this makes me so sad

StormyL · 2020-07-27T22:48:06+00:00

I'm in my second trimester and let me just say that almost nothing is comfortable to wear. Even maternity stuff isnt as comfortable as an oversized shirt and shorts. Maybe he should try carrying a baby for 9 months and see how he likes it

snakeeyesninelives · 2020-07-27T22:00:08+00:00

i might be reading too much into it but it feels like she's not getting any love from her husband so she really needs to wear his clothes to feel any closeness to him. all the comments are like this: NTA! she's DISRESPECTING your BOUNDARIES and STEALING your PROPERTY!

Avoiding_existence · 2020-07-27T22:07:58+00:00

She's literally carrying his child.....I thought men were supposed to provide, not act like spoiled brats who don't wanna share their toys

Also whack how guys can recognize boundaries when it comes to clothes and not when it comes to unwanted touching or attention 🤔

dior-not-war · 2020-07-27T22:04:48+00:00

This is so bizarre. I’m the type of person who borrows tons of clothes from my boyfriend when in a relationship and I have NEVER had one of them get upset over it. In fact, they all loved seeing me in their clothes. So to me this is just weird as hell. I mean, they’re married? It’s not like he can’t also wear the clothes just because she borrows them, so why is he acting like her wearing them prevents him from having anything to wear? Just do some laundry lol

talldrankofH2O · 2020-07-27T22:12:39+00:00

She’s carrying his off spring and he can’t even let her have some shirts? Men rlly aren’t shit

_tinyimp · 2020-07-28T06:00:15+00:00

THEY SAID NOT THE A-HOLE??? What a hellsite

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-07-27T22:49:03+00:00

My exes didn't even ask for all the hoodies back that I stole... This is just sad.

oathmilk · 2020-07-27T22:07:10+00:00

Read this as: selfish scrote mad that his pregnant wife found a way to feel comfortable

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-07-27T22:43:18+00:00

I would cry if I somehow missed that I was married to someone like this until I was carrying his child. Like wtf, let her wear your damn shirt. She’s not wearing 15 shirts at a time, how is one shirt killing you

umbralgarden · 2020-07-27T22:26:14+00:00

This dude sounds autistic to be honest. He seems really upset at having his order disrupted and he's super particular about the texture of his clothing? He also seems easily angered/enraged about borrowing from his PREGNANT wife in general. So, control and organization issues, very particular about the feel of his clothing but refuses to search for more, and easily angry about possessions. My ex had high functioning autism and was the exact same way.

I can MAYBE get being upset at your wife stretching out your good clothes but let's be honest there's no way she's picking out his best duds to wear. But this is a PREGNANT wife, diff story. He is NOT ready for a kid if he isn't ready to have his possessions borrowed, messed with or messed up. Also can't you buy more clothes? If you can't afford more t shirts how are you affording a kid?

Fujoshi-kun · 2020-07-27T21:59:19+00:00

Lol this woman is carrying his child, the least he could do is let her wear his clothes from time to time. Gosh this is sad

warinmymind94 · 2020-07-28T02:42:21+00:00

Its t shirts and workout shorts... why does he really care so much? These arent what many would be worried about ruining like expensive dressy or office clothes. Smh. If he is upset about it why doesnt he give them to her? Take her shopping for her own mens t shirts and shorts? Or go and buy himself more? She is carrying his baby. He should be bending over trying to make her as happy and comfortable as possible, period.

avazing · 2020-07-28T05:58:49+00:00

I felt weird reading all the comments on that post. I definitely felt like this shouldn’t have been an issue and I feel like a man should think that it’s cute his pregnant partner is wearing his clothes! He can buy more t-shirts easily if he really has that small of a wardrobe that he’d wearing them affects him that greatly.

RiteWriter · 2020-07-27T22:23:24+00:00

Is he seriously feeling emasculated by this? Imagine when she births their child.

Caspian-sea · 2020-07-28T09:01:39+00:00

The entire scenario smacks of a selfish sensory-obsessed loser (who clearly can’t afford having a child) being somehow in a “relationship” with a woman who is so desperate for his affection... That she keeps taking his clothes in an attempt to be closer to him.

Feel so sorry for the child that’s entering into this union… He sounds extremely annoyed to even be with her.

indaazz1 · 2020-07-27T22:38:47+00:00

He sounds like a selfish manchild

ThrowRA-NWI-Region · 2020-07-28T06:45:01+00:00

I’m assuming they live together? It’s not like he can’t get the clothes back. Sad.

ItsFreezen · 2020-07-28T11:28:11+00:00

Hey scrote your having a child, better start learning to share.

2020-07-28T10:22:01+00:00

You can only wear one outfit at a time dude what the actual fuck are you even mad about? I hope she throws all of his clothes in a pile on the lawn and fucking torches them.

SayNad · 2020-07-28T22:40:23+00:00

If a man loves you so much, he will be happy when you wear his clothes because it shows that you are his - it comforts his possessive feeling in a way - the so-called "boyfriend's shirt" phenomenon.

This guy only loves his shirts and hoodies, not her wife nor the baby.

120492ksj · 2020-07-28T10:59:21+00:00

This makes me so mad. She's literally carrying his child and he can't afford to lose shirts? How shallow is he?

Title	this makes me so sad
Author	snakeeyesninelives
Upvotes	122
Comments	34
Date	July 27, 2020 9:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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