Pickmeshas be like

neonfairylights · 2020-10-13T07:42:02+00:00

Pls tell me this is a joke...

esthermaniii · 2020-10-13T08:24:45+00:00

Stockholm syndrome. This is scary. It’s wild how even porn conditions women to be okay with being abused.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-10-13T08:16:57+00:00

Lol what a roller coaster.

szuszik4 · 2020-10-13T09:35:24+00:00

There are so many things wrong with this.

If your boyfriend loves you, then how can he agree to physically hurt you? Surely normal, empathetic people would feel distressed at punching someone they love in the face, and feel even worse when said person flinches every time they raise their hand.

Sorry but there is something wrong with people who enjoy being physically hurt or hurting others. Especially people who gleefully brag about it to strangers on public forums.

fim_de_semana · 2020-10-13T11:33:26+00:00

I’ve been there. FDS made me see that men who are into kink are shit.

But that shit…stems from somewhere. I wonder what caused it.

burntbpd · 2020-10-13T08:42:31+00:00

Fuckity fuck fuck

CelastrusTrust · 2020-10-13T12:47:50+00:00

it doesn’t sound like she actually likes getting hit at all😔 i really worry about women today

leadmemories · 2020-10-13T08:41:04+00:00

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2020-10-13T11:53:34+00:00

Uh, flinching? That shit is very messed up.

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-10-13T10:06:35+00:00

I’ve said this before but women like this need to be institutionalized for their own safety.

textbasedpanda · 2020-10-13T15:48:51+00:00

I used to be a kinkmeisha! I've been through therapy regarding the types of relationships I used to seek but I never felt comfortable enough to discuss kink.

I obviously know that this isn't what I want anymore but I never really explored why I looked for it in the first place.

If anyone has any books/articles/videos they'd like to share about this topic (realising you're not kinky and it's just trauma) please let me know!

Lavender_flow · 2020-10-13T11:26:04+00:00

wtf did I just read

YbhVan · 2020-10-13T17:10:04+00:00

Her boyfriend now has a positive reinforcement for hitting her....

OrangeyPanda · 2020-10-13T18:00:57+00:00

All I see is a story about an abusive man and a traumatized woman coping. Non-abusive people wouldn't hit someone, even if they were asked too.

2020-10-13T10:36:40+00:00

"but kinks are healthy and normal between consensual adults! 1!1!!!1 don't kink shame!! 1!1!11!""

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-13T14:45:36+00:00

Men have so much power and it's still not good enough for them.

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-13T16:18:57+00:00

The mental fucking gymnastics. It's like her subconscious is crying out for help but she's so brainwashed she chooses not to see it.

rinabean · 2020-10-13T21:03:11+00:00

wow, it's almost like there is no such thing as "in bed" and "in the bedroom", because your sex life is just the parts of your life when you are having sex and not actually a separate woman's separate life

It's horrifying the knots we can tie ourselves into. The things we can't see even if we literally write them down.

the-red_woman · 2020-10-13T09:16:02+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA the brain cells on this one!!!

This girl is the one the other pickmeisha’s pray to for guidance 😂😂😂

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-10-13T17:04:46+00:00

It’s a cry for help.

juliet-elia · 2020-10-14T08:07:18+00:00

Even if you're into that kind of bs: If you flinch when he lifts his hand, he isn't safely "slapping you bc its your kink" he must actively beat you during sex to develop such a trauma response. You know who else flinches when her man lifts his hand? An abused gf/wife.

_xyoungbellax_ · 2020-10-13T09:14:02+00:00

Just gotta say umm wtf girl???

2020-10-13T23:52:41+00:00

The lies you tell yourself...

yanyanfan · 2020-10-14T03:30:16+00:00

Yikes this made me flinch just reading it....

Title	Pickmeshas be like
Author	Lilybb16
Upvotes	303
Comments	41
Date	October 13, 2020 7:33 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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