Some of you ladies post pics of your conversations with LVM, and they always provide me with a good laugh.

However, I can’t help but notice a pattern of either explaining to a LVM what he did wrong or engaging him with passive aggressive remarks.

DON’T DO THIS.

Stop engaging LVM once they have outed themselves as LVM. You don’t need to get the last word in, nor do you need to “own him” or insult him. Men love this because they know what they said/did had complete power to evoke negative emotions out of you. You know what men hate though? They hate being ghosted like they’re worthless. They hate being blocked like they’re worthless. They hate being completely & utterly ignored like they’re worthless. These deal WAY MORE DAMAGE than a snarky remark.

Also, STOP EXPLAINING TO LVM WHAT THEY DID WRONG. I really don’t even understand this one. What’s the point? A LVM isn’t going to fundamentally change just because a girl on OLD called out his low effort. Instead, he is just going to take that vital piece of information and apply it to the next girl; not because he wants to be a better man but because he wants a better chance at getting laid.

Once a LVM has revealed himself, just block/delete/ignore. Do not engage and do not explain. You are only doing him a favor by doing so.