This was the fastest I have ever unmatched with a guy 😬

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-05T18:29:23+00:00

“Money is overrated” read “I don’t have any and don’t have options to change that so I’m going to act like it doesn’t matter”

“Temp job”. Nuff said

gutsandgorey · 2020-11-05T18:27:24+00:00

Wow what a gold digging bitch. He was probably a really nice guy!

/s

GIfuckingJane · 2020-11-05T18:49:53+00:00

To all the male lurkers who are thinking "Damn, doesn't she at least owe him a chance?" - No. Women don't owe men shit.

Poor people are entitled to food, medical care, basic respect. They are not entitled to women's romantic interest, time, or attention.

If you thinking "Damn, that's harsh. Rejecting a homeless man is kicking someone while they are down." No. Not allowing women to have the most elementary standards for financial security in a partner is trying to hold women down.

If you cant pay for rent, you are not in a place to date. Period. Get off tinder, work on yourself, and come back when you can bring something to the table.

softensonic · 2020-11-05T19:17:16+00:00

You can't have dinner in his car. Why on Earth does he think he's in a position to date right now?! Maybe his next move is to date a woman and immediately move in with her.

whatprettygirlwhere · 2020-11-05T19:17:49+00:00

Oh god, this gave me flashbacks to an ex who went off the deep end after we broke up and decided to buy a van to live in.

We got coffee together a few months later to catch up and he had lost a lot of weight, looked sickly, and told me all about how the "only downside" of van living was that he didn't have cold food storage or a bathroom, so he was showering at the gym and constantly had stomach issues from eating whatever garbage he didn't need to refrigerate. But he was adamant that it was "totally worth it for all the savings".

Bullet dodged!

dzgata · 2020-11-05T20:02:42+00:00

He shouldn’t be dating if he’s homeless, seems like there are priorities he’s missing out on. Oh yeah, men go on OLD to target women to fund their lives WAY more than the other way around. My friend used to work at a bank and she told me the amount of incidents where women sent money to strange men they barely knew or just started dating and then came to see if they could reverse it bc they were ghosted or played is WAY TOO HIGH.

Summerisle7 · 2020-11-05T19:19:59+00:00

Living in his car is pretty wild. My personal favorite is when they're still staying at their ex's house.

kimjongchill796 · 2020-11-05T19:19:39+00:00

Is he joking? He has to be joking. There’s no way I can believe this is real and not a joke. Is he joking?

Melyjane312 · 2020-11-05T23:11:33+00:00

You know it’s that season all the bums tryna get cooped up for winter. For some reason I exited out of reddit when I read that last line too. 😂

2020-11-05T20:01:14+00:00

I gasped out loud.... at least he was straight up about it right away oh my god

idiopathictendencies · 2020-11-05T20:46:28+00:00

That “s” on the end of “anyway” was it for me

hopelesscanary · 2020-11-06T01:58:25+00:00

It's always the ones with no ambition and drive devaluing the importance of money.

keep_my_stuff · 2020-11-05T21:06:10+00:00

I personally wouldn't have even conceded that money is overrated but that's just me (you may believe that money is overrated, so your agreement was genuine). Also, is his temp job really 'fair' or did your heart sink a little reading it? And then you tried to be non-intimidating, "we'll see" with the sweatdrop emoji, so that mr i-hate-my-job doesn't think you're better than him? Sorry, if I'm off in my interpretation! It just really reminded me of how I was on OLD, I can probably find exchanges like this from my archive.

I tended to be "agreeable" and not say stuff to contradict the other person's statement when texting on OLD, even tho internally i was like, nah? is it tho? is money overrated? That made me more tired because if I had held back my personality once during texting, I would anticipate I would need to do it more times and also even more if we met. It's a form of emotional labour.

Again, apologies if this doesn't apply to you. Blocking him when the car situation was revealed was a good time to block !

N2Gen · 2020-11-05T21:32:05+00:00

Ew. Lazy.

Risoa · 2020-11-05T22:57:02+00:00

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

InayahDaneen · 2020-11-05T23:59:26+00:00

Why do these men date when they’re living in cars 🤦🏻‍♀️

randomgirlimok · 2020-11-07T14:53:59+00:00

I’ll say it again, this is why I’m against #vanlife

2020-11-06T00:57:05+00:00

Why didn’t you unmatch him after his other messages on the screenshot? I’m wondering if you aren’t seeing the red flags I’m seeing in all his other messages.

clairemaffeis · 2020-11-06T13:41:26+00:00

I audibly gasped when he said money is overrated and liver punched me with the I live in my car!!!

Bitch what are you doing on a dating app if you LIVE IN YOUR CAR??????

throwawaydoll0 · 2020-11-08T14:14:09+00:00

"loo" dude can't even spell lol

Title	This was the fastest I have ever unmatched with a guy 😬
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	287
Comments	44
Date	November 5, 2020 6:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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