Sex in a relationship...

dembar126 · 2021-02-06T04:35:02+00:00

For the majority of men, the only reason to be in a relationship with a woman is for sex. That's it. Pretty much every guy I've ever dated, whenever they'd come to my place or vice versa, they'd expect sex.

If they ever spent time with me and I turned sex down, there was always this uncomfortable aura of resentment coming from them. Like "what was the point of seeing you then??" Even if they didn't outright say it, I could tell they were thinking it.

wondertarget · 2021-02-06T02:44:22+00:00

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randomgirlimok · 2021-02-06T04:36:44+00:00

Men need to realize that doing a chore does not automatically get them sex. “I cooked dinner tonight, why won’t she have sex with me??” This is no different than changing out the empty toilet paper roll and expecting a reward. It’s something that he should be doing anyway when both people are working which is literally everyone I know.

levelupqueen92 · 2021-02-06T06:50:24+00:00

When the marital rape law was passed in my country a lot of men online didn't understand what the law was for. Their logic was " now, we can't even have sex with our own wives?". I mean yes, you can have sex with your wife when she consents but when she says no and you still do it then it's a rape. How hard is it understand?

millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-06T03:06:29+00:00

* while they begrudgingly give the bare minimum in return and still resent you

Mcccy · 2021-02-06T02:27:12+00:00

Sis I know, a big majority seems to think we're just available 24/7 If we are dating/are married. Also the fact that sex terms like 'morning sex" and "Quickie" exist, aka. sex that only guys get any pleasure cause men I guess, proves how self centered they are and how little they are willing to give in return, not even the bare minimum.

I too, am exhausted of being around men. Only exception of my gay guy friends, cause apperantly a guy who isn't attracted to women knows how to show more love and respect than someone who's supposed to be attracted to women

-pop-fizz-clink · 2021-02-06T10:52:40+00:00

1754 and women aren't the property of men anymore?

It was in 1983 that Canada finally made martial rape a criminal offense.

Do you know what happens to a lot of rapists in Canada?

Nothing. Our country is more worried about jailing drug users, the unsheltered, the poor, BIPOC folks.

If you hurt women or kids, you'll likely walk. You might get a slap on the hand. The only reason why the late Dr. Elana Frics husband got the time that he did, was because the whole medical community was backing her and she/her family has a bit of wealth. He can get parole in 14 years. We keep Paul Bernardo in solitary, to protect him (it turns out the other folks in prison don't like him due to what he did), which costs the country a boatload of money (our prisons are not private, they are tax funded).

But, you know, my white male colleague tells me once a week I have the most protected status of all people, because I'm a white woman.

We don't have a sex offender registry that is for public viewing. You can't do background checks on other individuals. The only reason I found out that a guy who asked me on a date had sex with a 16 year old girl at 38, was because I found out his last name and googled him. There was one article about what he did. That's it. He has also worked with kids, which is obviously extremely concerning. He said to me "we better have sex soon". So no, he isn't sorry and he will eventually do it again. Imagine getting angry with a woman that she hasn't had sex with you after two hangouts.

They make it so hard for women to stay and be safe here. "Disappointed but not surprised" when I found out that raping your spouse has only been a crime for less than 40 years.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-02-06T08:47:21+00:00

“Morning sex” is just them using your body for getting off so they can clear their minds and get on with their days

EarthKveik · 2021-02-06T12:54:05+00:00

Don't let them censor you, your post was great. Block and ignore these oxygen thieves.

EarthKveik · 2021-02-06T11:59:34+00:00

"Maslows hierarchy" can die in a ditch.

2021-02-06T14:30:55+00:00

STOP HAVING SEX WITH MEN!

Ok-Firefighter-2266 · 2021-02-06T13:56:06+00:00

I don’t understand censoring posts. We already know butthurt men are lurking and are going to continue to do what they do. You can apply the block...delete...continue to live your life to any situation, not just romantic relationships. Please consider editing the original content back in your post. This could help someone.

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-02-06T18:53:31+00:00

Exactly women are now being told that men are no longer providers and won’t pay for everything in the relationship anymore but sex is still considered a necessary chore when in a relationship with them? How about no thanks ✌️

witchingsauce · 2021-02-06T18:06:06+00:00

I don’t understand why they always insist sex is a need. Sex with a partner is a want, a desire to please the partner because it’s an interaction. Each party should make it worthwhile for the other in an interaction, therefore it hinges on pleasing the partner. Instead they redefined sex as desire to pleasure themselves and push it as a need. If it’s not about the partner, then pleasure yourself with the hand, and if it’s not enough there’re sex toys. Even if we assume genital stimulation is a need, sex is not.

Title	Sex in a relationship...
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	428
Comments	69
Date	February 6, 2021 2:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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