Quarantine & LVM

Blackishcat27 · 2020-03-17T14:40:20+00:00

He's not your responsibility. Would he do the same for you? I seriously doubt it.

PwincessGween · 2020-03-17T14:38:25+00:00

Dump him. "Somewhat" is not good enough for anything.

detectivejuicee · 2020-03-17T14:42:15+00:00

I feel like you answered your own question.

miz_nyc · 2020-03-17T15:09:55+00:00

You claim you know he doesn't deserve your attention and yet you still give him attention?

Are you sure it's him you're worried about being alone or yourself? I'm seeing a lot of women (here and irl) who live alone and they keep making up reasons why they need to contact a trash LVM because they're "worried" about him. Ask yourself honestly, is the only reason you're contacting him because you're afraid of being alone?

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-03-17T15:54:34+00:00

Omg. No! He wants a hole to nut in and someone cooking for him. What is he bringing to the table?! What supplies, what skills?! Could you deal with being stuck with him for a month or more? What if these 2 weeks are just the beginning? Can your supplies handle another person mooching off them?

SarcasmSlide · 2020-03-17T15:00:14+00:00

Quarantine fines are $2000 in some places. I don’t know how much the fines are where you live, but are you willing to lose your hard earned money to help an LVM with his fee fees? Would he reimburse you for the cost? Block and forget him.

Radiant_Success · 2020-03-17T16:04:28+00:00

Uh, is he your SPOUSE?

This is a man who has made a conscious active choice to be single. A bachelor. Not committed.

Let him be quarantined single. Why are you trying to give his lonely ass the perk and benefit of togetherness?

SarcasmSlide · 2020-03-17T18:31:06+00:00

OP I’ve read through your posting history. You aren’t even pretending to follow FDS philosophies. Not in this forum, and not any other forums. I wish you peace but I’m not going to waste my energy on any woman determined to remain a Pickme.

This is a reminder, ladies, that the influx in traffic here will continue to bring people who don’t read the materials and aren’t interested in adopting the principles. Can’t help those who won’t help themselves.

2020-03-17T15:33:40+00:00

You don't want to do it.

So don't. You are allowed to give yourself permission not to do things going forward.

Soulsalts · 2020-03-17T16:20:13+00:00

If it's making you feel guilty that he will have to spend time alone, just reframe it in your mind. Like so:

This is a tremendous opportunity for him. He will be alone with himself for weeks, probably for the first time in his life, and he can use this opportunity to learn some truths about himself.

If he doesn't enjoy his own company, it's likely because he has a dirty conscience. With no one to distract and appease him, he may actually realize that he is a LVM, and he may realize that that's not what he really wants to be.

This will be a time of great introspection, for him and for all of us. Please don't get in the way of his spiritual journey.

level_up_always · 2020-03-17T17:15:00+00:00

lmao @ "quarantine together" the new netflix and chill! gross

and no absolutely not lvm are energy sucking vampires don't give yourself away girl mommy can come and keep him company if he's scared like seriously.... come on

SarcasmSlide · 2020-03-17T14:49:35+00:00

If he’s a selfish LVM why would you feel bad for him? Because he has to be a big boy and fend for himself for 2 whole weeks? Your socialization is showing.

Adela-Siobhan · 2020-03-17T16:14:38+00:00

If he’s scared of being alone, he’ll be reaching out to others as well. Let him. Maybe one of his buddies will allow him at his place where they can be platonic and bond as bros in the man cave.

Adela-Siobhan · 2020-03-17T20:37:26+00:00

Alright girls, I heard you. He won't be allowed in my apartment. I won't let him make me feel bad for leaving him alone. I know I'll still feel guilt because we are still friends, but it's not the end of the world. I'll just toughen up and stand my ground. Thank for the advice you all, I needed a reminder to not have too much empathy towards someone who doesn't deserve it. Stay safe!

AyemHerself · 2020-03-17T16:44:52+00:00

It's his fault he's alone. And he wouldn't be considering spending this much time with you without the quarantine as an excuse.

Don't pick your ex over yourself and roommate.

gursky0 · 2020-03-17T16:52:19+00:00

Don’t do it, don’t risk your health or the fine. You have no obligation to him, so don’t worry about him. Also, being alone isn’t that hard.

jmaydizzle · 2020-03-17T17:35:28+00:00

There’s a reason he’s alone in the first place.

Do not give in. He’s not a child he should be able to entertain himself! And if he can’t, he’s low value and shit and you should not be his saviour

traditsh · 2020-03-17T20:02:03+00:00

Read the handbook before posting next time. :) All of our advice is going to line up with it. Our advice will never not line up with the handbook.

Read the handbook.

PurblWasp · 2020-03-17T21:03:00+00:00

You are not as selfish as him for not being manipulated. Stop being a pickme.

Title	Quarantine & LVM
Author	dodilolol
Upvotes	19
Comments	47
Date	March 17, 2020 2:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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