So I was just on an OLD site, starting to communicate with a guy around my age (51). Because I stopped dyeing my hair about a year ago, some of my OLD photos still have me with red hair. (I just removed the old ones so they can't claim bait and switch.) After about three questions he asked what color my hair was now and I said natural - black and gray. He immediately said well good night then. The funny thing is the guy is bald. Women love my gray and black hair and say that people would pay for that color. Men hate it but they also seem to take it as a personal affront. Why should it matter - it's MY hair? They seem to be offended if women have confidence, when we carry a few extra pounds or when we don't have dyed hair or makeup. I'm completely sick of it. Has anyone else had this experience?