I just received my pension plan package from work. I just learnt some crazy things from their policy.

First, even if you’re divorced your spouse still has access to your pension. I repeat that scrote has access to your pension. And in some cases if he makes less than you, some of your pension money is going to go to him!!!

Second, when you die unless stated otherwise, your pension goes to an “eligible spouse”. My package said that it could go to someone in a common law marriage. In my area, living with a man for three years is considered to be common law. 🤯

Some of my friends have lived with their boyfriends longer than three years and if I had done the same, my pension could have legally gone to them. My girl friends tell me that three years is not enough to get to know someone, yet, my pension plan says otherwise and that they’d be entitled towards my money.

What I’ve learnt from this is to seek legal advice when I get married, and to never stay with someone for more than three years. In a few short weeks I have to decide on a beneficiary. I have chosen my mother to be my beneficiary as I don’t have children and I’m not married. My dad doesn’t need it either and his beneficiary is my mother as well. 😂

Ladies, please protect yourself and have your best interest in mind. You do not want part of your pension to be given away to your ex scrote when you retire. Also, your boyfriend should not have access to your money after your death just because you were with him for three years.

Don’t let these men string you along.

All I can say is that my vetting process just got stricter. 😝

Edit 1: My post has been shared onto some other redpill subreddit. They’re saying I’m “one of them”. Scrotes are mad that we’ve figured it out and we’re choosing to not stay with them any longer than three years. We’re not falling into this common law trap that benefits them from living with us.

The men who aren’t mad will understand as they have their own interest to protect as well. The ones that laugh and ridicule me are broke, jealous, and have nothing to their names. All I can say is stay mad!!! 😂

I imagine that these are the 50/50 scrotes, the men that expect sex on the first date, and the men that call you gold diggers for a $6 coffee.

We’re choosing to not share our wealth or have them leech off us. They’ve already taken so much from us being with them. From other posts on FDS, we are expected to be their live in bangmaid with the promise of marriage. Which is never the case. What happens is they’ll just string us along and dangle marriage over our heads. If we even do get married, it’s going to be a nightmare with these fools, and even then, getting divorced is going to be horrible.

We’re becoming financially literate and this is something to be proud of. The women in my family do not have these options. My grandma doesn’t have this, and my mom does not get pension (which is why I’ve decided to entrust her with this, if I were to die). Most of my female cousins and sister do not have this option either even though they work. For once, I’m just happy to have this kind of privilege.

The purpose of this post was intended to warn women against staying with men for a long period of time without getting married. Most often, women chose to overstay in a failed relationship. Sadly, this is the thing they have to deal with once they’ve retired.

Edit2: Reddit is sending me resources because they think I’m being suicidal. I guess I’ve angered lots of men… 😂 🤷🏻‍♀️