Men, Integrity, Porn

nymira-1 · 2021-04-25T22:03:53+00:00

Lie by claiming that the world is not misogynistic while considering sexual violence against women an entertainment.
Lie about it not effecting them mentally and physically
Lie about it not effecting everyone

ThatIntention1 · 2021-04-26T04:27:08+00:00

Has anyone else noticed/realized that all of men’s fantasies are somehow rooted in something violent/problematic? Maybe that’s why they try so hard to justify, and or deny their porn addiction.

bamboohobobundles · 2021-04-25T21:04:56+00:00

I've honestly only ever encountered one man who openly denounced porn for this exact reason -- too much corruption in the industry, no guarantee you aren't watching someone be exploited, plus it's addictive to boot.

Literally, one. In 35 years.

MixWide · 2021-04-25T20:52:42+00:00

I simply ask men to explain to me how they vet their porn to make sure the women in it were consenting to both the acts and the sharing of the video.

I have asked this question of several dozen men at this point. In every single case it was obvious from the looks on their faces that not only do they not have the slightest idea how to make sure they aren't watching filmed rape, but that consideration hadn't even occurred to them until I asked.

Any man who claims to oppose rape but watches porn lacks integrity. I will hold this view until someone provides me evidence to the contrary.

TululahJayne · 2021-04-25T21:33:10+00:00

I find this with men and pickmes alike. As soon as I bring up a talking point that wasn't on and IG infographic, they start sliding. I want my man and friends to find information out for themselves instead of just copy/pasting shit from instagram for a conversation.

Papaverinum · 2021-04-25T22:08:14+00:00

You can't say you respect women and then just go watch porn. Like, has anyone met a vegan who watches animal torture and abuse for pleasure? No? That's what I thought. Porn is brainwashing men to not respect women, and just seeing us as objects.

TAMITHROWAWAY · 2021-04-26T00:37:19+00:00

I remember my ex lied to me for YEARS about how much porn he watched and the fact that he watched port. I couldn't trust him and even til the end I couldn't and he couldn't understand why I didn't trust him. Like you lie to someone for so long and expect them to just be ok with everything. Nah dude.

HlGHFIVE · 2021-04-25T23:15:48+00:00

Hardest pill to swallow for me is that I will never find a man who meets all my criteria and I will have to either be single or settle.

We have to somehow find a man who we are not only physically attracted to, but who also doesn't watch porn and actually is high value and brings something to the table.

I really think believing a man like that exists is just like believing in the tooth fairy.

Men have no reason not to watch porn these days literally not one. And if they do, it's probably because they developed some kind of issue and have quit for themselves. I rarely see men quit porn for their girlfriend or wife, they just hide it better.

Sidenote: for you Lurking scrotes, yep. I choose me and being single over being with y'all. I know it's mind blowing.

stonerose036 · 2021-04-25T20:20:50+00:00

Completely agree!

Platipus6 · 2021-04-26T00:11:58+00:00

"It's natural, healthy, and all men watch it" as they lie, hide it, deceive you, hide in the bathroom to watch it, watch it incognito, hide the OF bill, use a burner, have a secret whatsapp group chat to share nudes

extralargepeas · 2021-04-25T21:03:26+00:00

Their pp is more important than integrity. What a sad existence to be controlled by your dick

eatchickpeas · 2021-04-25T21:27:49+00:00

their pleasure HAS ALWAYS been more important than the collective safety of women everywhere. they dont even care about children, theres no concrete way of knowing that every woman who has ever starred in porn is 1) above 18, 2) not being coerced, 3) not being financially exploited

Aromatic-Owl8808 · 2021-04-25T22:52:58+00:00

Their consumption of porn shows their true colors.

2021-04-26T18:27:07+00:00

These brainiacs will also try to mansplain to you that the women in porn enjoy it, that they are there because they love sex, and that they know the women’s orgasms are real... 🤨

I’ve been attacked by the dick brigade multiple times for saying something negative about porn in a context in which it should have made no difference what I had said about it. We went from talking about a multicultural issue to talking about how I am sex negative because I said bad things about porn.

Men who say that porn and sex are the same thing are criminally stupid. I am afraid of them.

NumberOneWetBlanket · 2021-04-26T03:26:03+00:00

They also lie about how violent and dehumanizing porn is. They'll say, straight to your face, that only a small subset of porn is violent.

ihaveafunnyname71 · 2021-04-25T22:21:32+00:00

Rare and valued beyond measure is the man not warped by porn these days. How I found one... I’ll never guess. But damn do I feel lucky!!!

radsera99 · 2021-04-28T15:47:39+00:00

I honestly don’t think you can watch porn and be a good person. Maybe it wasn’t intentional at first but men that watch porn will inevitably become women-haters and pro violent sex.

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Title	Men, Integrity, Porn
Author	Lost_Kale90
Upvotes	480
Comments	36
Date	April 25, 2021 8:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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