Long story short...I’ve been seeing this guy for the last few months (25F here), he is a 35M. We averaged 1 date a week. He was always terrible at communicating with me between dates and said he was busy with work. He’s a high value man for sure, extremely good looking and runs his own company. We’ve been sleeping together since the third date. Anyway, the prior weekend he went to Miami so we couldn’t hang. I expected him to text me when he got back but he didn’t. So I texted him and his response was very very lackluster, almost cold. He asked what was up, when I responded he didn’t say anything back. So on Thursday I texted him that I missed him and he didn’t respond...it’s now Monday so he was radio silent all weekend.

So I wanted to put my pride aside and send him a text saying that if he didn’t want to continue seeing me he could have told me instead of ignoring my messages.

Any thoughts? Want to send it for a few reasons, even though I hate to triple text. A) I don’t want him to think that he can just slow fade me and pop back up in a few weeks or month when he’s horny, if we’re not going to continue this then BYE. I think it’s a common manipulative tactic by men. They never have the balls to say if they are done so they can leave you wondering just in case they want to come back when they are bored. Also... B) I find it overall rude to slow fade or ghost someone you’ve slept with and/or been on more than 3 dates with.

Also, if he wasn’t a high value man, millionaire, and we had such amazing chemistry, I wouldn’t bother with this. But haven’t had such a great connection with someone since my ex. Any thoughts/advice is appreciated. Thanks.