Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!

Pornruinedsociety · 2020-10-15T18:21:00+00:00

He was doing really well till he said men are delusional as women are. I disagree, women aren't delusional, men hate women having high standards but they are not unrealistic and we don't flood men's DM's and comment on photos of people way out of our league desperately.

redwineandsolitude · 2020-10-16T00:50:37+00:00

Idk what’s sadder, the fact that men think they are entitled to literal models, or the fact that models will actually sometimes date down and give these losers a chance. I see so many beautiful, well-dressed put together women with absolute trash bags.

YbhVan · 2020-10-15T19:52:55+00:00

I appreciate he is telling men to level up. But they are leveling up so they can get with “Instagram baddies”, solely based on appearance and he talks nothing about other characteristics? I feel like here we talk about all the characteristics of the types of men we want, we focus a lot on how we want a man to respect and treat us. An attractive man isn’t automatically in the 1% of HVM and it’s the same for an attractive woman. But they are still only focusing on women’s looks just like everyone else in society. Do they think as long as they level up enough they will be able to get their perfect little doll of a woman? Kind of rubs me the wrong way.

Also the thing about how “men are just as delusional as women”......

elementalvirago · 2020-10-15T18:03:40+00:00

"Get what you are." It's so simple yet these men don't wanna hear that.

galvanicreaction · 2020-10-15T18:20:12+00:00

This man has SO much common sense.

He expresses it so well when he tells men to get off of porn and video games because they're making them delusional. I like how he calls out men who want a HVW to "help" them get to where they want to be but those same men wouldn't do the same for a not-perfect (in their eyes) woman.

hanjaporfavor · 2020-10-15T20:21:48+00:00

The comment section under his video is a whole messss. Men still being misogynistic and talking about women as if they’re objects. Talking about levelling up and until they get the IG baddie they’re fine with normal women. Tf???? I honestly can’t date guys anymore I don’t even trust them to make any sound judgement for themselves. And there was one lady that commented essentially reiterating what this guy said in his video and everyone jumped on her and called her a gold digger. They can’t even fake work on themselves without putting women down, disgusting.

mscristalconnors · 2020-10-15T18:40:36+00:00

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throwRAwhatisthis · 2020-10-15T23:29:40+00:00

And if they accidentally get the ig tier woman (bc she doesn’t know her worth) they get insecure af about the fact that she can leave them any second for a larger d*ck. So the neg and neg until she’s completely abused for being a normal person who sometimes takes off their makeup, or until she‘s forced to pose for her bf’s delusional standards 24/7.

alichuchu · 2020-10-15T19:37:16+00:00

Well, although this guy is a pos for saying the thing about “delusional” women, it’s a start for a lot of men.

hgd29 · 2020-10-15T18:34:47+00:00

This is the type of FDS post that needs to make it to the front page!!

He’s basically touting FDS for men: if you expect the best, become your best. It’s really that simple.

2020-10-15T21:29:41+00:00

I agreed with most of it except two things

1) The whole "delusional as women" thing that others have pointed out

2) Did anyone else notice that his only requirement to call a woman 1% is that she's beautiful? Wth. I understand staying away from women who don't take care of themselves but even if women take care of themselves, not everyone was born with beautiful features. I would've thought her kindness, intelligence, and family values were more important...

werker115 · 2020-10-15T17:44:24+00:00

I just watched this. I agree!

theoheart1178 · 2020-10-15T21:19:45+00:00

I like that he’s telling men to stop being delusional, I like that he’s coming at them with some facts and asking them to look within. I think that’s where it stops though. The problem with his view to me, is that there is some damaging underlying philosophy here that once you do x,y, and z, THEN you can be “happy”, there’s also thing view that somehow beauty and happiness or beauty makes someone “better” than someone else, and then there’s the reality that men can follow all the workout plans in the world but many of them are still not going to be able to live in a mansion and own a Lamborghini. I like the emphasis on men needing to look inwards but underneath everything this guy is saying there is still this view that the “best” women are the the ones who are airbrushed IG “baddies” and that the “best” men are like Henry Cavill or whatever. It’s just realllly superficial and promises to have the answers, but what about just being a better person ethically and morally and doing for others instead of “climbing the corporate ladder” and like only worrying about your body I dunno... I like it but it’s only touching the surface of the issue. He’s still trying to sell his life coach product by making men think that if they buy it, they can get a Lamborghini and some huge jugs lol.

throwaway_therapper3 · 2020-10-15T18:37:32+00:00

Just subscribed to his channel! He is a breathe of fresh air!

Title	Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!
Author	mscristalconnors
Upvotes	113
Comments	49
Date	October 15, 2020 5:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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