thank you sir.

lonelybones1 · 2020-02-21T18:48:19+00:00

Some men don’t think things through. I know a man who is in a poly relationship and plans in getting one of them pregnant. He simply wants to continue his line while picking up as many women as possible. It’s an ego thing for these guys.

MissVvvvv · 2020-02-21T20:13:46+00:00

I spotted my shity cheating EX on a dating app, by the way he had busted teeth and a turkey neck. We are only in our mid-twenties I dated him in my early twenties probably twenty one years old super naive

Putting that they want kids is just a way to Foster empathy and imagination in naive women. Like oh my God what a great guy he loves kids. in reality this guy fucking hated my dog and literally tried to isolate my dog and my cat disappeared while I was dating him. It's just another way to fake.

Also, women who want kids don't want to date men who don't want kids.and women who don't want kids usually have enough boundaries to realize for themselves that they don't need to be a baby machine for society, so it wouldn't be a good match for a guy who's trying to manipulate someone. maybe he's hoping someone who wants kids would be desperate enough to waste her time. Also women who want kids tend to be on the nurturing side which is great for their emotional issues

Skittleschild02 · 2020-02-21T21:17:46+00:00

I don’t know. I just know it’s not my ass. I’m not going halfies on a baby for the sake to feel normal or feed my biological clock. Children is huge responsibility. It’s takes two to raise a child.

sadlibrarian · 2020-02-21T18:55:04+00:00

Seriously delusional. And they judge single mothers too I’ll bet.

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-02-22T03:05:35+00:00

I think a lot of them believe all women are dying to have children ASAP and if they say they don’t want kids no one will sleep with them.

moosecakies · 2020-02-22T04:33:08+00:00

I would say also 9 times out of 10 men also say I’m searching for ‘don’t know yet ‘ (uhhh why are you on here if you don’t know what you’re looking for ?! ) and then they also say ‘wants kids someday ‘ . SMFH 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

KAT_85 · 2020-02-21T22:29:55+00:00

I don’t think they’re looking to have children in a literal sense. They just want to leave that out there as a way of roping women into the idea that maybe they could be convinced to settle down

Quizillla · 2020-02-21T23:45:21+00:00

Omg yes!!!!! So may guys are looking for “I don’t know” or “something casual” but want kids some day. I just swipe no on them...

Title	LVMs on dating apps aren't looking for commitment but want to have kids :P
Author	Master-Purple
Upvotes	139
Comments	40
Date	February 21, 2020 6:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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