Talked to him <day and he jokes I should come clean his house and he'll pay me in hugs... was gonna block then but needed to tell him off first. It cutoff my text but I said I'm here to go on dates and I think what you said about hugs is a cheap cop out you know you can do much better.

warinmymind94 · 2020-05-03T22:43:38+00:00

OP here... also just wanted to add its disgusting he actually thinks hes a decent person... because nothing screams schrodinger's douchebag like jokingly asking a woman to your house to clean up for you and then "hug" her 🤢 then when called out say it's a joke 🤡 don't worry he was blocked before anymore time was wasted.

quaintlyspoken · 2020-05-03T23:31:45+00:00

I'm a mysoginist why aren't you laughing and desperate for my approval hurr durr 🙄

Saitschik · 2020-05-04T00:00:46+00:00

Hur hur hur "Who hurt you" their favorite tool to shame women.

I love how triggered he was being called a clown tho. Because that's what they are, dumb and unfunny clown

Seraphinx · 2020-05-03T23:55:11+00:00

'I dunno who hurt you but...'

I love the way men always have to trash women who respect themselves and don't put up with bullshit, implying we're damaged and unreasonable for having standards.

yellow_fisher · 2020-05-04T00:01:21+00:00

Lol why do guys act like their hugs are God’s gift to earth? Yes, a hug from a boyfriend is nice and comforting, but from someone you hardly know/are just talking to?

It makes me gag when guys assume I value/need their hugs. All the guys I’ve encountered who offer their hugs as replacement for actual emotional support or as a way to repay you have been LVM.

warinmymind94 · 2020-05-04T00:20:46+00:00

OK but what's up with men and their "I run on sarcasm" slogan ? I swear most of the dudes I knew said that. Do they think that it is a personality trait ?

But the conversation killed me😂😂😂😂😂he was so hurt by the fact that you called him a clown😭

Capable_Okra · 2020-05-04T01:00:24+00:00

Every POS guy thinks he's a "decent person". Life must be easy when the bar is set so incredibly low 🙄

2020-05-03T23:31:01+00:00

What an asshole... he wants a maid, not a date. Thanks, no! Lol

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-05-04T01:09:41+00:00

🚗🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

He’s the whole clown car

fromdusktildawnzzz · 2020-05-04T00:14:12+00:00

It’s always a ‘just a joke’ when a guy gets rejected for his bs behaviour, yet I bet he would have gladly taken you up on the offer if you had actually said yes 🙄

devoushka · 2020-05-04T02:46:33+00:00

Somewhat similar...a guy on Hinge asked me if I'd cook for him on our first date. I said not a chance, but maybe if we're still dating several months later. He just stopped responding lol

cremeblushers · 2020-05-04T02:51:05+00:00

The fact he said “challenge accepted” when asked for basic decency 🤢. This generation of dudes are brain dead when it comes to dating, and they’ll be the same ones in 20 years complaining about how “da evil womens” are the reason why he’s alone.

radical__daphne · 2020-05-04T03:47:15+00:00

Men HATE being called on their shit

ImPiqued1111111 · 2020-05-04T02:11:10+00:00

So, you were talking to this guy for less than a day, and he comments on what you "always" do, and what you're "obsessed" with calling "everyone"? What the hell?

ny-lady · 2020-05-04T10:29:58+00:00

Funny you don't have to be hurt by men to recognize a clown... A clowns a clown.

juliet-elia · 2020-05-04T10:31:36+00:00

The worst thing is it ain't even funny

Ms_Tilly · 2020-05-04T01:35:46+00:00

Stop rewarding their bad behavior by "telling them off". They thrive on the negative attention.

theglossiernerd · 2020-05-04T16:18:04+00:00

“I’m very sarcastic” always means “I’m a fucking asshole”

2020-05-04T18:53:12+00:00

I wish you the best and hope you find what you're looking for, but it's not me.

Damn straight it isn't. The fact that he's even saying this means he's attempting to make it seem like he's the one who decided it, but he got rejected way earlier than his puny brain caught up with the reality of the situation. "You're not firing me, I quit!" So predictable and boring.

What a dumbass.

NihilisticBuddhism · 2020-07-11T16:42:18+00:00

...but it’s not me.

No shit, she already told you she wasn’t interested.

Lmao I love it when they try to pick up their ego by declining after being declined. Acting like it was their decision in the first place lol. Pathetic.

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